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FelinePersuasion -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:10:22 PM)

lots of thudding then some stinging to keep me present for a little bit.



RiotGirl -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:10:49 PM)

i've always loved thuddy... so awfully pleasant.  Generally only engage in the stingy practice though.  Though i do mean thuddy like the way a flogger hits.  Stingy just makes you want to rub the spot.. atleast meeeeeee.  Em and well i can get some major bruises from stingy crap. 

Like i think a cane is abit more stingy.. but hell, what do i know? 



Tamerofwild1s -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:18:51 PM)

I love whips and canes . so guess what I prefer . but I know the warm up session should involve my paddles and my hand . all though this ham hock of a hand delivers both thud and sting .....I find mixing both will surely take a girl into space in no time but what really takes her there is the voice that echos thru her .... I'm sure synergy would agree .. our voice has to be our best "toy" to take a girl into space



alwayshis1 -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:20:00 PM)

thuddy is almost like a deep massage, and it can really let you relax. if you use thuddy for a while then change to something more stingy, you will get a more highten reaction, since you are so totally relaxed, especially if the dom changes without you knowing he has.



GentleDominantx2 -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:22:04 PM)

depends on setting, but thuddy I like for the most part. knowing that it can be felt for hours or a day or two much more enjoyable to me. Stingy works for a quick fix I suspose but Thud on is My vote.



juliaoceania -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:22:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ElektraUkM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I am a stingy lover, I love spoons, belts, his hand, looking forward to PVC pipe. I would love a rubber flogger.

I am not crazy about tree branches


Hello... I'm just wondering... when you say you love the stingy... do you have the 'ouch! no!' reaction to it... or try to get past it into just obeying and being quiet..? Is it the 'ouch no!' thing that you love and he loves?




I often say "Shit that hurts, ouch, no, blah blah blah" But I do not want him to stop...smiles. Most often I laugh. He would have to answer for what he loves about it, but I think I have heard him say once or twice it is my reactions he gets into.



kittensmailbox -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:23:21 PM)

i love thuddy... i can handle more with a flogger then a whip...  When there was a true punishment to be given, my former Master would use a singletail whip...  God i hated that thing....



sleazybutterfly -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:26:26 PM)

I love the "thud"..sends me into space so quickly.  I can take tons of it and enjoy it.

The stingy thing.. it's good, but I can't take as much and I guess I do make a lot more noise. 

I never really looked at it that way, but I guess it's true.  It probably isn't as good for the one giving it if you go quiet too quickly. 

I will have to talk to Sir about all of this and see what his thoughts are.



Sinergy -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:30:24 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I often say "Shit that hurts, ouch, no, blah blah blah" But I do not want him to stop...smiles. Most often I laugh. He would have to answer for what he loves about it, but I think I have heard him say once or twice it is my reactions he gets into.


Hello A/all,

I have studied martial arts, self defense, and a lot of body work (acupressure, massage, Ki Gong, etc) most of my life, and I would have to say there is an energy which runs through people.  A synergy, if you will, where the feedback loop (I give her feedback, she gives me feedback) is closed.  My head space doing this is the joy of watching where the outside world melts away and I am left in this wonderful cocoon containing the two of us.

I can understand where I am taking her, my whole life has been about idiotically doing things (fun as hell, though.  I can totally understand Jackass; welcome to my world) which cause me pain.  To hear her yell "No, No, No" while giggling her keister off.  Or watching her whole energy shift into deep sub space with a nice wallop to the face.

It is all good.

Sinergy



mam -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:53:58 PM)

I love tree branches, so I guess that would be a stingy for me. The feel of the slender wood that I have personally cut, thinking all the while of each knot that must be pruned and how that part will feel on my sub. The indrawan breath after the stroke....the patterning.... :) and yes the tip toe dance.



SweetSarijane -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:54:12 PM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I am a stingy lover, I love spoons, belts, his hand, looking forward to PVC pipe. I would love a rubber flogger.

I am not crazy about tree branches


Ooooh rubber floggers are fun!!! Stingy as hell and just yum!!! <grin>.



SweetSarijane -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 1:57:28 PM)

I honestly can't say whether I like stingy or thuddy best. I just flat love a good beating using plenty of different things. Paddles, floggers, singletails, buggy whips, canes, crops, straps, evil stick, hand, hairbrush both sides, etc. For me it's the mixture that flat does it for me.



juliaoceania -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 2:11:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

I honestly can't say whether I like stingy or thuddy best. I just flat love a good beating using plenty of different things. Paddles, floggers, singletails, buggy whips, canes, crops, straps, evil stick, hand, hairbrush both sides, etc. For me it's the mixture that flat does it for me.


My daddy stings my rearend until I am relaxing into it and then rubs rabbit fur on my hiney. He then starts beating me again. The reason for this? It is because your nerve endings start to become immune to the pain and the rabit fur is such a light nice sensation your brain starts paying attention to it, so when the beating starts again it hurts all the worse...yummy.



SweetSarijane -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 3:15:41 PM)

The one I usually bottom for alternates sensations too using quite a variety of implements. He's a paddle lover plus lots more, but paddles are his favorite. He uses rabbit fur and also will use a glove with a rough knobby surface near the end of a session. It just fries him that I love that glove after all the beating and bruising and the harder he rubs with it the better it feels to me and when all is said and done he rubs me down with ice and I just love that feeling after all the pain play.



Emperor1956 -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 3:44:46 PM)

This surely is a fun thread for Doms and subs!   I have to look for some more furry items (no rabbit fur -- allergies there, but there are LOTS of alternatives).  But I am confused, and maybe some of you can help me out:

More than one person has talked about "thuddy" being like a deep tissue massage.  I see that possibility, if I'm at maybe 1/2 strength, using a thuddy flogger, a live rubber "mop" (truly great fun if you can find one), etc.  For one thing, the rhythm is more massage like, steadier, and a bit "quicker".   BUT when I get going with a strop, or a tawse (both of which thud and sting) neither the rhythm or the apparent (to Me) sensation would be like any sort of massage I've gotten.  I'm deliberate with those tools, slow to strike, and after each blow a fair amount of care, talking, control (she needs it). 

So here is My question:   Is it a rhythm thing?  Do your Tops use the "thudder" with a more rapid, steady rhythm?  Or am I hitting harder than your Tops?  (this is not a contest, or a "I hit harder than You)  I think that I might, with an established bottom who can take it, be fairly harsh.  Its something I've wondered about)  I'm genuinely curious about this.  The massage comment made Me wonder about variations in style.

Thanks.

E



Nimkii -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 3:48:32 PM)

Yes Thud thud away



SadistCpl4fslv -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 3:51:27 PM)

Stingy? Thuddy?.......Damn, this is like choosing between my two favorite flavors of ice cream......lol.  To be honest I really get off hearing a girl begging, screaming, and crying; kicking her legs and wiggling her pretty red ass......hell of an aphrodisiac to me and stingy certainly does the trick.  But I also like using all of my implements which is a wide mixture of stingy and thuddy.   I think it really depends on my mood, and the purposes for the session.  If it is for punishment I usually will go with stingy(but not always).  If it is for pleasure, either start with thuddy and build up to stingy, or stay with thuddy if I want it to last awhile.  And sometimes I just get into a mood for a certain implement for no rhyme or reason and it doesn't have much to do with whether thuddy or stingy.  Strange as it may seem, at times my choice revolves around the sound the implement makes as well.  Stingy? Thuddy?  Have to settle for a double portion of both with whipped cream and a cherry on top. 



ScooterTrash -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 4:04:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: GddssBella

Thuddy - Not my personal favorite. Tends to lull the subject into a completely non responsive state of space where he/she just zones. I like some feedback, damn it! *snickers*

Stingy - Ahh, now we're getting somewhere. I'm all for getting my subject into space, but I want moans, groans, yips, yelps, whines, cries, tears, etc. Feeds the sadist within. I enjoy cruelty. In so many forms. Watching the subject get all fuzzy, then a sharp slap or crack and up comes those pleading eyes, begging. *PURRS* I prefer mixing the two for various results within a scene. In the end, we both get our ya-yas off that way. 
Well I'm not going to pick between the two, because I don't have to. I have a vast array of floggers and prefer to start off with something good for a warm up, then go into the matched "thuddy" floggers. We have these in different weights and tail lengths, so the result can be modified with style. Then, right in the middle of the session, when it is least expected...you pull out the crop, leather paddle or hand (it's a leather hand paddle that is about Shifted's hand size) or one of the floggers with the long tails and get some serious attention with the "sting". After the final warming up the target with that, you can then go back to thuds so your recipient isn't quite as reactive...lol. I usually finish off with the string floggers or even a swipe or two of the rabbit fur to give a relaxing cooldown. Somewhere in between there, I hope I remembered to take the clamps off of some other parts...lmao. Thud or sting?  They both have their uses.



ChainedExistence -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 4:14:10 PM)

I'd have to say that I love the thuddy more...partly because it does seem to be more rhythmic than the more stingy pain that Master loves to deliver. I am a music lover (Yes, My I-pod is nearly full) and the nature of the things he does with thuddy toys creates musical ideas in my head that often drop me into space. I cannot discount the value of the sting though, and I am learning to appreciate its effects over me as well. Ultimately it's about balance...some thud, some sting make for a happy slave!



kyraofMists -> RE: Thuddy VS Stingy. (9/18/2006 4:44:49 PM)

Thuddy!! 

But I like the kind of thud that drops you to your knees with the first strike.



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