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I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 5:32:07 PM   
itswhatyouwant


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Status: offline 		Claiming that "people are saying" that I'm a guy. I'm inclined to think this is just flame or some dude trying to get me to cam with him. Should I pay any attention to it or chalk it up to idiocy?
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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 5:36:49 PM   
JanahX


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Status: offline 		What people? Who are you worried about?

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 5:44:32 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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Status: offline 		Well, we can't know if it is rude or if all those people are wrong or not without proof, so I'm afraid you will have to get naked and get on cam for us (by us I mean me).

I'll happily verify that you are/or aren't a guy.

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 6:04:28 PM   
Toysinbabeland


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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 6:10:35 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Nope, just wankers hoping to get a free cam show.

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 6:26:46 PM   
Toysinbabeland


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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 7:08:10 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 7:08:13 PM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Just some guy trying to get you to show your tits on a web cam. Don't worry about anything unless it comes in the gold lettering that the admins use.

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 7:10:48 PM   
Kana


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Apparently, one can blame a man for trying

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 10:12:47 PM   
KaiKai


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Status: offline 		I was getting that from a lot of people too. Just tell them to fuck off. lol

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/22/2012 10:15:46 PM   
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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/23/2012 4:46:02 PM   
itswhatyouwant


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the advice, Everyone! That's what I'll do. ^__^

& to Toysinbabeland, I suppose everyone is vulnerable to self-doubt every so often. Doesn't everyone?

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/24/2012 3:47:43 AM   
jennacide


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Status: offline 		Is it a mid 30's guy from California with long blond hair?

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/24/2012 9:48:50 AM   
StrapMistress77


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Status: offline 		I wouldn't even respond at all. Who cares? I also dismiss anyone that is pushy and sends multiple messages with no replies from me. There are all sorts of red flags I look for but don't want to post them here due to trolls.....Don't wanna give them any hints.

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/25/2012 1:16:19 PM   
LonDom61


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quote:

ORIGINAL: StrapMistress77

I wouldn't even respond at all. Who cares? I also dismiss anyone that is pushy and sends multiple messages with no replies from me. There are all sorts of red flags I look for but don't want to post them here due to trolls.....Don't wanna give them any hints.


I feel the same way StrapMistress. There's a whiny male Dom in another thread. Wanted feedback about his email contact with a "disrespectful" sub (basically, I'm guessing, feedback of the "you're so right, WhinyDom" variety).

I was going to go through, in detail, where (IMO) he was wrong and "here's what you should be doing"...

...but then I cooled off a bit. Realized that, if a guy doesn't have a clue, he acts certain ways...which show as red flags to those he's in touch with.

I'm not gonna write him a blueprint that lets him SEEM better than he is.

Basically, not just "don't feed the trolls". Don't educate 'em to look like us, either.

Tough balancing that with the whole "...but be helpful to those who ask" thing. I'm still working on that.

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/25/2012 1:34:28 PM   
lxlt


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the internet, I guess.

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/25/2012 1:36:07 PM   
QueenRah


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Status: offline 		I had someone tell me he thought I was fake and had used a fake photo. I mean, seriously? If I were gonna fake it, OP, I'd be more inclined to use your picture than mine!

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/25/2012 1:39:09 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		One time, a few years ago here, someone sent me a link to a Yahoo BDSM page where a 19 yr old lesbian in TN was using my old photo.

He was very indignant. I just laughed and said, hey, good luck to her. I am flattered that anyone believes my photo to be representative of a 19 year old lesbian from TN.

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/25/2012 7:27:19 PM   
Kana


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Status: offline 		Links or it didn't happen, Red

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RE: I keep getting rude messages - 10/26/2012 12:12:12 AM   
descrite


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Status: offline 		One of my recent subs contacted me on FL with a very direct, simple explanation, and a no-face photo featuring a really impressive rack (in one of those bras with the infrastructure that uses the nice gel material, like a bicycle seat).

Anyway, I thought she was Russian spambot algorithm, and told her so.

She assured me she wasn't, and went on to ask me a bunch of questions.

I was very impressed with the math skills and software engineering being offered by the schools in Kamchatka, but I replied some more...

What is this...October? We've been playing since July, and it keeps getting better and better.

Every now and then, I will just look at her, in total befuddlement, and say, "Y'know...there's no way you're real."

She will often reply, deadpan, "What makes you think I am."


If this is a Cronenberg movie, I'll stay very happily in the biologically-enhanced living television.


Errr...so, upshot: he might be courting you, and neither of you know it.

Ah....young love....

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