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RE: Dreams... - 10/9/2011 11:28:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: Hippiekinkster

I became "addicted" to my dreams a couple years ago. It got to the point where I was trying to completely avoid reality. I had a better life in the dreamworld.

All of my dreams are in Technicolor, very few are erotic at all, and most feature someone I know, who has been a good friend or major influece upon me. There are some recurring motifs; strange subway systems which carry me through mescaline-vision urban settings (dense buildings, stores, museums with fascinatingly bizarre artwork... M.C. Escher-type houses with the most intricate woodwork, including wood mosiac floors, elaborate bathrooms (there have been a couple weird waterspotrs scenes in these), wooden statues and small gargolyles which punctuate crown moldings,...

The few erotic segments I have are invariably hetero... and almost always have a strong emotional component, such as meeting a woman and falling in love... holding hands... kissing and hugging... very romantic. I'd put up a pic of the type of woman who accompanies me in my dreams if I could remember how.

I've read that about lucid dreamers...those who can do it very well are in danger of slipping into that dream state because it is so much better than reality. Kinda scary to think of...and kinda sad too. :(

You're the second male on this thread to mention how your erotic dreams are more romantic than sexual. (Unless the first poster was fibbin'!!! ;) I wonder if this might be a tendency of many men...because that certainly would be ironic if it were the case. I know my erotic dreams are more sexual than romantic. But in my awake life, I want both. :)

You do have what seem to be odd dreams. I rarely have repeating sort of dreams...not since I was a kid. At least none that I remember. Speaking of remembering. Didn't I say this already? *LOL*

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RE: Dreams... - 10/9/2011 11:40:33 PM

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The disturbing dreams I have involve signals pointing to a loss of control on my part. The most realistic one is where my teeth are literally crumbling out of my gums. And I can FEEL each little piece of tooth rolling around in my mouth, and each one breaking apart. The first thing I do when I wake up is run my tongue over my teeth...just checking, yanno! And the other one involves me chewing gum.....it continually gets stuck on my teeth, and I have to reach in and pull it off my teeth.....and I can feel the sensations of putting my fingers in my mouth and the tugging to remove the gum.

Since I was a kid I had these teeth dreams. I haven't had one in a couple of years, thank God. In my teeth dreams, my jaw starts opening and slamming shut uncontrollably, so hard that my teeth start to splinter and cut through my gums. I can feel the pain in my dream. Then they start crumbling and coming out of my mouth, but a film begins to form in my mouth, gagging me, and I try to spit it out with the teeth, but it just gets all goopy and messy and painful. Meanwhile, my hands are literally trying to hold my jaw still, but failing. I usually wake up in a full blown anxiety attack from these.

Soon after my divorce, I had dreams of my ex husband trying to kill me. Again, these were very vivid, in color, frightening, and physically painful. The most memorable was when he pushed me to the ground and began stomping on my throat. I woke myself up screaming. He appears in my dreams from time to time now, but more as an annoyance than anything else.

I've had several very vivid and realistic nightmares which have woken me up in anxiety attacks. That's the worst, because they're so real, and I wake up shaking and hyperventilating, and very confused about where I am and what just happened. These are few and far between anymore- whew. When I do get them, I call the Mister and he calms me and stays on the phone with me until I'm falling back to sleep.

I've had several dreams of my grandmother (deceased) checking on me. These are rather beautiful, and so realistic I feel like we've actually had a visit. I love those. When she died, I had a dream that she came to me and said goodbye. I woke up and it was 4:40 in the morning. My Dad called me later that morning to say she had died...and it was around the same time as my dream.

And then there was the dream in which I was attacked by beanie babies, but we don't talk about that one.

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RE: Dreams... - 10/10/2011 12:12:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: poise

Last night, I had a dream that they had to shut down the Mississippi River Bridge,
(a bridge I barely tolerate) because a ferris wheel (something I will never get on)
that was being transferred from one fair to another collapsed at the top of the bridge.
You'd think that even in dreams, I would recognize that these were good things.
Buh bye ferris wheel! So long bridge!

But nooooooo. It turns out to get even worse, as I was forced to take the I90 bridge
(a bridge I died 100 deaths on on my first and only trip over it)to get back and forth.

Sometimes, dreams are far too real for my liking!

And then, there are dreams that are so pleasantly real that I'm left blushing for hours.

Poise, so you're one of those people who can't go across bridges?
You should study a little about the engineering that goes into bridges and then you wouldn't be afraid. There's no reason to be.

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RE: Dreams... - 10/11/2011 10:44:44 AM

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ORIGINAL: poise

Last night, I had a dream that they had to shut down the Mississippi River Bridge,
(a bridge I barely tolerate) because a ferris wheel (something I will never get on)
that was being transferred from one fair to another collapsed at the top of the bridge.
You'd think that even in dreams, I would recognize that these were good things.
Buh bye ferris wheel! So long bridge!

But nooooooo. It turns out to get even worse, as I was forced to take the I90 bridge
(a bridge I died 100 deaths on on my first and only trip over it)to get back and forth.

Sometimes, dreams are far too real for my liking!

And then, there are dreams that are so pleasantly real that I'm left blushing for hours.

Poise, so you're one of those people who can't go across bridges?
You should study a little about the engineering that goes into bridges and then you wouldn't be afraid. There's no reason to be.