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TigressLily -> RE: Hi Everyone, new to Boston, this site & this lifestyle (10/19/2013 11:35:53 AM)
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You say you are new to BDSM and have listed yourself as a Dom. From taking a look at your profile, Moon, you don't have much Topping experience. There's more to being a Dom than Topping your partner, and while there are femsubs who can show you the ropes, so to speak, learning technique will not necessarily make you a better Dominant. You'll learn how to be a more skillful Top. A sub is going to expect much more than that from you; in all likelihood, she will be looking for a Master. Give yourself the flexibility of gaining experience as a switch, and that will relieve some of the pressure of having to perform a role that you might not be suited for. You don't sound as if you enjoyed Topping your last partner. It was your ex-girlfriend's arousal and excitement that turned you on. You should ask yourself, do you want a D/s dynamic or do you just want play partners? It's up to you whichever you decide, but I get the feeling you do best when you're in a bonded relationship where the two of you can be free to explore your sexuality together.
Hope your find what you seek.
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