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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 6/15/2006 9:06:30 AM   
sabswife


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Status: offline 		well i guess i like financial bondage for selfish reasons.  money stresses me out, not enough of it, what to do with it when there is extra.  all of it.  i just don't like it.  as long as my needs are met i am happy, if i ask for something i am quite happy if to be told no, thats not possibly right now, and pleased to hear if there is.

in previous relationships i was forced to handle finances and i absolutely hated it.  if handing over my paycheque allows me to the freedom to not have to worry about it, im a very happy sub :)  of course this requires a lot of trust in your Dom/me or Master-- but i trust Him with my life, why not money.

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 6/15/2006 9:15:52 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Obviously some do it to make money, others do it because its a trigger that gets some men hot to give up control of their money. It all depends upon what you are into.

I don't think its to unlike the Dom who has his sub working and turning her paycheck over to him so he can take care of her money for her or the one who says he needs it to offset costs of toys etc. Some men are honest and do help their subs save and invest wisely, some do not. It just all depends upon the individual

I personally oversee my subs finances as he is terrible with money and has bankruptcy in his past. He acknowledges he is terrible with money and Im good with it. Its his money, I dont spend it and I dont need it. But he now has savings in a bank account which is something that he never had before and his credit is being rebuilt.

~Lashra

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 6/15/2006 9:23:59 AM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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Status: offline 		My previous owner was really into "financial bondage." He really fucked up a lot of people including myself with that. He figured since he was my owner he would take care of all of my finances. Well, he most certainly took care of them, he stole all of my life savings and spent it on crap (nearly ten grand). When he ran out of money he would make me talk to people on the internet and pretend to be a Mistress and say that if you want me to talk to you you have to send this much money. Now, I am spending most of my time warning others about his poor behavior so that no one else gets into the situation that I was in.

He fucked me over bad because of his "financial bondage" and now I am stuck in FL pretty much without friends and family trying to get back home to my family yet unable to because I have no money.

My thoughts are: if anyone suggests financial bondage to you. Run away!!

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 6/15/2006 11:27:28 AM   
kiska


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Status: offline 		There's financial domination where the Dom/me actually takes control of the submissive's finances and puts everything to appropriate use ...

Then there's financial domination where the submissive gives up the power over his/her money, running the risk of being left penniless (and for some, that threat/fear is a major turn on) ... Pays tributes, tithes, etc etc etc ...

And it really kind of seems like those are two very different things.

One of my skills is handling money. I'm just REALLY good at it ... I'm like the budget queen. Of course, it would be nice if I had more of my own to play around with but in the past when I served, my skills with money were often put to use. I never considered myself to be financially dominating anyone although with that experience, I guess I'd probably be really good at it. At least in as much that the person who gave me control of their money would have all their bills paid on time, their credit cards chopped up and their debt payed off in a reasonable amount of time.

But why?

I *really* don't get it.

I don't understand what thrill a dominant could get from that. Power thing, sure ... I guess this is why I'm not a dominant, though.

Now, the ones who receieve gifts and whatnot, oh yeah I get that. I'd LOVE to have some guy just decide he was going to start giving me cash for simply being the wonderful sex godess that I am. Especially if it doesn't require me to get up close and personal with his bits ... Just give me the credit card and let me go. I've got an Amazon wishlist full of trinkets and stuff just waiting for the opportunity to enrich my life ... Yeah, I get that.

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 6/21/2006 9:52:40 PM   
Calandra


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Status: offline 		I once knew someone who wanted me to take over his finances and for me only to give him a small allowance...
 
I knew another one who wanted me to "blackmail him" I was supposed to ask enough money to make him very very uncomfortable...

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 6/22/2006 4:58:31 AM   
GoddessElectra


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gem

Bightest Blessings
 
Money is power. It gives you the ability to be independant, to make decisons about you life, to move on or stay.
 
Men have tradtionaly made more money, and run the finances, thus held the power over woman. Strip that away by having financial bondage/domination and the woman holds the power over them.
 
Blessed Be
Gem


I agree 100%. My boys pay tribute as their release of power to Me.  NO I am NOT a pro and I do not take their ENTIRE pay, but taking some DOES give Me great joy in knowning they are working for ME.  logging into paypal and seeing money My boys earned in honor of Me turns Me on more then most could ever imagain. I am sure by posting this I will get slammed, but Y/you know what if its not Y/your kink...who are Y/you to judge? its not illegal or immoral IMHO. if the sub/slave gets his/her kinks by giving money to their Owner.... why should Y/you have a problem with it?? this I simply will never understand! It's a fetish some have it others don't!.... doesnt harm A/anyone so let it alone already.


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RE: Financial bondage? - 6/22/2006 8:09:29 AM   
amayos


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ORIGINAL: SingleTail69

this has got to be a myth right? i love checking out the "new users" to see whose coming onboard, but all these hot young learther clad "Dommes" touting financial domination has to be a joke! i'm sure that there are guys out there that will pay a girl well for their services but total financial bondage come on! splain this shit to me!



It's certainly not a myth. In fact, it's quite actively practiced. Why? Primarily it stems from the simple fact that a certain minority of enthusiasts take the term "slave" quite seriously. Slaves do not give of themselves just enough to get by, nor do they dictate boundaries upon what they will do and not do in serving their owner. A slave is not conceded any personal property or right, save that which is allowed by its owner. Money and the earning of it in society is not holy ground at all where this is concerned, and it is only right that the owner is advanced and enriched through the toil of his or her servant.

Of course, some may choose to hide their slaves away from the mills of working society, benefiting from them in other ways. Being refused the ability to make money and build career skills is in many ways a form of servitude carrying greater personal implications. My only qualm about the practice of financial slavery is how easily it can be misused by unscrupulous predators and charlatans posing as enthusiasts of Owner/slave relations. In most cases I feel anyone who demands enormous tributes or repeated "tithing" as first gestures of contact are to be avoided. It stands in my mind that the handing over of one's earned money should be the result of a very intimate form of servitude, among the last bastions of one's sense of possession to be toppled when coming under the protection and ownership of another. It is perhaps important to warn that there is a difference between slave and sucker, acolyte and cash cow.

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RE: Financial bondage? - 12/3/2006 5:45:11 PM   
SaintAllie


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"It is perhaps important to warn that there is a difference between slave and sucker, acolyte and cash cow. "

why?..it's just labels..if their fetish is to feel used as a cash cow .. ( or anything else)..and I am talking here, about grown ups that part with hard earned money consensually..why do we need to differentiate? and come on people.. if someone asks you for money upfront for something you feel is sexual/ controlling  in nature and you pay up, and then you don't get exactly what you want ( if anything)..is that your problem? , their problem ?, or everyone elses problem?..aren't you responsible for your own choices?

( heads for the bomb shelter)..SaintAllie

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 12/3/2006 6:15:25 PM   
LTRsubNW


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ORIGINAL: SingleTail69

this has got to be a myth right? i love checking out the "new users" to see whose coming onboard, but all these hot young learther clad "Dommes" touting financial domination has to be a joke! i'm sure that there are guys out there that will pay a girl well for their services but total financial bondage come on! splain this shit to me!


I'm a Pro sub and I willingly accept cash for my submission.  Now don't be asking me to wear jeans, cause I'm a Dockers kind of guy, and don't be looking for that Elvis kind of snarl....'cause I do my own thing....but...have my people call your people....arrangements can be made.

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 12/3/2006 6:18:04 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleTail69

this has got to be a myth right? i love checking out the "new users" to see whose coming onboard, but all these hot young learther clad "Dommes" touting financial domination has to be a joke! i'm sure that there are guys out there that will pay a girl well for their services but total financial bondage come on! splain this shit to me!

I'm sure folks who aren't into SM say the same thing about those of us who enjoy sticking needles into bodies, lighting them on fire and pissing it out with a full bladder.  Different strokes for different folks.......

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 12/3/2006 6:31:09 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		I just ask what the fuck is up with the third thread on this today?

Are we going through this shit again?

Bring on the ebonyftshgoddess, and we'll have another go, eh, lads?

Yours,


benji

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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 12/3/2006 6:41:21 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		EFG?  GAWD, I want at that girl in the worst way, I will send her home to her momma, crying about, 'Do you know what that mean little cracker done to me?'...........Her Mom: 'I don't wanna hear it................'


And she is very pleasant to talk to as well.

Ron


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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 12/3/2006 7:25:01 PM   
MichMasochist


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: SingleTail69

this has got to be a myth right? i love checking out the "new users" to see whose coming onboard, but all these hot young learther clad "Dommes" touting financial domination has to be a joke! i'm sure that there are guys out there that will pay a girl well for their services but total financial bondage come on! splain this shit to me!

I'm sure folks who aren't into SM say the same thing about those of us who enjoy sticking needles into bodies, lighting them on fire and pissing it out with a full bladder.  Different strokes for different folks.......


Now I've heard of sticking a lighted candle in a subs; mouth and a mistress pisses it out.  But needles set alight is a new one to me,  If I may ask just what kind of needles are these and where are they place?


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RE: Financial bondage?!?!!!! WTF - 12/3/2006 7:29:46 PM   
Morrigel


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ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

Wait im not tottaly sure I understand what you mean by "total financial bondage"


Basically, you take all your money out of the bank in one dollar bills, and then the domme ties you up, buries you under a huge pile of it, and rolls around on top of you being screwed by a handsome boy-dom gigolo with a ten-inch wang.

Then when she's done, she and her boyfriend gather all the money up in garbage bags and leave you there hog-tied to be abused and taken advantage of by sinister gents with names like "Cletus" and "Raoul".

--M 

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