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mnottertail -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/3/2006 8:02:56 PM)
some over average.

MstrFury -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/3/2006 8:33:00 PM)
My raven came to me in 1978...being as I'm now 55...that's been a glorious 27 years....and I don't see and end til death do we part.... pulling my cloak around me and slipping back into the shadows

proudsub -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/3/2006 10:36:03 PM)
Married 38 years. Have always lived like a D/s realtionship but didn't have a name for it until about 5 years ago. We didn't do much in the realm of bedroom BDSM together until about 3 years ago, so not sure how many years you would say we've been in the lifestyle.

gentlethistle -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/3/2006 10:42:20 PM)
I've been in my longest and only D/s relationship for 8 months now. Laura

Evanesce -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/3/2006 10:44:21 PM)
The Kaptin and I hit our 6-year mark on May 13, and our 5-year mark of living together on April 30 of this year. This is the longest "official" M/s relationship I've ever had. I've been "out" since 1997, but have incorporated some form of D/s or BDSM into every relationship I've had since the first pair of cuffs were put on my wrists by a boyfriend in 1978. Technically, you could say my nearly ten years with my ex husband was my longest "D/s relationship," because that one was definitely power based (with me holding all the power), but I don't count it as such, because it was not "defined" as such. It was kinky, to be sure, but it was still just a marriage to me.

Mavis -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/4/2006 12:01:38 AM)
Mister and i have been married 25 years this August. (i don't count the 2 years the locusts ate while He was "finding Himself". i do celebrate surviving that train-wreck though! i credit slave training with helping U/us thru that time.) Together W/we've shared the MTV debut weekend, raising two kids and a third for someone else, the joys of Army life, church life, homeschooling, the death of my two step fathers, and my mother. W/we're D/s only, No BDSM play ... i tied Him up with my robe tie once when W/we were newlyweds, He freaked out and His head nearly exploded. LOL. So guess i wouldn't have made a good Toppe. <g> W/we've had a 2nd wife in a nilla/ poly arrangement that disbanded, and 1 M/s relationship, 18 months. This years Anniversary celebration, Master will be in town, simple dinner with the kids and all that. Next year, W/we plan to go to Schlitterbahn Waterparks for Anniversary week. With NO kids! [sm=mrpuffy.gif]

Rayne58 -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/4/2006 12:33:28 AM)
Master and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. This is my first official D/s relationship, though I was married to a domineering control freak for 23 years prior. This is also Master's first long term D/s relationship, He has had casual play subs for the last 10-12 years but I am the first sub who has lived with Him. We will be getting married in 4 months [:)]

Lashra -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/4/2006 1:01:14 AM)
I started back in 1981, I collared him after 2 years and we were together for 9 years. It ended up we had grown in different directions with he needing a micromanager and I was just to busy with my business. The second relationship lasted 3 years, a new submale who ended up wanting to be the Master, I would have no part of it. The relationship I am in now has lasted over 2 years now and I recently collared him. This one feels much different then others its like a favorite pair of shoes it just fits perfectly. [:)] The communication flows freely and we have agreed on what we do and do not want in our lives together. An added plus is he is the love of my life and I am his. ~Lashra and slutjack

BuxomGoddess714 -> RE: So...how long is it? (8/4/2006 1:08:14 AM)
32 years in the Lifestyle. 18 years in my D/s marriage but like others, we didn't have a name for it and W/we discovered it on our own, not online (no such thing), not in dungeouns or groups. In fact, it was very difficult to get information at the time and most of the literature was funny looking European trashy porn in newspaper type magazines (remember those?) It was the only true, honest, open and pure relationship I probably have ever been in. It set a very high bar for others and He left big shoes to fill. We had the truest foundation of a BDSM relationship; Love, Trust, Respect and Mutual Worship. It's refreshing to read there are still some people who aren't chasing the grass on the other side of the fence. When you see it up close its got alot of manure and weeds on it, take it from me. Stay in your own yards while you can.

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