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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 9:13:13 AM

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yeah but I'm a twue sub, so I shall do it on my knees

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 9:16:34 AM

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As long as your ass can sashay around da room !!

This is the true Achilles Heel of CM - the humor. People would refuse to pay big bucks for this humor !!

No really !!

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 9:20:06 AM

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I shall bow to your supreme Dommeliness on this matter

*but I will pull poopy face and make obscene hand gestures behind yer back*

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 9:24:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

I shall bow to your supreme Dommeliness on this matter

*but I will pull poopy face and make obscene hand gestures behind yer back*

ROFL

Oh wait, I am Mz Dommeliness now, I can't have fun with this. *Repeat to self over and over..."real true dommes are serious buziness" !!

That means YOU missy !!

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 9:29:28 AM

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fake

*runs away giggling*

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 9:37:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

fake

*runs away giggling*

Cries and has an emotional meltdown online, b/c that's what real true dommely type switches do.

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 10:03:28 AM

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Gray Owl,

Welcome to CM.

You've run smack into something that's been posted many, many times. There is no "One Way". Each person [on either side of the kneel, imagine!!

] decides what works for them. THEN they find someone who fits that. If the two (or however many) in the relationship are being fulfilled and happy, that's all that matters. Best Wishes!

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 10:09:35 AM

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Some people get off on having a very passive submissive, other's like myself want a firebrand.

I get off on forcing my partner, violating limits and turning them into fetishes and some out there stuff. At the same time, if I always have to force her, if I always have to be the one to initiate sex or come up with hot new things, I start to feel rejected and unwanted.

So no passive submissives for me please.

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 10:09:38 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

fake

*runs away giggling*

Cries and has an emotional meltdown online, b/c that's what real true dommely type switches do.

Aaaaahhhhhhh
C'mon Chatte, you are better than that.... do more drama.....

I iz jet not seduced to come comfort you or makefeelbetter *giggles*

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 11:17:45 AM

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ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

When I frist got into, was told,trained,how ever you want to say it, a slave did not tell a Master what they what to do to their Master,but yet the slaves of this day and age are telling Master how,when,were,and what they want out of their Master's. This is not sitting well with me! Just thought I would ask this Q.

So, let me understand this. You're saying that back in the day, slaves did not tell a Master what they wanted to do to their Master. I'm confused, do you have a slave that is doing this? From looking at your profile it would appear that you have no slave. Therefore isn't it rather important that a potential slave let you know what they are into so you can see if the two of you are a match? Or are you supposed to just grab someone from online willy nilly with no fact finding other than you seeing that they have the 'slave' box checked off on their profile? If someone was that easy would you really want them? If all it took was some guy waltzing up and saying hey there slave, you're mine now, and btw, I dont' actually care what you like.
Can you see how well that would go in the end?

Of course slaves have needs, and it's a smart slave that lets a potential Master know what they need- so the upcoming relationship can be a success. Back in the day there must have been some pretty poor quality slaves is all I can say...

From your journal:
"Feed up with all the shit on this site,I get juged for who I am and what i'm into,so if you want to know who I am now you are going to have to write to me,tiered of all of the bull-shit. Drop me a line or two and we can see if our kinks are on the same page."

Pardon me but aren't you asking a potential slave to get in touch with you and heaven forbid, let you know what they're into so you can see if you're on the same page? Isn't this doing what you said didn't like in the OP? None of this makes any sense. You also say in this journal entry that you are being judged for who you are....well heck yes! What kind of idiot slave would just take on a Master without judging him for who he was?

You got a lot of good advice in the last thread that you posted. http://www.collarchat.com/m_3727832/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3727832
Doesn't seem as though you took much of it to heart.

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 11:56:15 AM

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Maybe Montucky men don't know how to Master their slaves? Lol. I must have found the exception since I never get away with telling M what to do. Although I did threaten to punch him this morning, Montana girls are fiesty you know, even if we are slaves.

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 12:20:24 PM

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I'm not sure that I understand the question. Since it's already been established that we're not talking about *your* slave, it would seem to Me that anyone with any sense would know that a slave that doesn't belong to you gets to use whatever criteria that they want in their search for a Master. The fact that someone <gasp> uses their own methods to determine compatibility which don't jive with yours should show that you aren't suited for each other in the first place. You're not one of those folks who believe the nonsense of somebody should just be satisfied in someone's ability to Master another just because they checked the "Dominant" box on a profile, are you?

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 1:27:49 PM

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OP, Q for you. Are you still with your first sub? If not, do you think the relationship might have had a better chance of surviving if she had told you what she did and didn't like? If she had felt safe to ask for things that she needed but you weren't giving? Or do you really think the best way for a relationship to be successful is to have zero communication?

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 1:29:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Charnegui

quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

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ORIGINAL: myotherself

fake

*runs away giggling*

Cries and has an emotional meltdown online, b/c that's what real true dommely type switches do.

Aaaaahhhhhhh
C'mon Chatte, you are better than that.... do more drama.....

I iz jet not seduced to come comfort you or makefeelbetter *giggles*

*tries jumping on a fast drama llama but falls off*

Sooooo undommelilike !!!

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 2:36:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

When I frist got into, was told,trained,how ever you want to say it, a slave did not tell a Master what they what to do to their Master,but yet the slaves of this day and age are telling Master how,when,were,and what they want out of their Master's. This is not sitting well with me! Just thought I would ask this Q.

Well, I doubt M would be THAT bothered either way.......He seems to have a keen enough sense of whether he wants ME around.

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 5:11:29 PM

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"This is not sitting well with me!"

That's what the whips and chains are there for !

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 5:19:25 PM

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cos they lived in a folded newspaper, that is why !!

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 5:46:16 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

When I first got into, was told, trained, however you want to say it, a slave did not tell a Master what they want to do to their Master, but yet the slaves of this day and age are telling Master how, when, where, and what they want out of their Masters. This is not sitting well with me! Just thought I would ask this Q.

If you want a relationship to LAST, of course you should be concerned about what your slave wants and needs out of the relationship. S-types are human and have wants and needs just like 53 year old Dom types do.

Maybe you're just feeling a little pissy because YOU don't HAVE a slave. At least it's not on your profile. Maybe you WOULD have a slave if you gave a rat's ass about said slave's wants and needs. Slaves DO have wants and needs, so get with the program. Put on your big boy panties and quite your whining. It's very unbecoming of a 53 year old man.

Oh, and since I'm feeling a little pissy and uppity now, notice in the quote above that I took the liberty to fix some of your typos in the OP, bolding the corrections, adding some spaces and removing some apostrophes from where they don't belong.

~Hisprettybaby~

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 5:58:29 PM

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yet the slaves of this day and age are telling Master how,when,were,and what they want out of their Master's.

ok cupcake, here's the deal. if your slave doesn't fucking tell you what she wants out of you, then how the fuck are you going to know?

"ahhhh", you say, "very astute you foul mouthed harridan, but why would i care?"

well, that's a good fucking question buckaroo, and here's the reason. if she doesn't get what she wants out of you, then she'll just walk out the fucking door and get it from some other dom. you're not that fucking special, doms are a dime a dozen around here.

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RE: I have a Q. - 7/14/2011 6:35:30 PM

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