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Me, Myself, and I - 10/7/2006 11:17:11 PM

nrsbond

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Hi there. I am so new to this, it's a wonder my font isn't green. I'm 32, happily married, active as a swinger, and just realizing that I am totally turned on by being dominated. It actually surprised me, owing to the fact that I am a complete control freak in almost every aspect of my life. Yet, in the bedroom, I want someone else to run the show. Anybody got any ideas about where this puts me in the whole BDSM mix?? I don't know what to call myself. I know I'm not a complete sub. I REFUSE to do housework!! lol I know, I know. There's more to it than that. I know, that somewhere inside me, there's a reason that I am more turned on by the thought of being face down w/ my hands behind my back and not knowing who is back there, than I have ever thought about before. I really would appreciate some feed back from anyone who wants to throw some my way. Good, bad, or indifferent, I want to learn how this all works. I don't want to step on anyone's toes. I know the swinger etiquette guidelines. What are some of the more common ones in this lifestyle?
Hope to hear from someone about all of this. Please bear w/ the newbie. Thanks--NrsBond

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RE: Me, Myself, and I - 10/8/2006 5:06:35 AM

SirLordTrainer

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Greetings and welcome, your question would be better responded to in the 'General BDSM Discussion' board. But I will share with you the creed we follow of SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) adding further that while we do enjoy sex its far from the primary of the D/s dynamic. Good luck.

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