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nrsbond -> Me, Myself, and I (10/7/2006 11:17:11 PM)

Hi there.  I am so new to this, it's a wonder my font isn't green.  I'm 32, happily married, active as a swinger, and just realizing that I am totally turned on by being dominated.  It actually surprised me, owing to the fact that I am a complete control freak in almost every aspect of my life.  Yet, in the bedroom, I want someone else to run the show.  Anybody got any ideas about where this puts me in the whole BDSM mix??  I don't know what to call myself.  I know I'm not a complete sub.  I REFUSE to do housework!!  lol  I know, I know.  There's more to it than that.  I know, that somewhere inside me, there's a reason that I am more turned on by the thought of being face down w/ my hands behind my back and not knowing who is back there, than I have ever thought about before.  I really would appreciate some feed back from anyone who wants to throw some my way.  Good, bad, or indifferent, I want to learn how this all works.  I don't want to step on anyone's toes.  I know the swinger etiquette guidelines.  What are some of the more common ones in this lifestyle?
Hope to hear from someone about all of this.  Please bear w/ the newbie.  Thanks--NrsBond[sm=idea.gif]




SirLordTrainer -> RE: Me, Myself, and I (10/8/2006 5:06:35 AM)

Greetings and welcome, your question would be better responded to in the 'General BDSM Discussion' board. But I will share with you the creed we follow of SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) adding further that while we do enjoy sex its far from the primary of the D/s dynamic.  Good luck.




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