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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 8:31:26 PM

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to clear up what I originally said:
cute= good looking, attractive, sexy, etc.
scary= overweight, hairy, unattractive, and out of style

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 8:35:25 PM

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(scarcasm)Wow, that makes you SO less shallow now (end scarcasm)

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RE: new and confused - 9/20/2006 4:39:53 AM

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SEEEeeeeeee .... I knew I wasn't the cute andcuddly Teddybear everyone was trying to imply ....

yessssssssssssss ... I am scary after all ... wooooooooooo

And this would be a bad thing how?.....lol.

Secret is out guys, everybody knows big badass bikers make the best teddybears.......

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RE: new and confused - 9/20/2006 12:29:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash

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ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

SEEEeeeeeee .... I knew I wasn't the cute andcuddly Teddybear everyone was trying to imply ....

yessssssssssssss ... I am scary after all ... wooooooooooo

And this would be a bad thing how?.....lol.

Secret is out guys, everybody knows big badass bikers make the best teddybears.......

Nahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....us pwhite collar sorts who are into hot rods AND bikes and D/s BDSM do...~g~.

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RE: new and confused - 9/20/2006 3:08:22 PM

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You want a "cute" Dom? You mean a "pretty boy" like Tom Cruise?

I cannot think of Tom Cruise as a Dominant. The few times I have
seen him interviewed I am always a bit shocked at how out of control of his own emotions he is.

But that is just me, and I could be wrong.

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RE: new and confused - 9/20/2006 3:12:40 PM

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I couldn't agree more Sinergy; any guy who tilts his head down and looks up at you through his eyelashes (ah la Princess Diana?) just can't be Dominant! LOL

Bleccchhhhh

edited for a GLARING typo!!! Sorry, Sir!

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RE: new and confused - 9/20/2006 3:16:34 PM

mstrjx

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So, lessee here.....

Overweight - conceded, but actively working on it
Hairy - well, at 45, the fact I still 'have' most or all my hair, one can't complain
Unattractive - probably to you
Out of style - not really, but probably to you

So, not completely scary. If you take a percentage, add a couple of things you might not have thought of........

Scarred. That makes me scarred.

Any takers?

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RE: new and confused - 9/20/2006 6:05:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sinergy

I cannot think of Tom Cruise as a Dominant. The few times I have
seen him interviewed I am always a bit shocked at how out of control of his own emotions he is.

I wonder... If Tommy is not a Dominant because he is out of control of his own emotions.... does that equate to him being submissive.

and therefore... does it mean he is submissive because he is out of control of his emotions.

Personally for me... being in control of ones emotions or not in control doesn't dictate a persons Dominant or submissive nature... But it sure shows emotional development of a person that is allows one's inner nature to show more clearly.

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RE: new and confused - 9/20/2006 7:40:45 PM

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Why why why are all the cute guys on here subs, while all the Dom guys are scary?
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Hmmm ... interesting. I don't think 'cute' is strictly a sub/slave thing. I've met some nasty looking scanks that were sub/slave and same is true of some Dom/Dommes ... But then I stop and think, why in the world would or should I care if you think I'm not attractive enough for you? In a couple of words ... I don't care. For me to care ... I'd have to care about you.

Then ... when one begins to care, the physical drops away and all you have left are feelings.

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