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Exhibitionists. - 8/16/2006 11:45:27 PM

popeye1250

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There seems to be many exhibitionists in this site.
For the exibitionists among us...
What is it that thrills you about showing off or more exactly showing off your body and being naked for others to see?
And are you a "public" exhibitionist or just in private for certain people?
Do you like to be totally naked or in lingerie?

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 12:03:28 AM

angielouwhos

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For me its a whole mix of feelings and emotions and one of my earliest feelings about anything erotic. It makes me feel peaceful, excited, vulnerable, out of control, slavelike, and a lot of emotions.

I don't seek to be arrested for it or anything but semi-public things have been part of my past and of course a lot of exhibition in private and among friends and social circles.

I feel most exhibitionistic in the nude and for me that brings on the strongest feelings, not a stitch on ....no shoes, no jewelry, nothing. I have also been clad in all manner of things that are risque from fetish wear to " ho" wear.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 12:08:34 AM

Samwhiplash

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For me its the ability to be able to control (somewhat) the crowd... to gain their attention and to know that your actions will have them captivated and aroused :)

For me its never about being naked - its more about what Im (were) doing than what we are wearing.

Roll on the next Dublin event - its a good outlet for my exhibitionism.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 12:23:58 AM

behindmirrors

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quote:

What is it that thrills you about showing off or more exactly showing off your body and being naked for others to see?

It thrills me because I have nothing I can hide, and nothing I can hide behind. It is an intense feeling to be stripped bare in front of another, and one I have been coming to enjoy for some time now as I open up a bit. It also serves as an act of submission to me- when I am before my fully-clothed Dom and am nude, it is a reminder of my place as his submissive.

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And are you a "public" exhibitionist or just in private for certain people?

I am a fan of covert skinny dipping and have done a nude photo shoot on a usually busy pedestrian bridge late at night before. I have always wanted to do a striptease for an audience, but I think that's more just fantasy than me wanting to experience it in reality, at least at this point. I prefer to be nude only for certain people in private, as I am always afraid to get caught.

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Do you like to be totally naked or in lingerie?

I like to be totally naked. In some ways it's more comfortable to me (for example, bra straps and I have never really been friends), and I like the intensity of the feeling of exposure when you truly have nothing on. This is where I could relate back to parts of my first answer, too.

behindmirrors.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 4:29:20 AM

porcelaine

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

There seems to be many exhibitionists in this site.
For the exibitionists among us...
What is it that thrills you about showing off or more exactly showing off your body and being naked for others to see?
And are you a "public" exhibitionist or just in private for certain people?
Do you like to be totally naked or in lingerie?

It is the emotional freedom and ability to be uninhibited without concern for other's opinions or reactions. When I was younger this was more appealing but now I find it is influenced by my partner. If I'm involved with someone that enjoys it and wishes to explore this with me I'm more forthcoming.

In respect to private quarters, I prefer to be relaxed and that usually implies nudity. I've pushed this in the past and opted to perform chores and dine in this fashion even when those around me were clothed. It seemed perfectly natural at the time and is something I enjoy. I have never been a huge lingerie fan but that is changing. I think the latter has more to do with satisfaction with myself and a desire to be visually enticing.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 5:08:36 AM

MissTlTTYMilk

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i liked to be dressed and yet fully exposing a body part or parts and under the direction of a Dominant (ie hiked up skirt or available breasts for One's inspection). i suppose the act of being exposed by a will other than my own, and the sun shining on the forbidden is somewhat exhilirating and erotically humiliating for me. i am quick to say i neither want to be "showy" or to be arrested, but to be more inline with blindly trusting a Dominant's discretion and being more involved with pleasing my partner as opposed to my awareness of my surroundings. It is an intoxicating pleasure.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 5:44:16 AM

WhipTheHip

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I have to say, I just can't believe this web site. I am so used to being called a troll,
for expressing ideas that others disagree with. It is so nice to find female
exhibitionists. My first girl friend was an exhibitionist, but she seemed like such
an aberration. It would be great if everyone here lived in the same city, and
we could all meet each in real life. Maybe one day, bdsm people will start their
own city. I really envy all the guys with the females here. America is such a prudish
place.

I wonder if any Doms take their subs outside strip off their clothes and roll
them in snow. Of course, there is not a lot of snow here in S. Florida. But
when I lived up North, this is something I always wanted to do, to play with
a naked female in the snow.

I'd like to have a sub that walked around our home completely naked but
her torso covered with a light coating of heavy mineral oil. There is something
about a naked female body covered with mineral oil that makes her seem
vulnerable.

Do you any of you ever write things on your subs body with magic marker?
Or do any of you ever paint your sub's body?

< Message edited by WhipTheHip -- 8/17/2006 5:51:39 AM >

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 6:24:28 AM

WhipTheHip

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It really is so unfair for some males to get such wild women,
and other males to get zip. I really miss Eva.

I think wild, exhibitionist subs should be handed out to every
male that turns 14. I would make it a law: "A chick in every
pot, and a sports car in every garage."

I guess those in the drug culture would say, "Pot in every
chick."

Just kidding. I never used recreational drugs.

There should be a factory that mass produces subs.
Maybe, I should contact a Chinese manufacturer.

And here all this time, I thought females like you
existed only in my fantasy.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 6:35:36 AM

JessieMe

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For me the exhibitionism is directly linked to my being a major attention whore. I get no thrill or excitement about being naked... I certainly prefer to have some type of covering on me when I am in the house for comfort but when I am in public scening or just out on the town, I like being looked at and there seems to be nothing that will make a person look quicker than a naked or near naked woman they have not seen before.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 6:44:49 AM

SweetSarijane

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I'm an exhibitionist to a degree. I feel more comfortable wearing very little at parties, than fully dressed. I feel more relaxed and more me.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 6:47:14 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250
What is it that thrills you about showing off or more exactly showing off your body and being naked for others to see?

Oh it's nothing to do with being naked or showing off my body. In fact I tend to be more comfy naked at home with my partners (which I am 80% of the time I'm home). I tend to get a much bigger exhibitionist thrill when I'm wearing a costume or attracting attention otherwise.

Don't get me wrong though, I DO enjoy voyeurs when I play and fuck and such as well.

What thrills me? The energy transfer. Getting a buzz from their attention and enjoyment. I don't get a buzz if the other person isn't enjoying what they are watching, in fact it's a huge turn off for me if the other person isn't enjoying it.

quote:

And are you a "public" exhibitionist or just in private for certain people?

I'm an exhibitionist when people are enjoying what they are seeing.

quote:

Do you like to be totally naked or in lingerie?

Yes. And ballgowns. And corsets. And denim. Sexy clothing is so much more beyond "naked and lingerie."

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 6:49:52 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipTheHip
Do you any of you ever write things on your subs body with magic marker?
Or do any of you ever paint your sub's body?

That tends to be a great mix of exhibitionist and objectification and/or humliation.

I usually get things like "whore" written on me. At one Arisia convention, I had "Just Ask" written on my chest with 10 checkboxes. I had to have sex with 10 new people over the weekend and they each got to check off a box afterwards.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 8:19:54 AM

sub4hire

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I'm not an exhibitionist though I am a nudist. I believe there is a difference between the two.
For some of us it is a way of life. Yet, on the opposite side of the coin. I don't mind people watching me play. I have issues when they leer.

Yet at the same time I prefer to be nude. My neighbors have all seen me nude. I think nothing of walking in the backyard that way. It is just the way I prefer to be.

Most I have spoken to say it is the excitement of the rush. The possibility of getting caught.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 8:41:54 AM

popeye1250

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Hip, sometimes you're lucky when you get "zip."
Interesting answers in this thread!

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 8:47:12 AM

saltwatercowgirl

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I am certainly an exhibitionist... I wish I was a nudist, but my husband would just die if he thought the neighbours were watching me do naked yoga!

Why do I like it? I like attention, and I am proud of my body, and I love to turn people on...if I thought anyone was disgusted or repulsed by what they were seeing (other than that guy's miserable bitch of a wife perhaps) it wouldn't be fun for me.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 8:54:36 AM

Evanesce

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I've always said I'm an exhibitionist, but it's not about being naked and showing off my body. If it were that, I'd be pole dancing and making SURE people were looking. For me, it's more about being comfortable within my own skin, and allowing myself the freedom to be nude in a roomful of strangers and not feel self-conscious about it. It's about being sexy and desirable without having to be overtly sexual.

When we have a party, there are always people around in various stages of undress. If I'm topping, I've usually got something on. If I'm bottoming, I'm nude. If I'm just hanging out and not doing either, I'm in a floor-length, purple and blue velvet, hooded cape with matching bra & panties, and people think that's sexy.

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 9:16:17 AM

popeye1250

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That leads to another question: How many in here are or were Nude Dancers proffesionally?
And if so did you get the same feelings when you were doing it for money?

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 11:26:21 AM

NastyDaddy

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Weird thing about exhibitionism... when nude in public, all those things you weren't even holding keep being dropped in front of you...

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 11:35:15 AM

somethndif

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
I usually get things like "whore" written on me. At one Arisia convention, I had "Just Ask" written on my chest with 10 checkboxes. I had to have sex with 10 new people over the weekend and they each got to check off a box afterwards.

What a great idea!! you have inspired me . . . *weg*

Dan

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RE: Exhibitionists. - 8/17/2006 2:20:10 PM

Yang4yin

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I prefer to be naked only around specific people.

As for showing off my girl (when I have one), it's a combination of things like wanting to show off what I have and nobody else can, with a touch of embarrassment for her thrown in.

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