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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 5:09:22 AM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Hmmm...thanks for the warning OP. <Back to contemplating all the wonderful people I've met from CM.>

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 5:12:32 AM   
searching4mysir


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ORIGINAL: lushsensei

I've shown more respect so far than I've received, that's for certain.

Who have I called a name? Who have I described in disrespectful terms?

My complaint is that everything I have done in the - admittedly short - time I have been here has been, so far as I can tell, an exercise in complete futility. I don't expect instant gratification. But there is no evidence of progress at all. So why should I bother?


Anything worth having is worth working for. I, certainly, would never submit to someone who lacks patience and whines.

Keep in mind that men outnumber women by at least 10:1, so you truly ARE in competition for our attention.

As far as respectful, eh, not so much. What is respectful about whining?

< Message edited by searching4mysir -- 7/11/2012 5:37:13 AM >

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 5:17:28 AM   
kalikshama


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quote:

Hold up! How do you view profiles in stealth mode?


Log out

Or use another browser for looking at profiles.

I believe there is a setting that prevents someone without a profile from seeing your profile so when someone has chosen this setting you must be logged in.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 5:24:03 AM   
mons


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hello

You must calm down you will frighten a submissive woman
right away from you! It is not good to be so mad it takes time,
to find someone!

You get bad apples but in that bunch you will
find the sweetest and rarest of all with patience, and kindness!

It will tell and fall into your lap the movement you stop, being
so mad! I know as soon as you listen to these well meaning
folks who know what they are saying, it will work!

They may say things you will not like but it is the best place here
and all of them mean well!

good luck,
best regards
mons

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 6:43:04 AM   
CRYPTICLXVI


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Status: offline 		Actual advise... which will be ignored.
First, shut the fuck up, nobody likes someone who whines.
Now, learn who you are, what you actually want.
Meet people, go out and meet people, this is just a resource.
Speaking of resource... use the forums as a resource. Read, ask questions,
listen, interact, get to know people.
Last, you whine about not meeting anyone, then you whine when Lockit calls you
on your shit. Get over it.

...and finally, since you won't listen, I will loan you the only secret you need:

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 6:49:30 AM   
NuevaVida


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ORIGINAL: lushsensei

No. I don't even begin to believe it.

I have sent tons of messages to submissive women here whose ads CLAIM that they want someone like me.

Damn near none of them have looked at my profile or responded.

Now, I could understand if I said things that were lewd or uncouth. But that's not the case. I have always been polite and respectful. But it doesn't matter at all.

I'd be willing to bet $100 there isn't an available, submissive woman within 25 miles of my house, but saying that would merely invite the wrong kind of responses.

So, no, count me among the skeptics.


It's all in the attitude. If you don't think you'll find someone, you won't.




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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 7:11:08 AM   
tj444


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Status: offline 		well,.. for a dude to have a new profile of only 6ish days old and for him to go on a rant cuz he mistakes this site for Subs-r-us or Insta-sub4U.. the fact that ya have absolutely no patience is a huge, huge red flag to subs like me..

oh, and btw, if no one has mentioned it yet, all yer whiney collar-chat posts are permanent and any sub (that has half a brain) will view your posts to get an idea of what kinda person you are..

and btw2.. Welcome to the site..


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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 7:22:06 AM   
OsideGirl


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Here's what I find funny:

If you were fishing and you knew there were fish in the lake but there was not one nibble on your line, would you blame the fish or would you think you were using the bait?

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 7:26:57 AM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lushsensei

No. I don't even begin to believe it.

I have sent tons of messages to submissive women here whose ads CLAIM that they want someone like me.

Damn near none of them have looked at my profile or responded.

Now, I could understand if I said things that were lewd or uncouth. But that's not the case. I have always been polite and respectful. But it doesn't matter at all.

I'd be willing to bet $100 there isn't an available, submissive woman within 25 miles of my house, but saying that would merely invite the wrong kind of responses.

So, no, count me among the skeptics.


It's not them, it's YOU!

< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 7/11/2012 7:27:39 AM >

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 10:26:26 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: lushsensei

That's fine. I was done before I posted here. Because it's clear that this place is a complete waste of time. If I can save the next person some anguish, then I'll be satisfied with that.


Well if you ever unhide your profile, you will accomplish that just by letting them read your posting history.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 10:39:59 AM   
Dresproperty


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lushsensei

That's fine. I was done before I posted here. Because it's clear that this place is a complete waste of time. If I can save the next person some anguish, then I'll be satisfied with that.



WOW~~~ who tinkled in your corn flakes??? Someone needs to seriously switch to decaf.

For me this site has never been a waste of time. My Master found me on here after a year of me being on here on my original profile. Ive also learned alot about other peoples different point of views in this forum.

You have only been on here for a week. It takes longer than that to connect with someone via internet chatting on vanilla sites so why would you expect anything different on here??? Regardless of your whining I do wish you luck on your quest of finding a sub.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 12:22:28 PM   
TNDommeK


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Status: offline 		Hmmm, we found the girls within their first week of being online. Bait must have been good,lol. OP, I don't know what to tell ya. I do agree with the temper tantrum part, you need to nix that shit. That's like instant sub repellent. Hell, I'm a Domme and you irritate Me. Patience on this site is very much needed.

Endorsements,lol.



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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 1:32:28 PM   
hlen5


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kalikshama

quote:

Hold up! How do you view profiles in stealth mode?


Log out

Or use another browser for looking at profiles.

I believe there is a setting that prevents someone without a profile from seeing your profile so when someone has chosen this setting you must be logged in.



You can also type in a partial nick on the home page of the other side. Example - xLaChie instead of xLaChienne.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 3:03:38 PM   
littlewonder


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ORIGINAL: lushsensei

I've shown more respect so far than I've received, that's for certain.

Who have I called a name? Who have I described in disrespectful terms?

My complaint is that everything I have done in the - admittedly short - time I have been here has been, so far as I can tell, an exercise in complete futility. I don't expect instant gratification. But there is no evidence of progress at all. So why should I bother?


Dude I was single for 8 friggin years before I found Master and you're expecting in what....less than 2 weeks to have found someone??? I can only assume you're about 18 years old right? The mememe instant gratification generation?

Good luck with that. LOL

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 3:24:14 PM   
pyschosubmission


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

I can only assume you're about 18 years old right? The mememe instant gratification generation?


Hey! we're not all douches, oh who am I kidding

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 4:03:26 PM   
lizi


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ORIGINAL: lushsensei

No. I don't even begin to believe it.

I have sent tons of messages to submissive women here whose ads CLAIM that they want someone like me.

Damn near none of them have looked at my profile or responded.

Now, I could understand if I said things that were lewd or uncouth. But that's not the case. I have always been polite and respectful. But it doesn't matter at all.

I'd be willing to bet $100 there isn't an available, submissive woman within 25 miles of my house, but saying that would merely invite the wrong kind of responses.

So, no, count me among the skeptics.


I'm kind of surprised that you'd advertise you've had such crappy luck - it should be kind of embarrassing shouldn't it, that no one wants to talk to you? I'm just not sure I'd want the world to know that I couldn't get a response to save my life, and here you are OP moaning about just that.

In the tons of messages you've sent we only have your word that they were polite and respectful. Did you ask women what their fantasies were, or how long they've been doing 'this', or what their favorite BDSM activities were? I get that all the time and I view it as inappropriate since it's about intimate activities and I have never heard before from that person who asked me about it. Would you tell the guy checking out your groceries that you like getting tied up before being fucked six ways to Sunday? I don't. Not only would I not respond to a personal question from a stranger, I'd not respond if you lived too far away, were too old/young, or had some other characteristic that I didn't need to look at your profile to find out. In fact, I could just not be in the mood to peruse you for any reason at all, and it should be perfectly acceptable since no one really has to have a reason not to be in the market that day.

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RE: Lies, damn lies and Endorsements - 7/11/2012 6:23:47 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: lushsensei

No. I don't even begin to believe it.

I have sent tons of messages to submissive women here whose ads CLAIM that they want someone like me.

Damn near none of them have looked at my profile or responded.

Now, I could understand if I said things that were lewd or uncouth. But that's not the case. I have always been polite and respectful. But it doesn't matter at all.

I'd be willing to bet $100 there isn't an available, submissive woman within 25 miles of my house, but saying that would merely invite the wrong kind of responses.

So, no, count me among the skeptics.


Gawdamn man...none looked at your profile????

That is soooo fucked up!

I'd consider suing CollarMe.com.

Something is SERIOUSLY wrong here and frankly...I'd demand retribution.

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