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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/13/2006 12:07:53 PM

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Objectification has not been so successful in ways of say a coffee table for instance.
Objectification as a fuck toy, now were talking!

Is there anything hotter? (well there are a lot of things just as hot, but this is one of my favorite forms of objectification)

And, just like commercial toys, fucktoys can be divided into categories ... some are useful for one sort of thing, others for another. Mine has the capacity to be an uber-doll (much better than vinyl, you know), an oral "machine," a glory hole, a "motorized" cowgirl machine ... and so on. "It" is happy when I use it and enjoy the experience.

Every "thing" needs a purpose ... I imagine a table is as happy as a table can get when it holds papers or plates, and my rug is fulfilled by being walked upon.

Nothing very profound , but submission can be fulfilling because a sense of purpose is fulfilled.

I'm sure someone will post something about human dignity and so on. I hate it when it gets serious .... last night, littlepita dreamed she was a frantic teenager whose hair was falling out and no one would take her seriously. On the other hand, we call our unmentionable "Swamp Thing" and it is deliriously happy.

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/13/2006 7:53:24 PM

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I would think it's normal for all females to fanticise about sex and being "captured" i.e. in bondage.

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/13/2006 11:21:05 PM

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I would think it's normal for all females to fanticise about sex and being "captured" i.e. in bondage.

Hmm, guess I am one of the abnormal one's then

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/13/2006 11:43:47 PM

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As fantasy? my name is Peter (Pan?). As reality you can call me Daddy (no this is not me telling you what to do. It's a written illustration.)'

Fantasy/reality/fantasy/reality/fantasy/reality/ooooooh where's the line.

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/14/2006 4:26:44 AM

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Fantasy/reality/fantasy/reality/fantasy/reality/ooooooh where's the line.

D (owner of j)

I've written both fact and fiction for many years, for pleasure and profit ... and I have no idea.

Oh, that wasn't a real question, was it?

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/14/2006 7:55:19 AM

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I would think it's normal for all females to fanticise about sex and being "captured" i.e. in bondage.

Hmm, guess I am one of the abnormal one's then

I think it doesn't matter whether you are abnormal or not, Im abnornal in many ways.. it doesn't make me unhappy...smiles. I think that Victorian morals have made women think they were abnormal when they had these thoughts. It is nice to know many of us do and that it is rather common.

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/14/2006 8:02:15 AM

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Objectifying someone else is arousing...I really don't like to think about myself as an odjectification.

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/14/2006 8:02:49 AM

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Julia, true.
Tikkiee, I think "most" do, of course there'll be exceptions.

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/14/2006 8:09:22 AM

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Objectifying someone else is arousing...I really don't like to think about myself as an odjectification.

I was hoping that more dommes would answer this thread, and share these ideas to see if there is a difference between the way they fantasize... that would be very interesting to say the least.

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RE: Objectification and Humiliation As Fantasy - 8/14/2006 8:21:58 AM

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I had a question for everyone on the board because of the recent thread on objectification and humiliation. I was wondering if most of the women here have fantasies concerning their own humiliation, degradation, or objectification. I include being "used" as a sex toy objectification and name calling humiliation. I think most women have had these fantasies at some point in their lives, but if I am wrong about that I would surely like to know that too because I would have learned something.

So even if you wouldn't want to do something in reality, do you fantasize about humiliation/objectification?

Master is my first relationship of this sort; before him I could not conceive of being humilated or objectified in such ways. As such, I do not have to fantasize about it; I live it on a daily basis now.

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