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Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:16:46 PM

lushsensei

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No. I don't even begin to believe it.

I have sent tons of messages to submissive women here whose ads CLAIM that they want someone like me.

Damn near none of them have looked at my profile or responded.

Now, I could understand if I said things that were lewd or uncouth. But that's not the case. I have always been polite and respectful. But it doesn't matter at all.

I'd be willing to bet $100 there isn't an available, submissive woman within 25 miles of my house, but saying that would merely invite the wrong kind of responses.

So, no, count me among the skeptics.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:20:40 PM

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OMG dude, you joined on July 4 and still have not found someone??

Really??

How about some patience. You live in CA, there are tons of submissive women there. How would anyone know they want someone like you, when you have not shown anything to be interested in.

Try creating an interesting profile, can the negativity and throw a photo up.

Wow. One things submissive women do not like is a whiny guy.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:27:03 PM

Lockit

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Always nice of the powerful dom's to come in and tell the world how whiny they can be when they don't get what they want. Of course since it was so bad for them, in a matter of days... it couldn't work for anyone else! Of course not!

That ought to bring the babes out in clusters! To think... one could have a dom like that. No reasoning things out, no trying to understand that his nick might be off or his likes and dislikes a turn off... nope. The babes didn't pay attention so everything is a lie.

Tsk, tsk... you all are fuckers! I'm not because I looked at his profile and know why most might have ignored him.

The part where I turn into a fucker... this post and my not telling him what it is.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:29:45 PM

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What's the point in a profile? From what I can see, NO ONE READS THEM!

I had a photo up. It was about the best picture of me I could find. I thought it was a fairly handsome one. But I guess nobody cared.

As for the amount of time I've given it, that's pointless too if nobody but scam artists will give me the time of day.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:32:53 PM

Lockit

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The last time I saw someone this cranky, he had poopy diapers and needed a change. Dude, go take a nap, your cranky ass is about to get you a time out.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:36:05 PM

lushsensei

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Well, see, there we are. I've been respectful and stated my case. In response, I have been demeaned and called names.

I rest my case.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:37:29 PM

Lockit

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Respectful?

First off you come in yelling about the lies and all that. You are really venting to strangers, don't know the site or how it works and then whine, whine, whine. Just what is respectful about that?

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:43:53 PM

lushsensei

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I've shown more respect so far than I've received, that's for certain.

Who have I called a name? Who have I described in disrespectful terms?

My complaint is that everything I have done in the - admittedly short - time I have been here has been, so far as I can tell, an exercise in complete futility. I don't expect instant gratification. But there is no evidence of progress at all. So why should I bother?

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:45:43 PM

Lockit

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You shouldn't bother... you just don't have what it takes if something this small leads to volcanic proportions and really ought to be rather embarrassing.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:45:51 PM

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You shouldn't.

I have been on here since before July 4th and didn't get a blowjob on my birthday, so what chance do you think you got?

Give it up, you are done in by your first post here.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:50:18 PM

lushsensei

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That's fine. I was done before I posted here. Because it's clear that this place is a complete waste of time. If I can save the next person some anguish, then I'll be satisfied with that.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:50:46 PM

LadyPact

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OP, I moved away from that state exactly fourteen months ago. Not all that far from where you live. I can guarantee that there are single female submissives within the range you stated. That goes for both on this site and on Fet.

Just because you've had no luck in finding them, does not mean they don't exist, very specifically, just a bit farther south than you.

I'm calling shenanigans.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 5:57:59 PM

mnottertail

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In the anguish and gnashing of teeth department, you are so very very all alone.

I believe that women find me repulsive as much as I believe them when they say they'll scream.

I am sure that if you are as smooth in your private cmails as you are in your public tantrums, you are doomed to your angst.

Stand on the street corner and hit em up, you live in a big town, you will have equal luck there as here. How many guys do you think tell these gashes how perfect they are for them every fucking nanosecond?

You got any hobbies?

You are gonna fuck around and get us all caught.

You can quote me.

Ron

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 6:22:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lushsensei

No. I don't even begin to believe it.

I have sent tons of messages to submissive women here whose ads CLAIM that they want someone like me.

Damn near none of them have looked at my profile or responded.

Now, I could understand if I said things that were lewd or uncouth. But that's not the case. I have always been polite and respectful. But it doesn't matter at all.

I'd be willing to bet $100 there isn't an available, submissive woman within 25 miles of my house, but saying that would merely invite the wrong kind of responses.

So, no, count me among the skeptics.

I think I am missing the positive experience in this. Could someone please bold it for me. Thanks!!

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 6:27:05 PM

angelikaJ

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Are you just looking for anyone, or are you wanting to find someone who is right for you?

I live in a much smaller state than you.

When I was available but not looking I had a page full of cmails (so 20) nearly every day (with the exception of the first month or 2 and then I had at least twice that and sometimes over 100).

The man who became [my] Master sent me a cmail within a day or 2 of joining.
We met 3-4 weeks later and are still together, over 3 years later.

However, His experience is not typical.

What set Him apart was that he sent me a very personalised messaged and asked interesting questions.

What I am trying to say is that if you are not hearing back from anyone, well think of it this way: of you were sending out your resume and never got asked for an interview then clearly something about your resume is not appealing to employers.

So, if you give it adequate time (and a week is NOT!). then it must be something about your approach.
The good news is that you can change your approach, but ranting/whining about the site, not only is a horrible point of reference, but it also indicates that you are unable or unwilling to accept responsibility for your actions.

So, back up, and start over.
Perhaps asking some of us to review a sample email would be a good place to start.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 7:25:07 PM

JanahX

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this is an awesome temper tantrum - would you like a rattle and a ba-ba?

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/10/2012 7:57:28 PM

kalikshama

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quote:

What's the point in a profile? From what I can see, NO ONE READS THEM!

You haven't been here long enough to learn how to read profiles in stealth mode, which I've done to avoid the inevitable scolding for "visiting without saying "Hi.""

quote:

Because it's clear that this place is a complete waste of time. If I can save the next person some anguish, then I'll be satisfied with that.

That's sure not clear to me or the person I met for lunch today.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 4:52:44 AM

xLaChienne

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama
You haven't been here long enough to learn how to read profiles in stealth mode, which I've done to avoid the inevitable scolding for "visiting without saying "Hi."

Hold up! How do you view profiles in stealth mode?

To the OP - I was here less about a month and met 3-4 people a week in real life, in person, from this site and didn't even have a picture posted. I met someone with whom I decided to explore a potential relationship. It ultimately didn't work out. I've been back here for a little over a month this time around and have only met 2 people in person from the site. Perhaps I should take the pictures off. Hmmm. My point is that it's the luck of the draw more than anything.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 4:54:30 AM

GreedyTop

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I also vote we keep xLaChienne!

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 5:02:30 AM

pyschosubmission

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quote:

That ought to bring the babes out in clusters! To think... one could have a dom like that.

Listens out for the impending stampede...

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