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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 12:26:41 PM   
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what is even funnier is when i was looking i put that i wanted men slim to athletic. some guys have a very funny idea of what that means. a belly bigger than a full term pregnant woman is not my idea of slim to athletic though.

needles


I had a guy that told me that he went to the gym 4 times a week. If he did, it was to hang out at the juice bar and oggle the women doing aerobics.


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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 12:43:55 PM   
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I was just noticing how so many Dominant's (mainly male) have this on their profile but have a picture up proudly displaying their beer belly's and bodies that are very much NOT HWP. I dunno but it would seem to me that you might get further in your desire for a "HWP" (height weight proportionate) sub/slave if you took the initiative to be HWP yourself. Now I admit I am NOT HWP, not even close baby lol Which I share on my profile truthfully. I am working on getting there mind you because of health issues. But I just had to take a minute and say out loud what others are probably saying to themselves. Maybe it's part of my southern heritage I dunno, and I apologize if I offend.


I've no problem at all with people wanting people of any particular shape, whether it is similar to their own or not.

Just stating, "I want someone this size/shape" when it doesn't match theirs doesn't make me think twice.

But the guys who are yelling and bitching about how fat people (meaning females) are disgusting and need to exercise more and who would want them, etc... yeah, I look at their pic and go, "yeaaaahhhhhh guy, you might want to look in a mirror because if fat= all those things you need to adjust your view of yourself".

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 12:45:47 PM   
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Now I am horribly reminded of a past ( I think...) poster who used to have an avatar picture of himself, shirtless, sucking in his gut, with his moobs proudly on display for all of collarchat to see.
I would say past. Hasn't been seen after an entertaining exchange that I still laugh about.




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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 12:47:06 PM   
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How long have people been saying
"Hight-Weight-Proportionate"?

It just seems like being politically correct, saying
you are looking for a HWP person instead of
saying you don't want an overweight person.

This is the first time I've seen it used, it just
seems a bit unnecessary to me, it's not like
"overweight" is derogatory, it's to some extent
in the eye of the beholder but so is HWP isn't it?

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 12:50:54 PM   
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Congratulations on working to become HWP.

I am a firm believer that people can set whatever standards they want as long as they realize that the more they veer from norm or from what they have to offer, the harder it will to be achieve and in essence don't bitch about it.

Younger seeks older, white seeks black, short seeks tall, slim seeks fat. It happens.

Mostly I find that people often don't have a good grasp of who they are and how to classify themselves. It's like their memory gets stuck at a certain point when they were all that and they don't take into account the passage of time and their sedentary lifestyle. Even though I make it very clear in My profile that I seek someone very lean, I get messages all the time from those who are not but truly believe they fit into what I'm seeking.

Also, I think that people want to avoid saying, "No fatties" or "No BBW's, BHM" so to be PC they put seeking HWP even if they don't really mean super fit or super thin.

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 12:52:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins


what is even funnier is when i was looking i put that i wanted men slim to athletic. some guys have a very funny idea of what that means. a belly bigger than a full term pregnant woman is not my idea of slim to athletic though.

needles


I had a guy that told me that he went to the gym 4 times a week. If he did, it was to hang out at the juice and oggle the women doing aerobics.



I can't agree with this, though.

My Chael is 60lbs overweight, he does 45 minutes of military PT in the morning and usually goes to the gym with me every night and does cardio and weights for an hour.

I'm 50lbs overweight and work out 7 days a week for 1-3hrs doing a mix of cardio and weights.

We've each gotten much healthier and stronger, but Chael's lost no weight. I used to do this and lose zero weight but now am losing with a gastric bypass + my workouts.

We both eat healthy, low calorie, vegan diets.

Being overweight does not mean a person doesn't work out and work out hard.

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 1:14:59 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RumpusParable


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins


what is even funnier is when i was looking i put that i wanted men slim to athletic. some guys have a very funny idea of what that means. a belly bigger than a full term pregnant woman is not my idea of slim to athletic though.

needles


I had a guy that told me that he went to the gym 4 times a week. If he did, it was to hang out at the juice and oggle the women doing aerobics.



I can't agree with this, though.

My Chael is 60lbs overweight, he does 45 minutes of military PT in the morning and usually goes to the gym with me every night and does cardio and weights for an hour.

I'm 50lbs overweight and work out 7 days a week for 1-3hrs doing a mix of cardio and weights.

We've each gotten much healthier and stronger, but Chael's lost no weight. I used to do this and lose zero weight but now am losing with a gastric bypass + my workouts.

We both eat healthy, low calorie, vegan diets.

Being overweight does not mean a person doesn't work out and work out hard.


Well, let's see:

He said he had brown hair. He was bald.
He said he was tall. He was 5'8".
He said he was 37. He was 42.
He said that he owned a restaurant. He was a manager at McDonalds.
He said that he was in shape and went to the gym 4 times per week. He was at least 50lbs overweight.

Sorry, if you disagree.....but I'll go with my assessment and assume that he lied about the gym too. (and judging from his attitude, I'll also assume I was correct about going to the gym to perv on the women, too)

Please keep in mind that I wouldn't have cared if he was overweight (My first Dom had just gone through gastric bypass surgery when I met him), if he hadn't bragged about how in shape he was.


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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 1:23:42 PM   
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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 1:42:46 PM   
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I thought that 'HWP' meant Handy With Plumbing???

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 2:45:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: needlesandpins


what is even funnier is when i was looking i put that i wanted men slim to athletic. some guys have a very funny idea of what that means. a belly bigger than a full term pregnant woman is not my idea of slim to athletic though.

needles


I had a guy that told me that he went to the gym 4 times a week. If he did, it was to hang out at the juice and oggle the women doing aerobics.



I can't agree with this, though.

My Chael is 60lbs overweight, he does 45 minutes of military PT in the morning and usually goes to the gym with me every night and does cardio and weights for an hour.

I'm 50lbs overweight and work out 7 days a week for 1-3hrs doing a mix of cardio and weights.

We've each gotten much healthier and stronger, but Chael's lost no weight. I used to do this and lose zero weight but now am losing with a gastric bypass + my workouts.

We both eat healthy, low calorie, vegan diets.

Being overweight does not mean a person doesn't work out and work out hard.


Well, let's see:

He said he had brown hair. He was bald.
He said he was tall. He was 5'8".
He said he was 37. He was 42.
He said that he owned a restaurant. He was a manager at McDonalds.
He said that he was in shape and went to the gym 4 times per week. He was at least 50lbs overweight.

Sorry, if you disagree.....but I'll go with my assessment and assume that he lied about the gym too. (and judging from his attitude, I'll also assume I was correct about going to the gym to perv on the women, too)

Please keep in mind that I wouldn't have cared if he was overweight (My first Dom had just gone through gastric bypass surgery when I met him), if he hadn't bragged about how in shape he was.




So, you're saying you didn't put a bunch of relevant information about him shown to be a liar in general rather than acknowledging that my point was perfectly accurate and directly responding to what you actually said.

Coolbeans, I'll drop it.

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 3:12:17 PM   
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HWP used to mean sometimes that you were seeking a "Heterosexual White Professional" if you wrote that in your profile and/or "Hispanic Woman Professional".....so that is why it might be confusing as to what some people mean when they write it in their profile.

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 3:14:38 PM   
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Yaknow gang, "Height Weight proportional" doesn't exactly say WHAT the proportions are.

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 3:20:29 PM   
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Oside. does this guy look familiar?




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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 3:27:05 PM   
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My Chael is 60lbs overweight, he does 45 minutes of military PT in the morning and usually goes to the gym with me every night and does cardio and weights for an hour.

I'm 50lbs overweight and work out 7 days a week for 1-3hrs doing a mix of cardio and weights.

We've each gotten much healthier and stronger, but Chael's lost no weight. I used to do this and lose zero weight but now am losing with a gastric bypass + my workouts.

We both eat health, low calorie, vegan diets.

Being overweight does not mean a person doesn't work out and work out hard.

For sure get him checked for celiac, might get checked yourself as it will complicate absorption of GBP. This is one of the major symptoms of the disease is failure to lose & maintain weight on a "healthy" (read whole wheat) diet

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 3:41:25 PM   
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Yaknow gang, "Height Weight proportional" doesn't exactly say WHAT the proportions are.

LMAO umm ego small enough to fit through a single standard door, belly smaller than a 4month pregnant woman, ass no bigger than a 2x6. At least half their original teeth with corresponding appliances, at least knowing what zip code the majority of their hair currently resides???

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 3:57:56 PM   
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Was it one if these?

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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 4:02:51 PM   
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Oside. does this guy look familiar?





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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 4:08:40 PM   
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So what? It's their preference. You don't like it and you are not what they want, just hit the next profile button. I know lots of people who seem to be attracted to the opposite of themselves. That's their choice.

When I was single, I had lots of preferences. Some were not what I am but so what.....that was my choice.

Don't let your own issues reflect on other people's preferences.


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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 4:39:23 PM   
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Oside. does this guy look familiar?





I see you go for that whole, "Paybacks are a bitch" thing. 

EVULLLLLLLL!!!!

That which has been seen can NOT be unseen!



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RE: HWP only - 1/7/2013 5:13:46 PM   
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Well, let's see:

He said he had brown hair. He was bald.
He said he was tall. He was 5'8".
He said he was 37. He was 42.
He said that he owned a restaurant. He was a manager at McDonalds.
He said that he was in shape and went to the gym 4 times per week. He was at least 50lbs overweight.

Sorry, if you disagree.....but I'll go with my assessment and assume that he lied about the gym too. (and judging from his attitude, I'll also assume I was correct about going to the gym to perv on the women, too)

Please keep in mind that I wouldn't have cared if he was overweight (My first Dom had just gone through gastric bypass surgery when I met him), if he hadn't bragged about how in shape he was.



In fairness, if he knows where the gym even IS, he's ahead of me.

Pass the ice cream, willya?


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