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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 12:34:55 PM   
Tamerofwild1s


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Status: offline 		SEEEeeeeeee .... I knew I wasn't the cute andcuddly Teddybear everyone was trying to imply ....
 
 yessssssssssssss ... I am scary after all ... wooooooooooo

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 1:37:10 PM   
raiken


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ORIGINAL: AbstractSavant

I don't think I'd EVER want a dom I would call "cute".


The one Master i serve, says "cute" and "Master" don't belong in the same sentence. *grin

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 1:42:10 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: raiken
The one Master i serve, says "cute" and "Master" don't belong in the same sentence. *grin


Hahaha I certainly disagree with that particular idea.  I know a couple where the slave calls the dom "Master Muffin" and they both love it.

Cute is not a 4 letter word :)

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 1:56:32 PM   
freex


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Status: offline 		I cant say in any way to tell one that it is or is not right all I can say is that tolerance and understanding that some couples where there is a Dom are closer to vanilla relationships with cute names where as some are not and things like that are not tolerated. There is also difference in understanding with age, geography, and relationship tolerances. I do not believe there is any right or wrong to this except for everyone to find there way through communication, understanding and respect.

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 3:10:17 PM   
Master96


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Status: offline 		Why Dommes are expected to be sexy and beautiful, where Doms are not appropriate for them to be cute and sexy?

Master96,

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 3:33:07 PM   
CollarsNcuffs


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Status: offline 		I'm damned cute when she says I'm cute and as scary as I need to be.  Damn, where'd my vanilla bitch go?!  Now 'scuse me whilst I go polish my leathers and chrome.  Need a new cutie.

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 6:17:33 PM   
CreativeDominant


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

SEEEeeeeeee .... I knew I wasn't the cute andcuddly Teddybear everyone was trying to imply ....
 
 yessssssssssssss ... I am scary after all ... wooooooooooo


I'm scarier.  And I've got the pic of my face to prove it...~g~.  So there...

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 8:25:04 PM   
Sinergy


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ORIGINAL: Estring

Why, why, why, do people come on this site and say stupid things?


Somebody has to?

Just me, could be saying stupid things, but there you go.

Sinergy

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 8:35:51 PM   
mnottertail


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FYI.
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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 8:47:32 PM   
WhippingPostNY


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Status: offline 		Bugs are cute!  I want to be handsome!

WP

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 8:51:43 PM   
prdslave


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What do you think of my avatar?


I think your avatar is scary, because I can imagine myself toppling over if I tried to stand up in a shoe like that. But if wearing them didnt require standing, Id be fine.

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RE: new and confused - 9/14/2006 8:58:20 PM   
Lorelei115


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Master96

Why Dommes are expected to be sexy and beautiful, where Doms are not appropriate for them to be cute and sexy?

Master96,


I'm expected to be sexy and beautiful? Crap! No wonder I can't find a good sub!

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RE: new and confused - 9/16/2006 3:50:27 PM   
wantitnow569


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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip
I wouldn't say I'm cute.  Sad for me, nobody thinks I'm scary.  And I am just a Dom wannabe.  I am much
more into bondage and S&M, than I am into D/s.   But in any relationship, I need to be captain, and need
an inseparable first-mate to work with me.   But as captains go, I'm the least commanding.  Those who
follow me do so because I am not commanding, because I really care about others, and because I cater
to the needs that others have.   I am a dominant with a submissive side.   The more dominant people are, 
the more dominant I become.  The more submissive people are. the more submissive I become, but I
always remain a little more dominant. 


whip, i'd like to be the first one (in a long line i'm sure) of people to formally tell You that You are scarey as hell..but then again, i find anyone who's as sick, twisted, and ignorant as You are scarey!!! i guess i kind of relate You to the flesh eating virus...or some other equally as horrible disease, that will slowly encompass people and then smother the life out of them...

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 4:49:40 AM   
diamonddreamlove


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Status: offline 		Wow must be nice to be so beautiful that one can criticise the looks of another without getting to know the person.  Hopefully you will learn that submission is not just about looks it is about the internal person whether sub or Dom.

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 5:01:51 AM   
ScooterTrash


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Tamerofwild1s

SEEEeeeeeee .... I knew I wasn't the cute andcuddly Teddybear everyone was trying to imply ....
 
 yessssssssssssss ... I am scary after all ... wooooooooooo
And this would be a bad thing how?.....lol.
 

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 8:56:22 AM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wantitnow569
i find anyone who's as sick, twisted, and ignorant as You are scarey!!!


Nothing is more scary than a person who is ignorant but attempts to represent themself as the opposite

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 12:13:55 PM   
wantitnow569


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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists   Nothing is more scary than a person who is ignorant but attempts to represent themself as the opposite


Sir, i mean this with absolute no disrespect..However, i do feel the need to inform You that i've never tried to represent myself as anything other than what i am...

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 1:12:52 PM   
kyraofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: wantitnow569

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists   Nothing is more scary than a person who is ignorant but attempts to represent themself as the opposite


Sir, i mean this with absolute no disrespect..However, i do feel the need to inform You that i've never tried to represent myself as anything other than what i am...


You have misunderstood what he is saying.  His post was an agreement of yours and not a comment on your behavior.  I am on the phone with him and he wants me to say that he regrets that he was not clear enough in his post.

Kyra

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 2:26:44 PM   
wantitnow569


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Status: offline 		Kyra,
If You are able please express my sympathies to Him in my misunderstanding..
my apologies..

< Message edited by wantitnow569 -- 9/17/2006 2:40:41 PM >

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RE: new and confused - 9/17/2006 8:27:51 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: wantitnow569

Kyra,
If You are able please express my sympathies to Him in my misunderstanding..
my apologies..


don't worry about it... my post was not overly clear.

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