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NavyDDG54 -> Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:07:23 AM)
What are some types of BDSM humilation tasks you have done? My sub and are looking to explore this area of the lifestyle and are looking for help as it is relatively new to both of us? We are looking for things that can be done RL and from a distance. Thank you.

mstrjx -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:22:19 AM)
From a distance. Have your sub visit her local sex emporium alone. Have her ask the proprietor about the different types of butt plugs, their pros and cons. Then, she must purhcase one. The next time she chats to you or speaks on the phone, it must be in place. Just one thought. Jeff

Riff -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:22:33 AM)
Humiliation is uniquely personal to those experiencing it. For some public nudity is enough, others it's piss play etc. So the key is to communicate with your sub and discuss what puts her outside of her comfort zone, what makes her feel humiliated and then take that ball and run with it.

marieToo -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:25:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mstrjx From a distance. Have your sub visit her local sex emporium alone. Have her ask the proprietor about the different types of butt plugs, their pros and cons. lmaooo oh my god, thats horrible!

LadyEllen -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:48:56 AM)
send to the supermarket with instructions to buy only 3 items; KY jelly, rubber gloves and a large cucumber. E

aslv2kneel -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:55:26 AM)
i like that - really stimulating idea

littlesubjess -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 6:11:02 AM)
I found this on www.domsubfriends.com some are suitable from a distance .. others not ... Act as objects (furniture, etc.) Always address you Sir, ma'am, etc. Anal plugs Age Play Bathroom use control Bathroom use in front of others Beg for cigarettes, drinks, etc. Crawl on 4ís Curse words (Whore, Slut, Worthless, etc.) Dancing/ stripped tease Dom chooses food Dom chooses cloths Dom urinates into water, while sub is taking a bath Eat from a pet dish Eat from floor Eat without utensils Embarrasing positions Eye contact restrictions Feed submissive from hand Forced dressing Forced nudity Forced masturbation in odd places Forced to wear a sign (slut, etc.) Forced to be a slave Forced to wear a leash Immobilization Lead on leash Leave bathroom door opened Leave note with embracing instructions Made to urinate in front of others into a cat liter box Maid services Nipple clamps under see thru top Orgasm control Orgasm denial Pet roles (act like a dog, cat, etc.) Record real embarrassing sessions and make them watch it Scolding Spitting in face Shave pubic hair Slap face Slave tattoos (temporary) Spanking (public) Speech restriction Stand in corner Suck dildo in car, so others can see Take Pictures Take Video Verbal Abuse Wear Masters cum on your face without wiping Wear no bra under see thru top Wear no panties under see thru clothes Wear Collar everywhere Write on body (slut, sissy, etc.) Undress in front of others jess xxx

littlesubjess -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 6:12:04 AM)
ohhh and this is from www.frugaldomme.com No underwear or lingerie, while wearing very thin white or light colored pants, shorts, or skirt. 1. Slave collar ( can add owner tag.) 2. Narrow cat collar with bell. 3. Single handcuff on each wrist. 4. Butt plugs. Can be worn at a business meeting. 10. Nipple clips. [even better when seen through a sheer shirt or blouse] Must use "Mistress", Madame", or "Ma'am" at all times. Metal cockrings, collars, chains, or leashes when going through airport security. Forbidden to speak in public. Kneeling and kissing her boots, shoes, feet, or hands, at odd moments. Being forced to masturbate beneath the table cloth while at a restaurant 20. You have to take your panties or underpants off, return to the table and hand them to her. She leaves them on the table in plain view 21. Female subs in skirts, ordered to remove panties while seated at the table, hand them to the Mistress, then sit with naked ass on the seat. Traveling by car naked or dressed in lingerie 32. She spanks you. 33. She slaps you. 39. The Mistress takes her female sub into the restroom and performs an on the spot vaginal/rectal examine, attaches a variety of 'toys' or clamps. 40. You are taken on a nature walk, tied to a tree, for a quickie spanking. 41. One hand is cuffed to the chair or table when you are eating. Tape rough felt or very very fine sandpaper inside a shirt over the nipples. Effect should be stimulation, not damage. 51. Temporary "slave" tattoos or other markings, hidden or not. 52. Always walking a foot or two behind her. speeding up to open doors. When dining out, sub is not allowed to order 56. Keeping your legs shaved. 57. Keeping the genitals shaved jess xxx

MstrssPassion -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 6:13:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen send to the supermarket with instructions to buy only 3 items; KY jelly, rubber gloves and a large cucumber. E LOL... love it! Maybe have her do this every day for a week & make sure the same cashier rings up the transaction each time.

Pimpernell -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 6:24:42 AM)
I've had 2 girls walk up to me in a busy shopping mall and one of them asked me where the nearest piercing shop is. It was pretty obvious what was going on as she made it clear it wasn't her ears that needed piercing and the body language between them was clearly a dominant and a sub. You've got the usual that depend on what she's comfortable with and that determines the difference between humiliation and just control: Removing her underwear in a public restroom, while you keep her handbag and wait a distance away, so she has to walk back knowing someone may notice her scrunched up panties in her hand before she can put them in her handbag. Visit a beauty parlor and be trimmed rather than waxed. Taking her to a sex shop and loudly saying things like "What do you mean the foot long isn't big enough?" or get her to look at every fetish movie cover and tell her thoughts. She must wash the car, wearing a white shirt with no bra. At the local video store, she must rent either an adult or erotic thriller movie every week and only that video, no mixing with safe movies. She can only masturbate, in front of a full length mirror, while she sits on the kitchen table. Ring up a sex radio show and ask for tips on anal sex. But me, I'd get a little more creative... If she doesn't like singing in public, send her to one of the Sing a Long screenings of The Sound of Music. If she's vegetarian, get her to buy your KFC. Get her to go to a store, buy male underwear, and shrug her shoulders at the checkout and say "Sorry, it's my fetish." Sell her used panties on the net. She must flirt with the next telemarketer that calls. She must simulate sex by herself. ie bend over the couch, hike up her dress, and physically move backwards and forwards as if she was being taken doggy style.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 6:56:33 AM)
Ideas won't tell you anything about the person. Humiliation is a very sensitive area and one small change can take a scene from humiliation, to pathetic, to damaging very quickly. The essence of humiliation is being able to reach into the person and twist them how you want in a way that you KNOW will be humiliating. http://www.collarchat.com/m_557686/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#557707 Embarassment vs humiliation http://www.collarchat.com/m_354018/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#354196 humiliation??? http://www.collarchat.com/m_412944/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#413037 what is good humiliation to you? http://www.collarchat.com/m_426015/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#426025 humiliation vs degradation http://www.collarchat.com/m_489256/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#489324 humiliation and vulnerability http://www.collarchat.com/m_310209/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#310223 Humiliation- verbal and physical http://www.collarchat.com/m_266448/mpage_1/key_humiliation/tm.htm#266532 humiliation ideas Slaves on display via webcam? Fat Cow? Verbal humiliation (rehashed) Humiliation and Degradation Erotic Humiliation Female Humiliation- in the scene Asking for humiliation Favorite Forms of humiliation Humiliation Humliation Play Favorite forms of humiliation Erotic Humiliation and Objectification Why such problems with humiliation? Fun ideas for humiliation Humiliation (2) Verbal Humiliation Help with humiliation please! Your thoughts on humiliation please Questions about humiliation

LadyEllen -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 7:01:02 AM)
I would really like to know where LA keeps getting all these lists of former threads from, ready organised into categories! Quite amazing!

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 7:10:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen I would really like to know where LA keeps getting all these lists of former threads from, ready organised into categories! Quite amazing! The last thread. Just copy and paste and add on the last thread to the list.

Donnalee -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 9:12:37 AM)
quote: Humiliation is a very sensitive area and one small change can take a scene from humiliation, to pathetic, to damaging very quickly. That's the truth! I've had whole relationships turn on someone saying the wrong thing at the wrong time. Doing things and pushing limits to get a buzzy feeling is fun.....I think you really have to really communicate with your partner on what "humiliation" means to them before you get into it.

AnAtlantaDom -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 3:49:05 PM)
I'll agree totally w/ donnalee!!!!

CrappyDom -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 4:49:29 PM)
Camera phones are wonderful...pictures of her cunt shot showing it as quite visible under the table at a restaurant...shots in mirrors at stores showing her exposed, shiny surfaces are great for this...talking on the phone while she is buying those sex toys The idea about the cucumber, KY and gloves was great. I have a little whore I am playing with and I enjoy making her scream horrible things while she is driving in her car. The sound of a vibrator is quite distinctive as is the sound of it sliding in and out of a nice wet cunt. Even sweeter is the sound of that vibrator then sliding deep into her mouth till she gags. Years ago I had a submissive follow a long list of sexual orders of mine while servicing her husband and videotaping it. Introducing her to someone for the first time and without a word forcing her to her knees and allowing him to fuck her mouth can be hot or a disaster. Short skirts and escalators were made for each other in my opinion. There is always "I am a slut" or "Master's cumhole" written in lipstick on her chest with photos taken in one of those picture booths they have in the mall. There is nothing though that equals pulling out of a woman's mouth just as you are about to cum and instead shooting it into the carpet and letting her know she doesn't deserve to taste it, well, the only way to top that one is well, I won't go there in polite company. Bottom line is you have to get inside their head and press the right buttons and not the wrong ones. Then, and this is most important, after you have made that little whore suck your cum out of the carpet, you have to bring her back to a place where she knows she is your most treasured possession. Or not...

NavyDDG54 -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:20:29 PM)
Thanks for all the ideas, we are discussing what would work with her, we are also interested in hearing what other people are doing, please keep the ideas coming, they have been a huge help so far. Thank you

MichMasochist -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 5:53:36 PM)
Tina here, Mich has been very bad and isn't allowed out to play with you guys. I just got started into bdsm this year with my boy friend. What I like to do to humiliate him. I make him address me as mistress, kneel in my pressence with eyes down, use him as a dressing stool to sit on when I change clothes. Last couple of nights I made him kneel on all fours in the shower while I sat on him and shaved my leggs. Although last night I didn't actually shave, just pretended to. Oh yea I sometimes sit on his face after I go jogging, but I don't think he finds that humiliating. A couple of times I made him eat his food off the floor like a dog, I even stepped on it. Then made him lick my foot clean. Oh yes, his most important responsibilities are to give a message when ever I tell him to and to provide me with a whole lot of orgasms. Then maybe I'll grant him a reward if that's what I want. I don't think I ever be able to settle for a plan old boyfreind again. I'm a dominating slave owner for life. Even though we don't BDSM every night. Wasn't untill I found Mitch that I realized that mommas' boy make the best toy. Because their momma has already trained them to be submissive. Tina

CreativeDominant -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 6:11:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NavyDDG54 What are some types of BDSM humilation tasks you have done? My sub and are looking to explore this area of the lifestyle and are looking for help as it is relatively new to both of us? We are looking for things that can be done RL and from a distance. Thank you. You've been told about how to be careful such that what you do engage in is sexual humiliation that turns her ... and you...on versus degradation so I won't go there. Ideas: I had a submissive who did not like to beg. I therefore made her beg for each and every thing...going to the bathroom, sitting down to eat, getting ready for bed, etc.. During this time, if she did not beg for regular things...then no sessions and no lovemaking occurred. She tried to work around that by being extra seductive. This was met with discipline and the seduction stopped. The humiliation came in from her being brought down off her 'thought-pedestal' that all she ever had to do was ask me in a respectful manner for something outside of play and by indicating with her body what she wanted during play or with a few words or by giving in to her enjoyment and not communicating at all, just letting me do what I wanted. When I quit doing anything without being begged for it...she begged. And found out that having to do so made her hotter and wetter and increased her submissive feelings. I had this same submissive, who was mortified by the idea of exposing herself in public, moon people on the interstate on the way home from the airport. Different submissive...very ladylike...mortified by the idea that anybody would watch her and "catch" her doing something related to sex or BDSM. The night before she flew back home, I used my Serpent's Bite on her for the very first time. She took it pretty well...til the next day when she found she had difficulty sitting. Then made her change into a thinner pair of slacks and a thong so that there would be even less material between her and the airplane seat. She spent most of the flight redfaced as she kept squirming in her seat...and her seatmate kept watching her...and she kept getting wetter as she thought of why she was squirming.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Humiliation (9/7/2006 7:11:13 PM)
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