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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/1/2006 8:38:40 PM   
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I always wonder if I should answer yes to the multiple orgasm question.  I can have several orgasms in a short time or in an evening, but not like a rapid fire machine gun sort of way.

I do find it interesting several mentioned relationship or intimacy level as a factor in orgasms.  I sometimes have an easier time with someone I am maybe not so connected with. It just depends. 



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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/1/2006 9:10:07 PM   
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Signs Of The MultipleOrgasmic:
1.Your neighbors keep calling Animal Control about a wounded panther in the throes of death in the neighborhood.
2.The nearest EarthQuake Monitoring Station writes and asks you to move
3.Overturned Furniture
4.Footholes kicked into the ceiling
5.Pictures Knocked Off The Walls


LMAO!!!   

Okay, now back to the OP's question...

I am multi-orgasmic.  I didn't realize to what extent I was until I met Daddy.  He is a wonderful lover, and very skillful, so this had nothing to do with BDSM. 

That being said, once we brought the BDSM aspect into our intimate life, Daddy began controlling them more.  Sometimes He allows me freedom to just "go with it" and at other times, He controls how frequent and how intense they will be. 

I don't know if BDSM'ers are different than vanillas regarding sex and how they go about things...  Speaking only for myself, it has gotten more intense with the M/s component and because I love Him so very much...

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/1/2006 11:11:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well for me Bdsm greatly enhances both my orgasm an my partners but that's also because its a core part of who we are sexually an emotionally, and mentally as well.  As for your other question i would say i believe we are more sexually aware then vanilla but i would doubt more active, i mean to me gay, nilla, or lifestyle people love sex its who we are, and we have been doing it for about 2000 years now :).

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 1:28:31 AM   
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i have always wanted to have multiples, myself...but, being male...i'm cursed to one or two a night.


I wonder... is that the average? I mean nothing to do with sexual prowess or satisfying a woman or anything like that, but I'm capable of having a lot more in a shorter period of time, and I'm male. Again, no brag, just something I've always wondered about.

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 1:34:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		I will only cum once maybe twice a night if i am lucky, ive had gf's who were multi lucky cows. lol. bdsm enhances what i do an enormus amount ive cum so hard after a beating that ive shaken and sobbed lol amazing lol

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 2:41:07 AM   
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i have been this way before i came to become a domme all of the women in my family have this but we called it the curse lol we had no ideal what it was until i spoke with another no it is a blessing sometimes
 
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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 6:10:53 AM   
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Status: offline 		LAsub4real.. it varies.  i've been with those that have a short turn around, like 20-30 mins, and those that have 12 hours or more.   As long as the partner doesn't loose all interest in sexual stuff as soon as he's popped off,  multiples don't matter that much, it's just adding to the mess. lol.

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 7:50:59 AM   
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Are you (or your partner) multi-orgasmic and does BDSM enhance the frequency and duration of your orgasms?

Also, do you think that the average person who is into BDSM is more sexually active, aware, and physically sensative than the average 'nilla?   i know that there are lots of individual variations, but i'm curious what the general trend is.  i have my ideas on this, but i wonder that others think


Yes and no. The quality of the sexual aspect in my masochism is different, and thus I do orgasm, however, I do get more from sex at times. But, in masochism, it is all about the pain, not the sexual aspect or the endorphin high. That is simply icing on the cake. What I am after is my breaking point, and subsequent emotional release. In sadism, I can, and sometimes do get off directly from what I am doing to the other partner. However, I am more concerned with them, their reactions, and how it feels to me to act this way.

No to question 2.     

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 9:35:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Sign your about to have multiable orgasims. Your partners viagra bottle is laying on its side empty.

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 9:52:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm very multiple -- once I come, I can keep having them one after another. How many I get varies, depending on how turned on I am, so yes, BDSM makes a huge difference for me, since nothing turns me on more than being tied up and dominated. In fact, when I masturbate I can't usually have an orgasm unless I'm fantasizing about being restrained in some way. If I'm too lazy to actually put myself in some sort of bondage, I'll just tuck one arm behind my back. Either way, I'll have at least three or four on a bad day, and on a good day I can keep having them right up till I get too raw to take any more stimulation.

Yes, I know I'm a very lucky girl. ;)

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 9:54:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		i've always wanted to have so many consecutives that i end up passing out...that would be a trip.




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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 9:54:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hello There,
Yes I can be multi orgasmic. Yes BDSM dynamics can and does enhance my experience as the energy exchange does heat things up a bit.
I think people that are into BDSM are indeed on average more open about their sexuality and body than a lot of vanilla people are.
I don't think it's a blanket statement as some vanilla people indeed can be more sexual or self aware than some lifestyle folk. I think on average the scales tip the kinksters way though.
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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 9:55:46 AM   
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i've always wanted to have so many consecutives that i end up passing out...that would be a trip.




I've heard men brag they were good enough to make a girl pass out from sex, but I've never seen sex on it's own do this to anyone.
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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 9:58:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		being an honest person, i can truthfully say i have never made any woman pass out during sex...not that i'm bad at it, it's just that we both know when enough is too much...LOL

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 10:17:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am multi orgasmic and it does enhance things. I think people both vanilla and peoplein BDSM have different levels of sex drive. I dont think being in the lifestyle and particpating it makes a persons drive higher.

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 10:28:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		I and my partner both have multiples I have multiple ejaculations as well (up to 5 in a row)  BDSM does not enhance it in fact in some ways I would say it hinders it depending on how far we go. The most common time that I have mulltiples is durring oral as long as the woman can keep up with me which really takes a very rare woman to be able to do that.

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 10:58:40 AM   
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LAsub4real.. it varies.  i've been with those that have a short turn around, like 20-30 mins, and those that have 12 hours or more.   As long as the partner doesn't loose all interest in sexual stuff as soon as he's popped off,  multiples don't matter that much, it's just adding to the mess. lol.


Really... but my reset time is like 3 minutes! I always thought that this might be wierd after hearing stories and such. But again, that's me having an orgasm and I don't think it necessarilly does anything for the woman I'm with, so again, no brag.

LAsub

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/2/2006 11:49:17 PM   
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Here is something I have tried personally that works really well.Yes this is based on Tantric principles and for those who have never delved into Tantra before, this is a darn good intro.If you arent't multiple blessed,noooo problem as this makes the "singles" that much more intense!Plus this one is available at most of the major bookstores!

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/3/2006 5:03:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm multiple and extended and have learned to distinguish orgasm from ejaculation.

I've also taught a number of partners to learn to be orgasmic, multiple, and extended as well. (I haven't learned to teach female ejaculation yet.)

It is my opinion that people who explore pain play frequently learn to recognize orgasm in ways and at times that other people do not. Tantrically, learning to recognize orgasm in less traditional ways is one of the keys, imo, to developing these abilities. People who simply play with bedroom d/s don't necessarily learn these skills, but people who have spontaneously learned to orgasm from, say, flogging typically do.

So I would say that it's not necessarily related to d/s, but I do think that it's related to SM.

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RE: multi-orgasmic? - 10/3/2006 7:32:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		  i always thought there was something wrong with me....i just have the switch tripped and it just keeps tripping on its own.  
As far as D/s goes...eh  i really don't know   i kind of get lost  in there.   And for the most part I don't mix sex with D/s  they are 2 different entities for me. do i have kinky sex...YEP.  But i usually dont have sex with my Dominants.  I guess it is that Daddy/little girl thing?

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