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ORIGINAL: darkinshadows

Questions are before anyone (I believe) can really answer.

 

1) Is this a move that she is making to join you on a full time basis?

2) If this is - have you even met her before?

3) If it is just a trip across - then is she staying with you or hotels only?

 

Peace and Rapture

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ORIGINAL: domohcp

The hotel stays are only for the trip. It will take her 3 days to get here and she needs a place to sleep at night to rest, so that's the reason for that.

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ORIGINAL: domohcp

Hi! We are a fairly new dom couple that has been seeking and think we may have found our first slave. My questions is this. She is located 2400 miles from us almost on the other side of the country. We were willing to provide transportation costs thinking we could get her a plane ticket or bus ticket. However she has an almost new(2004) car. She was willing to sell it, but we would like her to bring it with her, so that she has a car to get to and from work. My question is how would you handle transportation costs for this? It will cost from what we figured around $600 with gas and a few nights in a hotel as it will take a little over 3 days to get here. She doesn't have enough to get here on her own. We considered gas cards, but that wouldn't work at the hotels. We also considered western union but then that's giving her cash and not guaranteeing (is that even a word...lol) that she won't run with our money. Any suggestions how to handle this situation for the safety of both parties?

Sincerely
Heather and Ben

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ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

Frankly, if someone long-distance wants to serve me, one of the requirements is that they can afford to move or to travel back and forth without help.

I consider this part of them getting ready to be in serve.

Of course, I don't do long-distance relationships but you did ask how we would handle it and my answer is that it is up to the wouldbe slave to demonstrate their ability to serve by providing for their costs. Until they are actually in my house, they are not part of my household and therefore they are responsible for themselves. Once part of the household then they join the family and each family member is expected to contribute in some financial fashion to the household.

I know, I know, I read like a cold-hearted bitch here.

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ORIGINAL: domohcp

Hi! We are a fairly new dom couple that has been seeking and think we may have found our first slave. My questions is this. She is located 2400 miles from us almost on the other side of the country. We were willing to provide transportation costs thinking we could get her a plane ticket or bus ticket. However she has an almost new(2004) car. She was willing to sell it, but we would like her to bring it with her, so that she has a car to get to and from work. My question is how would you handle transportation costs for this? It will cost from what we figured around $600 with gas and a few nights in a hotel as it will take a little over 3 days to get here. She doesn't have enough to get here on her own. We considered gas cards, but that wouldn't work at the hotels. We also considered western union but then that's giving her cash and not guaranteeing (is that even a word...lol) that she won't run with our money. Any suggestions how to handle this situation for the safety of both parties?

Sincerely
Heather and Ben

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I would buy her a round trip bus ticket, have her come out for at least two weeks. Then send her home .. let her think about the service you require and what she was able to provide and then, armed with some knowledge (you actually had the same chemistry in person you did on the phone) move towards making the move more permanent. Once she gets home, a few more months of everyone working, putting away a little something out of everyone's pay can help make the move go smoothly without putting an undue burden on anyone.