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sunshinemiss -> RE: Just to stir the fat pot... (8/27/2012 2:03:16 PM)
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I saw the thread as being started all in good fun. I'm going to respond in that vein. (not in vain. heh) I'm at the gym 2-4 times a week, 2 hours each time... that includes a half hour discussion with Diablo. He looks at all the photos of my meals since we last saw one another, we work on scheduling and discussing any injuries / goals I have, there is time for questions / concerns. There is a whole lot of laughter than happens then too. Then I go for a walk or a bike ride for at least 45 minutes every day, 5 days a week (more or less). I listen to my body. If I'm tired, it's a leisurely stroll or ride. If I'm more energized, it's a hustle bustle kind of thing. When I ride my bike in particular I'm crazy happy. I am grinning before I'm a block from my house. I sing and talk to everything around me. It's goofy, but it puts me in a great mood! This working out and focusing on taking better care of my body has been really great for my social interactions, too. Several of my friends have been inspired by my success (not really MINE - more like OURS, but that's another topic), and now instead of meeting at a coffee shop or for dinner, my friends and I go for a walk or play miniature golf, go salsa dancing, take a yoga class, or even just walk around a museum / festival, etc. I pretty much nix the coffee / dinner thing for my own piece of mind, and now there are a million things I hadn't noticed before. I'm involved in a whole slew of activities now. Is it because of my energy level? because the self confidence that is built? because my body fits better with other people? I don't know. I just know that it's better, I'm more active, I have more friends, and I'm loads happier. Diablo has decided I need to work on trust issues. That bastard. Now he has me walk backwards during our workouts. I have to really pay attention and listen to him so that I stop when he says stop or I'll hit something. I gotta tell you, it's harder than the workouts! Yesterday when I was doing this, I cried because it was so emotionally difficult. "It will give you courage" he told me. And I decided that he is in the top 5 people in my life that I trust, so if I can't do this with him, I can't do it with anyone. I closed my eyes and went zoom backwards. I pass by the bakeries. My trick is to say to myself that everything is made with rat poison except the scones and the biscuits. I can have one every day because I decided that I wanted to keep some of that amazing yumminess in my life, but I didn't want to go through the "What do I want? Everything looks so good! I'll just get 12 things and not decide!" There was a debacle begging to destroy my body! (Thanks to JeffBC for the "rat poison" idea. It works for me.) So for me, exercising at the gym has become a starting point for making my life fuller. Hallelujah. best, sunshine
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