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JstAnotherSub -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 4:44:33 AM)
quote: Did you by any chance think this person was a girl when the picture was small then get upset when you made it big and found out it was a boy? That was my initial thought too. Kinda like hiring a hooker off the street and getting all turned on, then grabbing the package instead of a pussy.

PeonForHer -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 5:26:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic fr- thanks for your insights and opinions so far. perhaps it is weird, that what bothered me was him tucking. i just thought, no no no! I used to do that occasionally in front of my last partner. She'd find it really disturbing - which would just make me laugh, I'm afraid. (Anyone remember the relevant scene from "Silence of the Lambs"?)

needlesandpins -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 5:29:39 AM)
i hate seeing the spread pussy and arse shots. or defecating shots, but it's ok because i have a hide button and so never have to see them again. a tucked male is not going to do anything bad to me at all, and while i don't get why it does to you we are all individuals. i will never for the life of me understand though why Doms seem to think that the way to entice a woman is to spread another woman's pussy all over his profile. i often wonder if those photos are being used with permission too. or maybe it works both ways, a domme has to have other male's cocks plastered all over her profile to get another one. i've now got no idea of how many profiles i've hidden, but hundreds for sure. needles

needlesandpins -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 5:31:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic fr- thanks for your insights and opinions so far. perhaps it is weird, that what bothered me was him tucking. i just thought, no no no! I used to do that occasionally in front of my last partner. She'd find it really disturbing - which would just make me laugh, I'm afraid. (Anyone remember the relevant scene from "Silence of the Lambs"?) that's what i had in my mind. maybe i'm showing my weirdness here, but i always thought it was the best scene. needles

SassySarijane -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 5:50:42 AM)
The only time a full frontal nudity tucking shot would bother me is if the person was trying to pass as a female and lying about it rather than being upfront about being male. I've seen that done believe it or not.

Lucylastic -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 5:55:37 AM)
yes it was:) Heheheh, and I enjoyed Jay and silent bobs version tooo!!!! grins, altho I am biased in the way that feminizing is interesting just like MIP said:)

LafayetteLady -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 6:07:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact It was the tucking that bothered you? I'm not going to call you a prude, but hon, just where do you think they are stashing the package when in drag? If they are going to have that smooth look in the front, it's got to go somewhere. Yes, I actually am harder on chicks. I have absolutely NO desire to have pussy shots in My face. I know a lot of men aren't bright enough to get the concept that I want to meet your face before being introduced to your junk, but like MIP, I honestly believe that women should know better. I'm a big fan of the report button for genital shots. I agree with this totally. Although I don't like to see any nude shots as a first pic. I don't really look at female profiles, unless they have posted here, but if they do and there first picture is nude or overtly sexual, it does affect how I respond to their question (including men). Yes, it is a kink site, so to a point it is to be expected. After all, plenty of people are here just for the sex, so of course they will lead with something sexual. For those of us seeking a relationship, I think most of us prefer something vanilla first as we get to know someone. Essentially, if you lead with nudity or overtly sexual photos, to me it says that is all there is to you. If that is what you want to portray, then go for it, but you won't be going for it with me.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 6:10:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: Karmastic fr- thanks for your insights and opinions so far. perhaps it is weird, that what bothered me was him tucking. i just thought, no no no! I used to do that occasionally in front of my last partner. She'd find it really disturbing - which would just make me laugh, I'm afraid. (Anyone remember the relevant scene from "Silence of the Lambs"?) LOL! I remember that scene so well. I knew it was done but that is the first time I had seen it. I was much funnier when Jay did it in "Clerks II" though.

Marc2b -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 6:33:10 AM)
I would vote no on "prude." Everyone has their own tastes. I don't care for nude dudes either but in the interest of fairness and equal time I don't get huffed about it. Personally I love a good pussy shot but since pussies come with human beings attached to them I like to see at least one photo of that human being. The one thing I really hate is the (thankfully rare) spread cheeks/gaping sphincter shot (especially if it is a dude). I mean, c'mon! I don't need that in my face! Still, since it is a sex/BDSM site, I figure you got to expect that once in a while. I also have no use for (again, thankfully rare) scat shot. I still haven't fully recovered from my experience with two girls and one cup. As for tucking, again I'm an live and let live guy but I too am a little freaked out by it.

MissImmortalPain -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 7:42:25 AM)
So I wasn't the only one that heard the words "Would you fuck me, I'd fuck me" in the back of her head when they read this topic....yay. I love that movie/book. And I now have a whole new mental image of you, peon, that is much better than the one I had before. [;)]

Lucylastic -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 7:43:31 AM)
hehehheheh

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 8:27:11 AM)
Did anyone see the Tommy & Pamela sex tape? He did that tucking thing and Pamela was all EEEEEE. I thought it was hilarious. I may or may not be some kind of perv.

Lucylastic -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 8:43:05 AM)
Dear lady, that has never been a doubt in my mind:)

Deliena -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 8:46:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I may or may not be some kind of perv. If you're not I want my £0 for use of this site back now.

PeonForHer -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 8:53:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain So I wasn't the only one that heard the words "Would you fuck me, I'd fuck me" in the back of her head when they read this topic....yay. I love that movie/book. And I now have a whole new mental image of you, peon, that is much better than the one I had before. [;)] Hell's bells - I'm not coming near your neck of the woods without a bodyguard!

kdsub -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 9:01:11 AM)
Perhaps I should have read TOS before sayings this but it is a little funny to me that CM gives people such a hard time with nudity in their primary photos…Then… posts secondary nude pictures themselves for anyone to see. Butch

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 9:08:28 AM)
I don't think you are a prude, but let's face it, most highly hetro males get a bit of a squick going over the pansexuals among us. The (perceived) ambiguity can be confusing. I like that, which is why I love CDs, TVs, TGs, you name it. I revel in the ambiguity and fluidity of gender. But not everyone does, nor do they have to. It doesn't make you a prude in my book.

doctorgrey -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 12:29:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Katayotta quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist They can't all be midget strippers that hang around in the mens bathroom. You're being a tad prudish ya' think? [image]http://a3.ec-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/42/a4621d9d06e297cfb90a37d63a3a05ec/l.jpg[/image] I would so hang out with them. They just look like fun people. On topic. How the fuck can you bitch about seeing nudity on a site like this? It's like going to Popeyes and complaining because they gave you chicken. Spinach, surely? DrG

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 12:37:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain So I wasn't the only one that heard the words "Would you fuck me, I'd fuck me" in the back of her head when they read this topic....yay. I love that movie/book. And I now have a whole new mental image of you, peon, that is much better than the one I had before. [;)] Hell's bells - I'm not coming near your neck of the woods without a bodyguard! I'll protect you, Darling. Sisters under the skin, MIP and I. [;)]

LukaBR -> RE: Okay, am I being prude or what? (6/14/2012 1:50:15 PM)
Pretty damn prudish. Technically not an explicit photo as no genitals are showing, so it follows the rules of the site just fine. Probably be a good idea to note on your profile that something like that offends you so deeply so the right people know to stay away. You claim you're not homophobic, but clearly homophobia has some hold on you. If you wouldn't bitch about a girl having a photo as close to a full frontal as she could allowably have yet the idea of a male doing the same bothers you, there's definitely some discrimination there. Please stop oppressing your own gender, there's still a lot of freedoms males are fighting for. Edit: That's one high quality stripper right there. Also, post wasn't in response to LadyHibiscus, but Karmastic instead.

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