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ORIGINAL: londonpee Hey All, So I kind of stumbled into the Alt world while pursuing my peeing fetish, something I have had since I was a teen. I want to know if people consider a love of watersports on it own enough to constitute BDSM? I.e. Am I in the right place to try and find people into the same thing as me? I like the fact w/s can be a form of dominance or submission. (drinking etc) but then I'm not so into many of the other things that constitute my (possibly stereotypical) notion of a BDSM 'lifestyle'. E.g. bondage or the concept of 'owning' someone. Maybe it's just because I haven't tried these things? Help! Yes, you are in the right place. That in it's own IMHO, it is only enough to be considered no more than a fetish. Some consider BDSM or some aspects of it to have no manual, no predetermined set of rules. I for one believe it relies heavily, on self-knowledge, self-teaching and common sense. As to the concept of owner/slave, I still can't understand for the love of me, why would someone willingly engage in such a concept in this day and age. I don't have a lot of real life BDSM experience to be of much help, but I am sure there are plenty of people around who do. Tony
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"I may be submissive, but I am not your slave" by me. - Yes , I suffer from the syndrome of over-generalization. It's not so much what I write, but the way I write it.
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