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VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/25/2013 5:01:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: MistressSara7
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ORIGINAL: kalikshama
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It is because the site owners are not findomme friendly and thus encourage their members not to be findomme friendly as well. The reason being either they don't believe money fetish to be an actual and legitimate kink or they believe that all findommes are scammers.
What makes you believe this?
It is my experience and also comparing it to other sites. It appears that proclaiming that you are into the findomme fetish churns stomachs around here and thus the hate messages and reporting ensues. While with other similar sites, it's ok to proudly claim your fetish in financial domination and whether people there like it or not, it is generally accepted and respected enough.
Having a banner across the site specifically warning adults against sending money or tributing someone they fancy (by their own free will of course) comes off as very targeted. I recognize that all sites are not created or managed equally so it's really no skin off of my back and those type of hate messages gets deleted anyway. Matter of fact, this is the only site that I have ever gotten hate messages (period) ... regardless of fetish affinity.
We have no control over what type of mail you get. We do not screen each user to make sure that only "respectful" mail reaches your inbox. The stance is taken that you are an adult and can hit the delete button. I find it truly hard to believe you have NEVER gotten anything but mail that is courteous and full of respect on every other site you have ever been on. I suppose its possible, because you stated it. I'm just saying the probability is very low. I have gotten nasty mails on other sites, and they were vanilla and were not remotely related to bdsm or financial domination.
You are allowed to post an ad in the professional section if you are willing to reciprocate and give US free advertising on YOUR website in the form of a banner ad.
As to the money message, believe it or not, there are scammers on the internet that have nothing to do with financial domination. They are in dire need of BUS TICKETS, other supposed help, and some come from countries that are known to be rife with scams, and like to try to ply THEIR trade with some of our more naive posters. We even have some that offer money for a small, nominal, registration fee etc. The users decide what they will do, and believe it or not, there are a lot of people that do not see messages in BIG RED letters at the top of every email they read. They post all the time, bitter that they feel they were scammed out of their money. Nowhere do we say not to "tribute" someone. There are several posters that are well known on the boards that are financial female dominants. They even state that they have subs that have come from this site. The difference might be they took the time to receive trust from other users.
On the other hand, if you use our handy dandy search feature that actually works at times, you will see there are just as many threads where the site is accused of being pro findomme and that it favors them.
The site takes no stand at all on financial dommes with respect as to legitimacy either way. It sure gets accused of it though. We have rules posted for ALL users, not particular subsets.They also have possible actions available to be taken should you get unwanted mail, have unwanted comments made about you, or if they are breaking rules in other areas. If those are followed, your user experience should be a whole lot more stress free. Whining and moaning ( not saying you are, just using those generic terms) rarely works well in real life, and doesnt work well here either to improve the quality of your experiences attained from such behaviors.
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