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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 5:02:05 AM

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Try whipstiching circles of it to a pair of mittens...this works really well......

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 5:19:45 AM

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I made my own pair of vamp gloves very easily. I have tiny hands, so I had to make my own.

I took a pair of suede dress gloves with fur trim and added self adhesive velcro to the tips, softer on one side, harsher on the other. Great easy vamp gloves that go from quite abrasive to sweet tickly fur in a heartbeat.

Plus they look great !!

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 6:14:33 AM

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the use of sand paper on any sensitive body pary, even fine type would in my opinion frighten a sub/slave. the abrasion can be felt immediately in many situations.

my suggestion based on experience, is to numb the area to be messaged with something like a orajel with 20% benzcaine. You can tell the sub/slave it is amoisturizing or lubricant to be them at easy and cooperate. after the ointment is applied, wait a few minutes for it to work and begin the play. you might find the sub/slave is willing to rub or sand themself thinking it is so harmless and they may only feel a slight sensitivity. they might even get carried away and do it vigorously to please their Mistress/Master.

as the ointment and skin on the sensitive area wears down a bit, the pains will start, by this time all the damage is done and the sub/slave will be sore for th next few days. of course you can only do this desception once unless the sub/slave is a slow learner.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 6:18:06 AM

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the use of sand paper on any sensitive body pary, even fine type would in my opinion frighten a sub/slave. the abrasion can be felt immediately in many situations.

my suggestion based on experience, is to numb the area to be messaged with something like a orajel with 20% benzcaine. You can tell the sub/slave it is amoisturizing or lubricant to be them at easy and cooperate. after the ointment is applied, wait a few minutes for it to work and begin the play. you might find the sub/slave is willing to rub or sand themself thinking it is so harmless and they may only feel a slight sensitivity. they might even get carried away and do it vigorously to please their Mistress/Master.

as the ointment and skin on the sensitive area wears down a bit, the pains will start, by this time all the damage is done and the sub/slave will be sore for th next few days. of course you can only do this desception once unless the sub/slave is a slow learner.

Of course it frightens him, I like frightening him. He's a masochist, it's what he signed on for.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 6:19:52 AM

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Hmm...I was once set to kneeling on medium grade sandpaper (bare knees) for about 20 minutes - it was decidedly memorable. Kitty litter works well for that also.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 6:20:36 AM

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the use of sand paper on any sensitive body pary, even fine type would in my opinion frighten a sub/slave. the abrasion can be felt immediately in many situations.

my suggestion based on experience, is to numb the area to be messaged with something like a orajel with 20% benzcaine. You can tell the sub/slave it is amoisturizing or lubricant to be them at easy and cooperate. after the ointment is applied, wait a few minutes for it to work and begin the play. you might find the sub/slave is willing to rub or sand themself thinking it is so harmless and they may only feel a slight sensitivity. they might even get carried away and do it vigorously to please their Mistress/Master.

as the ointment and skin on the sensitive area wears down a bit, the pains will start, by this time all the damage is done and the sub/slave will be sore for th next few days. of course you can only do this desception once unless the sub/slave is a slow learner.

NO WAY.

My goal is to cause pain here. It is NOT to trick them or to numb their reactions when I am doing something that could cause damage if the pain reactions were blocked. Playing while drugged is a BAD, BAD idea.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 6:27:46 AM

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What Steven said, plus the trust factor - if I was a sub I wouldn't allow somebody who lied to me and caused damage to ever touch me again...

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 8:16:24 AM

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as an aesthetician i cringe!

then again i love glycolic acid at 90% and every two week microderms so maybe this is the cheaper solution? YIKES

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 8:24:01 AM

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the use of sand paper on any sensitive body pary, even fine type would in my opinion frighten a sub/slave. the abrasion can be felt immediately in many situations.

my suggestion based on experience, is to numb the area to be messaged with something like a orajel with 20% benzcaine. You can tell the sub/slave it is amoisturizing or lubricant to be them at easy and cooperate. after the ointment is applied, wait a few minutes for it to work and begin the play. you might find the sub/slave is willing to rub or sand themself thinking it is so harmless and they may only feel a slight sensitivity. they might even get carried away and do it vigorously to please their Mistress/Master.

as the ointment and skin on the sensitive area wears down a bit, the pains will start, by this time all the damage is done and the sub/slave will be sore for th next few days. of course you can only do this desception once unless the sub/slave is a slow learner.

If you tricked me that way, I can promise you that I would not use "desception" at all to hurt you in a way you would feel immediately, right before I walked out for good.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 12:34:44 PM

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the use of sand paper on any sensitive body pary, even fine type would in my opinion frighten a sub/slave. the abrasion can be felt immediately in many situations.

my suggestion based on experience, is to numb the area to be messaged with something like a orajel with 20% benzcaine. You can tell the sub/slave it is amoisturizing or lubricant to be them at easy and cooperate. after the ointment is applied, wait a few minutes for it to work and begin the play. you might find the sub/slave is willing to rub or sand themself thinking it is so harmless and they may only feel a slight sensitivity. they might even get carried away and do it vigorously to please their Mistress/Master.

as the ointment and skin on the sensitive area wears down a bit, the pains will start, by this time all the damage is done and the sub/slave will be sore for th next few days. of course you can only do this desception once unless the sub/slave is a slow learner.

Dishonesty is likely to earn you a swift kick in the ass and a boot out the door!!!

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 12:39:45 PM

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If someone decieved me like that, Id be wearing special gloves with sandpaper palms, a hand job and a wash down with some lemon juice

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 2:48:22 PM

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i am sorry if what i proposed about the use of fine sand paper and using a topical pain numbing agent wihtout telling a sub/slave. yes it was inappropreate to even consider disception. no Domme/Dom would do such a thing. i was only trying to sound brave and come up with something others might be creative with. there was no intent to harm or seriously injure any sub/slave with the idea. please forgive my thoughtlessness.

the other suggested uses of sand paper are certainly interesting and having been the recipiant of its use, know how unconfortable it is after it is used on you.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 3:01:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: experiment2

the use of sand paper on any sensitive body pary, even fine type would in my opinion frighten a sub/slave. the abrasion can be felt immediately in many situations.

my suggestion based on experience, is to numb the area to be messaged with something like a orajel with 20% benzcaine. You can tell the sub/slave it is amoisturizing or lubricant to be them at easy and cooperate. after the ointment is applied, wait a few minutes for it to work and begin the play. you might find the sub/slave is willing to rub or sand themself thinking it is so harmless and they may only feel a slight sensitivity. they might even get carried away and do it vigorously to please their Mistress/Master.

as the ointment and skin on the sensitive area wears down a bit, the pains will start, by this time all the damage is done and the sub/slave will be sore for th next few days. of course you can only do this desception once unless the sub/slave is a slow learner.

If you tricked me that way, I can promise you that I would not use "desception" at all to hurt you in a way you would feel immediately, right before I walked out for good.

He (Shorey) can be a deceptive as he wants with what he does to me. Something like this would make me laugh and hug him when I realized what he did.
He has every right to do what ever he wants to me in any way he feels like it. If it means playing a trick on me, then that's all good too.

As for the sandpaper....I love the idea of it in my panties. And on the nipples.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 3:15:18 PM

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If someone decieved me like that, Id be wearing special gloves with sandpaper palms, a hand job and a wash down with some lemon juice

THIS!!!!!!!!

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 3:26:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

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ORIGINAL: experiment2

the use of sand paper on any sensitive body pary, even fine type would in my opinion frighten a sub/slave. the abrasion can be felt immediately in many situations.

my suggestion based on experience, is to numb the area to be messaged with something like a orajel with 20% benzcaine. You can tell the sub/slave it is amoisturizing or lubricant to be them at easy and cooperate. after the ointment is applied, wait a few minutes for it to work and begin the play. you might find the sub/slave is willing to rub or sand themself thinking it is so harmless and they may only feel a slight sensitivity. they might even get carried away and do it vigorously to please their Mistress/Master.

as the ointment and skin on the sensitive area wears down a bit, the pains will start, by this time all the damage is done and the sub/slave will be sore for th next few days. of course you can only do this desception once unless the sub/slave is a slow learner.

If you tricked me that way, I can promise you that I would not use "desception" at all to hurt you in a way you would feel immediately, right before I walked out for good.

He (Shorey) can be a deceptive as he wants with what he does to me. Something like this would make me laugh and hug him when I realized what he did.
He has every right to do what ever he wants to me in any way he feels like it. If it means playing a trick on me, then that's all good too.

As for the sandpaper....I love the idea of it in my panties. And on the nipples.

Aileen that was incredibly hot!

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 3:32:39 PM

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I have had sandpaper used on my nipples, and I adored/hated it, but I wouldn't ever want to be tricked into it. Tell me you are going to do it, and I will submit, even as I hate it, but trick me and I am gone.

Different strokes and all that.

I will make damn sure to never mention the sandpaper in the panties to anyone I am with though!

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 3:57:53 PM

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I have had sandpaper used on my nipples, and I adored/hated it, but I wouldn't ever want to be tricked into it. Tell me you are going to do it, and I will submit, even as I hate it, but trick me and I am gone.

Different strokes and all that.

I will make damn sure to never mention the sandpaper in the panties to anyone I am with though!

;o)

He never tells me what he has in mind to do to me, so I see no problem with being "tricked".
Between us, it's his right to do anything and to not have to inform me before hand, or even during, or even truthfully if that's not where he wants my mind to be.
I'm certainly not going to have a problem with him doing something that ends painfully...that is kinda one of the aspects of our relationship.

Definitely different strokes.

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RE: The kinky uses of sandpaper - 7/7/2011 4:00:14 PM

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Amen, and the two of you seem to have one of the best damn relationships I have ever "seen".

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