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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 2:45:28 PM

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I would say I have done this more than once. Especially answering the phone.

Mom: hello is my daughter there?
Me: yes she is but she is tied up and gagged at the moment.
Mom: seriously?
Me: yes, she got riled up and needed to be calmed down.
Mom: long pause.........................................ok as long as she is ok, tell her I called.
Me: yes ma'am, have a good day.

gawd, I am cracking up at that!

Now I wanna know... was she *really* tied up and gagged??? lol

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 3:01:06 PM

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With law enforcement types what gets them is saying. I can put on handcuffs way better than you. Just ask my girlfreind

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 3:24:25 PM

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At one place, with usually the same person taking my order every day, when asked what I wanted I said 'You know what I like. Bring that.' I wasn't domming, and I certainly wasn't being an ass.

Now, there are two places that I go where I never have to say a word to get the food and drink I like. Delicious!

Nope, not an Ass at all.. I'm a Waitress in a small Cafe and I wait on people like you all day long.. They appreciate the effort I've taken to know exactly what they want and how they want it, and reciprocate generously..

And yes, I mindfuck people all day long.. Wouldn't have it any other way!

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 4:43:16 PM

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All this really sounds like fun, but i would think you would have to be careful what you say and to whom at the work place so you don't get slapped with a sexual harassment suit. I've never worked in an office setting so don't know all the rules.

With all the humorless people out there and with so many people wanting to make a few bucks on a quick lawsuit, employers don't take that stuff lightly. I'd never even mention any of my sexual proclivities at work. But....being the boss, I'm the one most open to a big lawsuit.

Hate to be the wet rag on what should be good ol' fashioned fun!

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 4:57:13 PM

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I would say I have done this more than once. Especially answering the phone.

Mom: hello is my daughter there?
Me: yes she is but she is tied up and gagged at the moment.
Mom: seriously?
Me: yes, she got riled up and needed to be calmed down.
Mom: long pause.........................................ok as long as she is ok, tell her I called.
Me: yes ma'am, have a good day.

LMAO... that would be my moms response... unless she added... lay the phone by her head and remove gag so I can ask her a question.....lol

My mom knows not of my submission... so would take it as a joke...and run with it...LOL

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 7:41:15 PM

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LOL True, that made me laugh :)

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 9:32:21 PM

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Well, this was a little bit different but I once had a friend tell me that I couldn't embarrass him. "No way! I'd had it ALL done to me!"
I took it under advisement.
One time when we and another friend were comming back from the local strip joint this guys says; "Hey, stop into the Supermarket, I have to get a couple of gallons of milk for the kids!" (He had 4 kids)
I went in with him and he got up by the checkout counters and was talking to a guy and it was fairly crowded with people checking out their groceries.
All of a sudden I yelled to him; "Hey J.P.!!! IS THE GAY RIGHTS MEETING TONIGHT OR TOMMORROW NIGHT?"
"THE *GAY RIGHTS* MEETING, TONIGHT OR TOMMORROW???"
Everyone fell silent and looked at him and me.
He just looked at me crestfallen.
I went out to the truck and waited for him.
He said, "Tommy, you BASTARD! That was my son's football coach I was talking to!!!"

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 10:37:44 PM

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I adore mind games. I thank the people that provide me with them. Ive always loved them, way way way before BDSM. Its just some bdsm'rs like to incorporate this dynamic into their lifestyle.
"Outing" myself behaviour, such as you describe, does occur. Im not out, im in narnia in fact. But sometimes, i want to leap out the closet. But i chose not to, to i dally on the edge, some mindgame edgeplay for me. That 'frisson' of uncertainty you see, delicious. But if that game was followed by a serious question, id answer without any games honestly. Just nobodies ever bloody asked me! bastards.
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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 7/28/2006 10:40:18 PM

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I do it quite consistently, with virtually no intentions. Most of my friends are dancers or medics, so we're not the most stable bunch to begin with. So sometimes its hard to switch into nilla mode when I'm around people who are. And then there are times that I just don't bother trying lol. For instance, whilst arguing with my agents about promo, they want a certain angle that I can't do.. because while practicing with my aingle tail, I managed to leave a few bright red marks on my ass.
Agent: I really dont understand why you're being so difficult about this
Me: Becuase the number of men who will find whip marks attractive are definately in the minority.
Agent: ..... Whip marks?
Me: Uh huh, they show under blacklights to, did you know that?
Agent: uhhhhhh no. Just... get.. better or something.

I was pretty damn amused.. and as a bonus, said agent hasnt bitched about my promo since :)

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Quick quips - 8/3/2006 3:30:04 PM

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Quick quips for breaking up awkward silences.
Doing this really turns you on doesn't it?
Isn't their a porn site all about this?
Okay, my turn!!!! I wanna be next!!!!
I usually have to pay for this kind if abuse!
Is it okay if I call you MASTER Biff?
You never do that to ME gadammit!!!
Why are you staring at me? Didn't I get all the mascara off?
Do these welding gloves really go with these shoes?
It's hard to tie these when they're not squirming.
This is really easy without the ball gag!!

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 8/3/2006 3:49:35 PM

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Mom: hello is my daughter there?
Me: yes she is but she is tied up and gagged at the moment.
Mom: seriously?
Me: yes, she got riled up and needed to be calmed down.
Mom: long pause.........................................ok as long as she is ok, tell her I called.
Me: yes ma'am, have a good day.

If my mother knew my brother was doing this to me and did nothing to stop it, I would hate her for the rest of my days. If my brother ever did this to me more than once, one of us would have ended up in jail and the other in the hospital.

As for saying kinky things in public, I only do once I've assessed the situation and figured 1)it won't land my ass on the fired list of people, and 2)my audience is somewhat receptive/open minded... But that is just me. M

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 8/3/2006 4:05:39 PM

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I love it...

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 8/3/2006 4:11:35 PM

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It's easy.

I just ask people if they've ever used someone as a sock puppet.

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 8/3/2006 4:31:00 PM

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i found myself in dom.. i mean home depot with a coworker and i started picking up items "that would be fun" the ones that got them the most were the zip ties and the exacto knife

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 8/3/2006 6:24:07 PM

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(Fast reply)

I work as an Exotic dancer, and am a slave owner. These guys at the bars will tell you often that they wish to take you "home" with them. I politely and quite seriously inform them that if anything I would take them home with me, but they would probably not like it very much. If they keep pressing, I give them the honest answers why they would not like it. Suffice to say, that private dance seems a lot safer and more desirably after that and a lot more to their liking. In fact they never seem to ask me about taking me "home" again, and I can proudly say I've never had a case of anyone trying to follow me home :). With some folks this has though triggered discussions that were highly educational for both of us, and helped pass the time a bit better.

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 8/3/2006 6:46:21 PM

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I don't do it a lot but remember one time when I was back in college getting my master's. A guy I was sitting next to asked what I had planned for the weekend. I was going to a fairly large bdsm seminar in the next state. So I said "Oh I'm just going to a pervert's convention." He laughed and said 'No...really what are you doing?" I repeated it and he just looked at me like "Well fine don't tell me." Its odd how people won't believe you when you are telling the truth.

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas - 8/4/2006 1:16:11 AM

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Headgames for the Vanillas? Yes I say! - 8/4/2006 1:24:21 AM

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But then in my hometown (berkeley oakland area) I am well known for my mischief.

Seriously. It is they (you know, "them") who enforce the mores of their old, obsolete, ways of thinking on us EVERY DAY,with their bland, flavorless, "romantic candlelit dinners" and ther stupid MYV shows like "next" and so on. I hate the vanillas. (not very much, but they do annoy me)
Just because they can't take a joke, (many have proven that they can not) does not mean that I will be anything other than what I am, a dry wit, with biting humor (no pun ntended), split-second timing, and double entendre in tow.
I found one such encounter particularlly enjoyable.

My encounter with the Mormons:

Dateline:
Berkeley. A sunday morning in June 2006. All is quiet in the land......................

There is a loud knock at the door. I stumble out of bed, saunter downstairs, and tie my bathrobe, covering my massive man-spear. manners. It is 9 AM. no one is stupid enough to wake me on a sunday at 9.
I open my little cage peephole, and say in in a very inditimidating voice: YES?
"Hello sir"

I open the door a crack to find two bright-eyed and bushy-tailed young white gentlemen, who were dressed in a style I can only call "midwestern sales clerk, headed for plumbing school chic"

I turn to the side so they can easily see my dragon tattoo. (big scary dragon!)

"Sir, we'd like to talk with you about current events, and how your life can live up to it's full potential with Jesus Christ"

"oh" I say while yawning. I try to sound bored. "ok" "what's your philosophy?"

"you see, sir, in these troubled times there is something greater than us, somoething that is all encompassing, something that that brings peace to all nations and sucess to all who follow it"
"damm" I think to myself. "this kid is good. Let the games begin"
"really?" I try to sound suddeny interested.
"yes. accepting jesus as your personal savior, is that greater thing"
"I already have a greater personal thing" I say, defensively.
"really? they look sincerely curious and confused.
"Yes"
What?
"Satan, lord of all worlds" I say, drop-dead serious.
They go suddenly quiet and one of them while keeping his eyes on me, slowly reaches for his bible the way a gunslinger would right before a shootout.
"are you serious?" says one of them. the younger one, not being sure what to do starts thumbing his bible at about the speed a cashier at a bank counts dollar bills.
"yes. you know. SATAN? lord of all earthly pleasures, king of the rapture, corruptor of souls, beezlebub, ruler of hell, old scratch, the devil. you know. you haven't heard?"
"heard what?"
"your bible's not up-to-date. Satan made a deal with your "god", and now we can do whatever we want"
They both laugh nervously.
"what's your name?" I say, even though I can easily see their name tags.
'I am Elder James, and this is elder Price"
"Look JAMES, (there is no fucking way I am calling this little skinny 18 year old pipsqueak "elder") I am kind of busy at the moment. I have a lot of work to do in satan's name"
Now they know I am bullshitting. almost. they're a little scared still. I am sure this will be a mighty story eventually about how they confronted a satanist. it will make for great chat around the punch bowl later.
"what kind of work?"
"you know. evil stuff. devil stuff. spanking, whipping, hot wax, sexual bondage, lesbian training, dildos (I start ramming my hand back and fourth in a dildo ramming motion)....... Hey! where are you going?"
They are headed off the porch quick.
"maybe we'll visit another time"
"it's ok. don't worry. my dark lord will provide! thanks for the visit!"

By then they were halfway down the block.
Haven't heard from them since. that was six months ago.

Note to self: mormons are easily upset at the word "dildo"

I just love those cute litle mormons.

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas? Yes I say! - 8/4/2006 8:10:38 AM

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I just love those cute litle mormons.

arent they cute in their shirt, tie, nametag and bicycle helmet?

i believe that this will be the approach for the next morman knocking on my door at 8am on a sat morning or blocking a street so i cant get home and take a piss

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RE: Headgames for the Vanillas? Yes I say! - 8/4/2006 8:17:08 AM

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Hehehe...great minds... ;->

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