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Internet Training - 10/18/2006 5:00:21 PM   
DesireDeeva


Posts: 48
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From: IN...livin in MI.
Status: offline 		Does this actually work 4 some people? I have 0 interest in it, I'm a "hands-on" type of domina...

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 5:03:42 PM   
DeviantLady


Posts: 38
Joined: 9/12/2006
Status: offline 		Well I guess it must for some as there is so much of it going online. However, I would say alot of people use it as a tool to see if someone is willing to take orders and to prove their genuine.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 5:13:23 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


Posts: 2464
Joined: 1/26/2006
From: North Carolina
Status: offline 		To me online is just words. For me I need hands on and r/t training.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 5:22:31 PM   
WickedlyDevine


Posts: 63
Joined: 10/17/2006
Status: offline 		I need hands on too, over the internet allows me way to much freedom to be deviant.  I guess with cam it would be more realistic.  However, personally, I don't get true satisfaction unless my Dom is there to keep me kneeling.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 5:35:50 PM   
Noah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedlyDevine

I need hands on too, over the internet allows me way to much freedom to be deviant.  I guess with cam it would be more realistic.  However, personally, I don't get true satisfaction unless my Dom is there to keep me kneeling.


Freedom to be deviant? I thought that was the main idea.

I suppose there might be people willing to dom someone who can't be trusted the minute the dom walks out of the room. It is healthy to recognize your own needs and limitations. Good luck to you.

To the OP I'll mention that there have been a number of worthwhile threads on this topic. You might find it worthwhile to do a little search and have a look at some of them.



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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 5:46:37 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Online or Distance relationships

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 6:14:43 PM   
Kalira


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From: Fort Wayne Indiana
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesireDeeva

Does this actually work 4 some people? I have 0 interest in it, I'm a "hands-on" type of domina...

Same here. I perfer hands on

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 6:17:24 PM   
Diane269


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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 6:20:13 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

To me online is just words. For me I need hands on and r/t training.


Are you suggesting that the people engaged in online D/s are using both hands to type with?

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

Sinergy

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 6:23:22 PM   
Kalira


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However, personally, I don't get true satisfaction unless my Dom is there to keep me kneeling.

Now see, while I perfer hands on, I also find that I don't have to in the same room with him to keep my head space. It's nicer, but it's not a total necessity.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 7:11:09 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

To me online is just words. For me I need hands on and r/t training.


Are you suggesting that the people engaged in online D/s are using both hands to type with?

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

Sinergy



Well I wasn't going "there" but ewww.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 10:32:21 PM   
hsagnev


Posts: 188
Joined: 8/11/2005
Status: offline 		Although my preference lays in something real I have done online stuff before and all I can say is if it weren't for those experiences I never would have *had* a kinkified experience, well one I didn't pay money for anyway.    It isn't that I'm not open to meeting someone real through the internet, but it's a matter of finding someone of the opposite sex that doesn't find me butt ugly. 

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RE: Internet Training - 10/18/2006 11:05:04 PM   
WickedlyDevine


Posts: 63
Joined: 10/17/2006
Status: offline 		Lol, what I meant was I do much better with a short leash.  My prior Doms were not 24/7 but I knew if I felt like getting outta line, I could get quick recourse *grin*.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/19/2006 2:56:25 AM   
SirLordTrainer


Posts: 820
Joined: 5/6/2004
From: Indy
Status: offline 		Online anything can only go so far, you can read and study, even mentoring is fine. But as for 'online Domination or submission' nothing replaces realtime.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/19/2006 5:34:13 AM   
Jasmyn


Posts: 1234
Joined: 2/6/2004
From: New Zealand
Status: offline 		Never felt comfortable with online play ... I can't touch him, taste him, feel him, or read him ...

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RE: Internet Training - 10/19/2006 8:00:06 AM   
littlelostbunny


Posts: 141
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLordTrainer

Online anything can only go so far, you can read and study, even mentoring is fine. But as for 'online Domination or submission' nothing replaces realtime.


I totally agree with this statement. I read and study. But domination on-line and/or over the phone? It just doesn't work for me.


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RE: Internet Training - 10/19/2006 8:47:15 AM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirLordTrainer

Online anything can only go so far, you can read and study, even mentoring is fine. But as for 'online Domination or submission' nothing replaces realtime.

I completely agree with this, although those who scoff at "internet training" tend to forget there's a whole big handful of us in long distant-type relationships who do just fine.  The training of the mind, and of one's will can surely transcend time and space.  You don't always need to be in the same room for that. I do believe, however, that "real time" is necessary to bring the relationship to optimal depths.  Many equate "online" with cybersex.  I can't remember the last time I participated in such an activity - it's been years.  However, it does feel a desire for those who enjoy it.  But I'm not sure the OP was about just cybersex. Maybe it was and I missed it.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/19/2006 5:14:51 PM   
amaidiamond


Posts: 1793
Joined: 2/6/2006
From: Watford / London
Status: offline 		I had experiences with online D/s when I was younger and figuring out what I was, I found the experiences interesting but nothing beats realtime for me.

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RE: Internet Training - 10/19/2006 5:49:35 PM   
shadevarr


Posts: 360
Joined: 7/2/2006
Status: offline 		I am currently training my subbie online and over the phone. We both know that this is temporary until she is ready to move in. I see nothing wrong with it on a short term basis, especially when you find someone that you can connect with deeply. To those who think remote D/s is a wank fest, I wonder if you think that bdsm is just kinky sex as well?

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RE: Internet Training - 10/19/2006 5:56:22 PM   
DiurnalVampire


Posts: 8125
Joined: 1/19/2006
From: Nashville, TN
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DesireDeeva

Does this actually work 4 some people?

It is a wonderful intermediary step.  Angel and I are long distance, and until we live closer, like with shadevarr, I train him online and on the phone.
It keeps us connected, while we deal with the realities of location. Thankfully, ours is a temporary situation and I plan on relocating to his area by January.  Untl then, he performs his tasks and we talk online when we have to and on the phone when we can.  Being that he is a student, working around his schedule is hectic enough that we dont get as much time as we'd like.  However, the connection between us continues to grow while we wait to be realtime again. So yes, for some of us this does realy work.

DV

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