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FinDommeAdy -> Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 10:28:09 AM)

I don't understand why findommes get more hate mail [8|]



mnottertail -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 10:29:01 AM)

I dont know that to be true, but it might be that they don't give blowjobs.



Lynnxz -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 10:31:12 AM)

Because Windex.



ashjor911 -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 10:50:19 AM)

Because they take the only pic of them in a small bathroom.

[:D][:D]

PS: you dont mind if i wanked all over your legs do ya?



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 10:55:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I don't understand why findommes get more hate mail



As a lifestyle and pro who practices financial domination I do get more "hate" mail on the other side than I did with my completely lifestyle profile that I had up here at one time.

Granted, I bet that many of those emails are from the same people with various sock accounts. I simply take it with a grain of salt though, because their opinions of ME don't mean squat.

Delete and block.
Unless you are board and want to toy with them.



quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

I dont know that to be true, but it might be that they don't give blowjobs.



Who says those that practice financial domination don't give blow jobs?




thishereboi -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:26:24 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FinDommeAdy

I don't understand why findommes get more hate mail [8|]


To me a findomme is someone in a relationship with someone else who controls all the finances. From the profiles I have seen here, I think some think they are somehow entitled just by virtue of being born with a pussy. They demand money before there is any contact, let alone a real relationship. They seem to think that calling men pigs and asking for tribute somehow makes them dominant and yet can't even follow simple rules of TOS. If they can't control themselves how do they expect to control anyone else. I think some people see this and can't help but comment on it. I think others know that it will get said findommes panties in a twist and enjoy fucking with them.


That said I doubt that you will be back to comment. I have noticed a lot of people starting threads and never returning and I have to wonder if they are really looking for an answer or just looking for more ad space.



thishereboi -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:28:54 AM)

I just perved your profile and I think there is a world of difference between your profile and the OP's.



AthenaSurrenders -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:34:01 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: FinDommeAdy

I don't understand why findommes get more hate mail [8|]


Really?

I have no personal issues with findommes. But I can understand why people do have issues, and why certain types of profiles attract certain types of messages. Why not try and think it through? Think about all the different types of people who might look at your profile. Can you see anything there that might upset someone, annoy someone, or make them think you would be fun to mess with?

A key dominant skill - a key LIFE skill - is being able to understand the thought processes of others. If you can't stretch your brain to imagine why people react and behave the way they do, you are going to have a hard time inspiring and keeping hold of a person's submission and making it a fulfilling experience for your both. Maybe you could use this as practice. See if you can think of five reasons why your findomme profile might attract hate mail. It doesn't matter if you agree with the reasons or think they're totally unfair! You should be able to do this.

PS - This is genuine advice and not intended as snark.



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:43:17 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

I just perved your profile and I think there is a world of difference between your profile and the OP's.


Yes, there is but I get that "hate" mail still.



poise -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:45:10 AM)

I think many are going to give you a hard time because of what you have in your profile.
I do require tribute to message me.

This is a FREE website. Every single feature on this site is FREE.
Therefore, you can't expect someone to pay you a tribute in order to message you.
If I wanted to, I could send you a message at half past the hour, every other day.

Here is one section of the Terms of Service for this site, which you agreed to by joining.
7.3.12. You will not use Your profile or any other portion of the Website or Our services to
promote any other business enterprise, unless otherwise permitted by collarme.com,
nor will you attempt to use any of Our services to promote an escort service, prostitution,
web-cams, or any other form of related enterprise.

So, you are in affect using the SERVICES of this site (free email messaging) for profit.

Also, Collarme warns users of some potential scams that take place on this site.
Scam #9 - Requests for "tribute".
This scam is typically perpetrated by persons (male or female) claiming
to be dominant women. Commonly, the scammer will claim that they are
inundated with messages and that you need to send them a "tribute" (money)
to prove your sincerity before they will speak with you further.

Establishing a relationship with a submissive partner who also happens to have the
desire to offer you monetary gifts is a world of difference from "Give me money because I am dominant"



absolutchocolat -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:49:48 AM)

FR

Findommes (the good ones around the forums, anyway) work for their cookies just like me. No hate here, it's all love.



thishereboi -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 12:31:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheLilSquaw


quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

I just perved your profile and I think there is a world of difference between your profile and the OP's.


Yes, there is but I get that "hate" mail still.



That is because this is the internet and there are people on here who can't feel good about themselves unless they are hating on someone. It sucks, but unfortunately there is nothing we can do about it.



TheLilSquaw -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 12:34:26 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: thishereboi

That is because this is the internet and there are people on here who can't feel good about themselves unless they are hating on someone. It sucks, but unfortunately there is nothing we can do about it.


AGREED.

Yes, there is block and delete are what I can do.



LafayetteLady -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 2:00:38 PM)

I think all of them get their fair share.  However, I'm betting you are because of your profile in particular.  A nineteen year old girl who thinks she is entitled to have men pay her way in life.

Gotta love the report button as well.  Blacklisting is not permitted.  I'm bored and had fun reporting your journal posts.



LookieNoNookie -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 5:43:57 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: FinDommeAdy

I don't understand why findommes get more hate mail [8|]


Because they are the definition of succubus.

Read a book.



TNDommeK -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:54:08 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: ashjor911

Because they take the only pic of them in a small bathroom.

[:D][:D]

PS: you dont mind if i wanked all over your legs do ya?


I love you. Lol

You and Ron always post the greatest things.



descrite -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/23/2013 11:56:50 PM)

Just out of curiousity...has anyone heard of a male findom?


Or do we just call them "pimps," still?



Hell, I don't even know of any pro male het doms.


Which is what happens when S and D curves never meet.



TAFKAA -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/24/2013 12:20:39 AM)

Oh, that's easy. They're parasites leeching off men who are too stupid to get women any other way.

Kind of like strippers and whores, really.



LadyPact -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/24/2013 12:35:41 AM)


ORIGINAL: descrite

Just out of curiousity...has anyone heard of a male findom? Yes. While not the majority of the 'fin' category, they are most certainly out there. Not many are successful, though.




Or do we just call them "pimps," still?They aren't necessarily one and the same. Male fins aren't necessarily taking money that is earned by prostitution.




Hell, I don't even know of any pro male het doms. Yep. There are some out there. Some are only het. Some are gay for pay. You are in LA, yes? If so, you've got a few in your own backyard.



Which is what happens when S and D curves never meet.You lost Me on this one, but I hope the rest of the information was helpful.





TNDommeK -> RE: Financial dominant women get nor hate mail than the men do (1/24/2013 1:28:46 AM)

~fr~

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