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searching4mysir -> RE: Hello all (12/22/2011 7:45:36 AM)
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Hi Sarah,
Welcome to the discussion side of CM.
If you've been alone a while, watch for "sub frenzy". Take your time to pick the right partner and just because a guy self-identifies as a dom doesn't make him YOUR dominant. You only owe him basic human courtesy until you decide he is worthy of more. My submission is tied to my relationship, so that was far more important to me than what toys he had or what he wanted to do to me. That doesn't mean that the kinks list is unimportant. For example, I'm not a masochist, so a sadist wasn't going to be a good match for me.
Keep an eye out for "discreet/discrete" in profiles (it usually means they are married and cheating on their wives). When I was searching, if they told me they were married I asked to speak with their wife to get permission to play with them (they always ran like the wind).
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