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agirl -> RE: Publicly discussing relationship with others before partner (9/1/2011 10:01:16 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Lockit with added A) B) and C)
A) How would you feel if someone you were involved with, publicly discussed a relationship issue with others before they discussed it with you or even let you know there was an issue?
B) What do you think would motivate someone talking about your relationship with others before you and what effect do you think it would have on you, your relationship and your view of one another?
C) Would you have a problem with this?
A) I'd probably feel like Hannah...... * that I hadn't been sufficiently approachable*. Or, to put that in context of M and I, that I was causing quite a significant problem that he didn't feel able to talk to me about.
B) Similarly to Hannah's response, that *he clearly wanted to talk, but not to me.*
I can only make a guess on how I'd feel, as I've no experience of it with M. Probably disappointment in myself, maybe a tinge of hurt from lack of respect and loyalty regarding my feelings on this type of thing (I'm very anal about what I share about ME)
C) Very much so. But I'm not sure what the problem would be.
Having never been in the position I'm only speculating, and I know very well from experience, that how I THINK I'll feel, most often, is not how I DO feel, if imagined circumstances occur.
Pigs would have wings before M discussed me, or *us*, with anyone, in any way. I however DO, with ONE person. I can moan and groan to my heart's content to her about all manner of dross.This works perfectly well as I'm the emotional one and M is pure logic.
Publically, there's not a chance that either of us would. The loyalty aspect would be kicked to fuck if either of us did so. We are both in absolute accord here.
agirl
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