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behindmirrors -> RE: Humiliation (9/9/2006 3:05:48 PM)
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Humiliation is a deeply personal thing, and some things I find humiliating would be comfort zones for other people. But, you were looking for suggestions, so here's some that my Dom has had me do or that we are negotiating:
- Kneeling by his side as opposed to being allowed to sit with him (on the chair or couch, etc.) at home.
- Going to a sex toy/book shop and having to ask his permission every time I see something I would like to look at or buy.
- Having to explain in detail a fantasy of mine to him in a situation outside of a sexual one (like driving to work, taking a walk, while relaxing at home, etc.)
- Making me ask for things I am uncomfortable asking for (this could be any number of things, haha).
- To be there when he explains to someone I don't know very well or at all (but he knows is kink-friendly), the nature of our relationship.
- Well, we're hosting a party at our house that will involve me performing stripteases and lap dances, and I won't know who is coming, only he will. I was allowed to set limits on specifically who I didn't want to come, but I don't know who will beyond that. Should be interesting.
- Being nude while he is fully clothed (around the house).
- Taking nude photos of me and sending them to his friends or posting them in his journal as friends-only, haha.
- Taking those nude photos outside late at night in a public place.
- Having me sit at his feet at parties with friends.
- Pulling my tank top down so my breasts are exposed when I'm riding with him in the car.
- Of course, him calling me a slut has been fun, haha.
- Him making me pick a girl I would have sex with when we are out in public, or asking my opinion of other women he finds attractive while we are out (we keep these conversations to ourselves, haha).
- Not being allowed to wear underwear all day under my clothes.
- Having him pick what I am allowed to wear out.
- Not letting me put on makeup (I know, I'm vain, haha).
The list goes on...but those are the things I have found fun and interesting. There are limits on humiliation play for me, though, because some things would definetly not put me in a good headspace, so we negotiated that ahead of time.
Hope that helps, and best of luck- have fun!
behindmirrors.
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