DarkSteven
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Let me give you a bit more insight. If you send women messages like "Hi. My name is XXX and I want to do XXX with you,", you'll get marked as spam by the recipients. If you send messages like "Hi. I notice that your profile indicates that you like hiking and camping. I'm new to the area but hiked, camped, and fished a lot in Colorado when I was there. Could you suggest some good trails and fishing spots locally?" you'll be fine. 1. Don't state any fetishes in your opening message. 2. Make it clear what in her profile interested you, and bring it out in your first message. The fact that the spam filter got you isn't the big issue. The fact that you pissed off enough women to report you to it, is the issue. Even had the filter not been activated, you were striking out badly.
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