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Hello all - 12/22/2011 2:34:14 AM

SarahJoy

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Hello all,
I am a new, inexperienced but eager to learn female sub.
Any advice for the newbie, particularly from experienced subs would be greatly appreciated.
Sincerely
Sarah

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RE: Hello all - 12/22/2011 2:57:17 AM

DarkSteven

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My advice is to meet people first, before a play partner. Google "BDSM Brisbane" and see what comes up. Contact the people who are locally active, and ask them about the local scene, etc.

Welcome to the kink world.

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RE: Hello all - 12/22/2011 5:19:22 AM

ashjor911

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Welcome Sarah

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RE: Hello all - 12/22/2011 7:29:29 AM

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Hi Sarah and welcome. My advice is meet your local community, take it slow and use your head.

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RE: Hello all - 12/22/2011 7:45:36 AM

searching4mysir

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Hi Sarah,

Welcome to the discussion side of CM.

If you've been alone a while, watch for "sub frenzy". Take your time to pick the right partner and just because a guy self-identifies as a dom doesn't make him YOUR dominant. You only owe him basic human courtesy until you decide he is worthy of more. My submission is tied to my relationship, so that was far more important to me than what toys he had or what he wanted to do to me. That doesn't mean that the kinks list is unimportant. For example, I'm not a masochist, so a sadist wasn't going to be a good match for me.

Keep an eye out for "discreet/discrete" in profiles (it usually means they are married and cheating on their wives). When I was searching, if they told me they were married I asked to speak with their wife to get permission to play with them (they always ran like the wind).

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RE: Hello all - 12/22/2011 9:29:50 AM

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Welcome to CM and the boards Sarah. Great advice given above me. Wishing you the best of luck in finding the right one for you.

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RE: Hello all - 12/22/2011 12:46:24 PM

SarahJoy

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Thank you all, I appreciate the kind welcome.
And thank you for the sound advice, I quite agree that I shouldn't be rushing headlong into any sort of relationship or agreement, ill just hang around and find my feet.
Special thanks to DarkSteve and Looking4mysir
Sadly the bdsm community is my city is very very small, but never the less i shall do my best to explore it.
Sincerely
Sarah

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RE: Hello all - 12/23/2011 3:12:25 AM

OohAahMrs

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Welcome sarah, my advice is, get rid of the pecil!

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