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Hi Everyone, new to Boston, this site & this lifestyle - 10/19/2013 7:07:43 AM

inetwork666

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Hi Friends,

I am very new to all this and looking to meet interesting people to further explore my newfound interests. I am in Boston (Gov Center/Financial Dist Area) and would love to find events & parties etc.

Hope to hear from you good people sometime soon, may be soon enough so that I can make a good use of this weekend!

Thanks for reading:)

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RE: Hi Everyone, new to Boston, this site & this lifestyle - 10/19/2013 7:16:20 AM

Rasciallymisty

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Hello and welcome nice to have you join us.

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RE: Hi Everyone, new to Boston, this site & this lifestyle - 10/19/2013 11:20:59 AM

kalikshama

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Hello from the South Shore!

There's tons of kinky people in our state - I've met lots of kinksters on this site but fetlife.com is the best for finding events.

ps - re the question in your profile about pictures - lots of people do post real pictures, but you can also do lots of things to anonymize them. You can also attach a pic with your first message to someone. We've had lots of threads on this - women like to see men in vanilla settings. But whatever you do, please no cock shots or your favorite porn stills (yes, that has to be said :)

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RE: Hi Everyone, new to Boston, this site & this lifestyle - 10/19/2013 11:35:53 AM

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You say you are new to BDSM and have listed yourself as a Dom. From taking a look at your profile, Moon, you don't have much Topping experience. There's more to being a Dom than Topping your partner, and while there are femsubs who can show you the ropes, so to speak, learning technique will not necessarily make you a better Dominant. You'll learn how to be a more skillful Top. A sub is going to expect much more than that from you; in all likelihood, she will be looking for a Master. Give yourself the flexibility of gaining experience as a switch, and that will relieve some of the pressure of having to perform a role that you might not be suited for. You don't sound as if you enjoyed Topping your last partner. It was your ex-girlfriend's arousal and excitement that turned you on. You should ask yourself, do you want a D/s dynamic or do you just want play partners? It's up to you whichever you decide, but I get the feeling you do best when you're in a bonded relationship where the two of you can be free to explore your sexuality together.

Hope your find what you seek.

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RE: Hi Everyone, new to Boston, this site & this lifestyle - 10/19/2013 7:31:24 PM

inetwork666

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Thank you all for your replies. It is very helpful..

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