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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain
Did you by any chance think this person was a girl when the picture was small then get upset when you made it big and found out it was a boy?

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ORIGINAL: ClassIsInSession

Or was it the fact that until you figured out he was hung better than you, you got a woody from his picture? lol..... Remember the Crying Game?

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

fr-

thanks for your insights and opinions so far. perhaps it is weird, that what bothered me was him tucking. i just thought, no no no!

I used to do that occasionally in front of my last partner. She'd find it *really* disturbing - which would just make me laugh, I'm afraid.

(Anyone remember the relevant scene from "Silence of the Lambs"?)

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ORIGINAL: LukaBR

Pretty damn prudish. Technically not an explicit photo as no genitals are showing, so it follows the rules of the site just fine. Probably be a good idea to note on your profile that something like that offends you so deeply so the right people know to stay away. You claim you're not homophobic, but clearly homophobia has some hold on you. If you wouldn't bitch about a girl having a photo as close to a full frontal as she could allowably have yet the idea of a male doing the same bothers you, there's definitely some discrimination there. Please stop oppressing your own gender, there's still a lot of freedoms males are fighting for.

Edit: That's one high quality stripper right there. Also, post wasn't in response to LadyHibiscus, but Karmastic instead.

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ORIGINAL: Marc2b

I would vote no on "prude." Everyone has their own tastes. I don't care for nude dudes either but in the interest of fairness and equal time I don't get huffed about it. Personally I love a good pussy shot but since pussies come with human beings attached to them I like to see at least one photo of that human being. The one thing I really hate is the (thankfully rare) spread cheeks/gaping sphincter shot (especially if it is a dude). I mean, c'mon! I don't need that in my face! Still, since it is a sex/BDSM site, I figure you got to expect that once in a while. I also have no use for (again, thankfully rare) scat shot. I still haven't fully recovered from my experience with two girls and one cup.

As for tucking, again I'm an live and let live guy but I too am a little freaked out by it.

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ORIGINAL: FullCircle

Doesn't bother me in the slightest, can't really explain why it bothers you (if that is what you were hoping for by starting this topic?).

Some people are scared of buttons, I don't know why.

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ORIGINAL: Karmastic

I usually enjoy seeing all the mini profile pics when I log off. There's always some interesting pic or beauty worth a hover-click. But today, my eyes saw something I just don't want to freakin see. A full frontal male nude. Now, I'm not into penis or the male form, and don't particularly want to see that; but, it's not a biggie.

But this man was tucking and trying to appear to be a woman. It's hard to describe. It weirded me out a bit because I especially just don't want to see that, and not shoved in my face - I had simply logged off, and I had not gone looking for it. Believe me, I'm all for acceptance and tolerance of others in doing WIITWD. And I'm pro-gay, fine with cross-dressers, and think it's great for them if it makes them happy. Trust me, I'm not homophobic or anything phobic in this realm. In fact, I've even complimented cross-dressers on their profile pics.

But for some reason, this was over the top for me, and for that reason (a naked man trying to look like a woman). So my question is, does this bother you too? I presume some types of raw nudity in profiles is looked down upon, and you can certainly expand on that if you want. But I'm more interested in the added dynamic of how who is naked and how seems to matter for me, and I presume, for all of us.

Don't you give the person more of the break if it's an attractive woman with decent shots, versus some hairy man with a boner? And would you have more of a visceral reaction (as I did) if it was a man trying to appear as a woman, but naked.