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RE: Question - 8/7/2006 5:37:20 AM

nstyslave

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my sentiments exactly, enigma. i was reading the post's, and wondering if A/anyone had picked up on that fact.

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RE: Question - 8/7/2006 1:59:12 PM

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All good points here from everyone.

Perhaps you can add a little about yourself in terms of daily life. IE: I'm a carpenter/doctor/photographer who likes to walk my dogs/play pool, on my time off...

Give a little sense of who you are. It also gives a person a better sense of whether you have things in common, and a conversational opener in the first email exchanges.

Unfortunately, many people don't reply to emails, and that simply means "No thanks." so don't let it bother you, it's unlikely to be all that personal. People have their whims and preferences.

Just keep reading the great books out there, chatting here, and explore your local scene if possible. As you refine your knowledge of the BDSM world, eventually things will be less confusing. Your confidence will grow, and you'll find it easier to attract the kind of people you're looking for.

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RE: Question - 8/7/2006 2:43:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: nstyslave

my sentiments exactly, enigma. i was reading the post's, and wondering if A/anyone had picked up on that fact.

Nope! i missed it because i glanced for spelling .. completely lost the content. lol.

Doolb..i know that "I order you..." sounds at first like "that must be what these sub women want, right?" but it's really not. we love to take orders, AFTER we've established a relationship. Orders from a stranger are just that. Orders. From a stranger. They make us laugh.

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RE: Question - 8/7/2006 6:10:58 PM

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From a slaves point of view the first thing that turned me off when reading your profile was the grammer and spelling mistakes. The second thing that if I was still looking would definetly make me pass you by is this: If you are intrested!!!! I order you to send a message and we shall see if your the true one

You probablly didnt mean it in a bad way but to me that sounds like an online player that isn't experienced in the lifestyle at all. And just knows about it from online roleplays.

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RE: Question - 8/7/2006 6:26:07 PM

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I have seen several things that I can suggest to you the OP ... firstly ... impression is everything .. if you come off as someone who does not maintain dominant traits it will be picked up on most of the time

Secondly .... impression in writing is also important .. your taking a position of leader you want her to follow your examples and you want her to respect you . make sure you exude that

lastly my friend ..... there are thousands out there . if your new welcome to online meetings .. it may take you 2 - 3 years to find a good one ... or you may get lucky and find one quicker ...

lastly stop searching ..... sounds weird I know . but when I stopped searching and just started hanging with others and letting them get to know me .. I started seeing a huge difference in the girls who were coming to me

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