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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 12:44:30 PM   
MistressOfGa


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In the mornings I'm just plain horny and I roll over in bed on top of my sub and tell him fuck me now. And he does


I LOVE morning sex! I am extremely horny in the morning and I don't want to have any kind of foreplay, I just want to be fucked. Period.

Thank you all for responding. I am really busy right now, as I am making the move to Savannah. I am really tired from the packing and the stresses of the move. It is hard to keep the D/s dynamic in place when it is a ldr. I am hoping that this move will change how things are going. Kinky sex? Forget it, I can barely keep up with any kind of sex at the moment. 




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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 12:49:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		i enjoy kinky sex just as much as i enjoy vanilla sex, both are expressions of love.

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 12:55:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

This question is for everyone,
Have you ever felt like you were sliding back into "vanilla" sex, as opposed to kinky with your partner? If so, how often and what do you do to get back the kink?




Master and i place very little importance on whether or not our sex is kinky. It's really hard to notice or care what kind of sex we're having after he's just beaten me.

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It'd be pretty damned sad, if i were so obsessed with kink that i couldn't enjoy a straight fuck.



I agree with what caretakr said, and i couldn't have said it better  myself

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 12:57:43 PM   
slavejlb


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Status: offline 		Dear Mistress
i know the feeling of being tried of packing and moving, coming from some who has recently had to do it herself, she prays the best for you and know her heart lies with you during this time of stress,
take care and be safe
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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:02:37 PM   
MistressOfGa


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Status: offline 		Hi slavejlb,
Thank you for your kind words. I am really excited at the thought of being closer to pup. I know a few other like-minded people in Savannah too, so am looking forward to meeting them as well :)

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:02:39 PM   
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Maybe trying out a new limit, perhaps? Or, exploring new 'kinks' might spice things up for you?

Best wishes,
Irishbynature


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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:03:54 PM   
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Funny you should mention that, as I pushed a soft limit last night, it kind of back-fired lol but we live, we learn <s>

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:31:46 PM   
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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:34:27 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Irishbynature,
Funny you should mention that, as I pushed a soft limit last night, it kind of back-fired lol but we live, we learn <s>


Grins...so true, but hey, you had fun while trying, right? *Smiles*


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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:36:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mastersayed
sometimes I want to be romantic and just make wholesome love (not sex but love) to my slave, its a reward, it reminds her that I love her, and I enjoy it occasionally.

Bravo mastersayed...


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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:38:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Sure, but I don't think of it as "sliding back."  I have nothing against vanilla sex and never did.  I just don't want to have sex with vanilla people.

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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

Have you ever felt like you were sliding back into "vanilla" sex, as opposed to kinky with your partner? If so, how often and what do you do to get back the kink?

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:40:05 PM   
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Sure, but I don't think of it as "sliding back."  I have nothing against vanilla sex and never did.  I just don't want to have sex with vanilla people.


That's IT! Thank you <s>

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 1:40:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I actually like "vanilla" sex - I think it provides a nice, sweet interlude for those times when people are feeling more mellow, for whatever reason. I'd be disappointed if a relationship was "backsliding" into nothing except vanilla sex, but just as disappointed, probably, if there was never room for having that whatsoever, at all.

- Susan 

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 3:05:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		Jeez...you're not dead, are you?  PlayfulOne is right.  It's not like you forgot or  don't have the necessary "equipment"....like Nike says...

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 7:12:05 PM   
truesub4u


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Status: offline 		MoGa... (i'm not suppose to be posting right now... but love to post on your threads...lol)...... good luck with move you're making to Savannah.... it's a lovely city to enjoy. As for your OP.... IT"S STRESS!!!!!!....... lol... it's stress I tell ya... once move is complete... you'll feel better. Besides... nothing wrong with (ugh) nilla sex.... it can be just as much stress releasing as any other kind. And as for total nilla life... there are times it happens.. some notice.. some don't.. but it happens ..... look at the BS going on with me.. got nothingggggggggg to do with BDSM.. or anything with the life.. it's everyday bullshit that happens...and we do our best to get through it as smoothly as we can...(yeah like they say... easier said than done I know)....

Once again... wtg and god luck with the move... holler when settled...

Hugssssssss

Jessica


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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 7:12:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		Vanilla sex?? What is that? Help I need a glossary, lol!

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 8:45:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Dear Mof Ga,

Funny that you should write this as Daddy was saying this past wknd that "sometimes people can even overcomplicate making love."  (Which was funny as He had no idea that I was really craving a heavy dose of kink, but didn't get it as W/we had things to do and a limited time frame.) However, for a "vanilla" missionary type event, I cannot remember feeling so completely satisfied.  He was passionate and did a lot of whispering in my ears, telling me some really yummy stuff that was pure fuel for my libido! 

So, I'll take either one, because as others have said...  it's the expression of O/our love and the dynamics of the relationship that is important, like the entree of a meal.  The kink is the spice that gives it some extra flavor.  Either way, it satisfies me. 

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 8:51:44 PM   
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Yup My Beloved and I often slide into vanilla...sometimes between turning off the light and falling into the sleep of the dammed(woken every two hours) there is no BDSM,  is no kink, hell this no sex ;there is just that person I chose to stand back to back with though this veil of tears and the other person is just a warm island of comfort and strength in the chaos of life.
I dont think that makes us lazy just human


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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 11:02:15 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		If you only ever had kinky sex would that not get as mundane as vanilla sex?  Sometimes just being close and making love with out all the extras is a great change and a wonderful time together.

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RE: Sliding Back To Vanilla - 7/11/2006 11:04:15 PM   
slavejlb


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Status: offline 		Thank you
and no i am not dead, even though at times i feel like, but it does take two to tango, sex alone get a little lonely and tired. i think that is why i have giving up on vanilla or any true kind of a realtionship,
take care and be safe
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