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Trading Places - 6/27/2011 1:05:38 PM   
FelineFae


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Okay Dohkay, just for fun, for all us non-switches.

Dom/mes, what would do if you were a bottom ?
S-types, what would do if you were a top ?
What aspects of your counterpart would you find easiest to relate to ?




my answer is still the same, i'd make a rule about daily full-body massages and weekly brownies.

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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 2:21:43 PM   
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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 2:42:34 PM   
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I'd add a subject to my sentences...


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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 2:49:43 PM   
LaTigresse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Disclaimer : ( this is me NOT hijacking ) ( Yes, a similar question was asked years back, but that post is way over the 6 month necro-age. )

Okay Dohkay, just for fun, for all us non-switches.

Dom/mes, what would do if you were a bottom ?
S-types, what would do if you were a top ?
What aspects of your counterpart would you find easiest to relate to ?




my answer is still the same, i'd make a rule about daily full-body massages and weekly brownies.


Oh sheesh........I would be one of those spoilt princess types.

Seriously........I think the only aspect I can relate to is when I cook huge meal for a big group of people I love dearly, at my house, and I see them really enjoying it. I love having a house full of people, all having a great time.

All the rest I just cannot fathom without huge resentment and ultimately, rage, boiling underneath.


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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 3:01:46 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelineFae

Disclaimer : ( this is me NOT hijacking ) ( Yes, a similar question was asked years back, but that post is way over the 6 month necro-age. )

Okay Dohkay, just for fun, for all us non-switches.

Dom/mes, what would do if you were a bottom ?
S-types, what would do if you were a top ?
What aspects of your counterpart would you find easiest to relate to ?




my answer is still the same, i'd make a rule about daily full-body massages and weekly brownies.


We really are unlikely to *go there* not even for *fun*........Give it a month, a year or two.........perhaps.

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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 3:21:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Fae,
Nothing but love, but I gotta say it...
I'd add a subject to my sentences...



quote:

Disclaimer : ( this is me NOT hijacking ) ( Yes, a similar question was asked years back, but that post is way over the 6 month necro-age. )

Okay Dohkay, just for fun, for all us non-switches.

Dom/mes, what would do if you were a bottom ?
S-types, what would do if you were a top ?
What aspects of your counterpart would you find easiest to relate to ?




my answer is still the same, i'd make a rule about daily full-body massages and weekly brownies.


Disclaimer : I am attempting to not hijack another's thread. There is an existing thread of a similar topic, it is several years old. :

The following questions are simply for fun, for those of us that have fixed roles in our relationships.


Sorry, sunshinemiss, at times I fail to see when I have failed to type all the words that I intended to type in some of my posts.



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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 5:22:21 PM   
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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 5:36:21 PM   
LadyPact


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For play, if nothing else, anybody that I'd allow to top Me should get a serious ego stroke out of the deal.  I wouldn't be doing it unless it was somebody who was damn good at what they do and I trusted implicitly. 


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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 5:41:41 PM   
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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 5:57:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FelineFae


What aspects of your counterpart would you find easiest to relate to ?



Autonomy.

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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 6:05:20 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 7:02:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: FelineFae


Dom/mes, what would do if you were a bottom ?
S-types, what would do if you were a top ?




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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 7:09:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		We'd be going to the theater one town over that only shows indie movies. And I'd get to pick restaurants without considering his taste!

And most of all, he would not only rub my feet nightly but also have to crawl around picking up all of his dirty socks.


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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 8:04:33 PM   
lthrpup


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Status: offline 		I've thought about it from the point of view of creating a worthwhile experience for a submissive, a scene that would result in effective power exchange. I imagined myself leading a scene in great detail and imposing control on a submissive. At least, I know the things I had in mind would result in a submissive feeling the dominant's control being imposed and the submissive's resistance being surrendered. I could not, however, identify enough with the dominant mentality to know whether my carefully designed scene would also appeal to an actual dominant.

Despite much reading here and there, I continue to wonder what motivates dominants and sadists. I am still curious to learn what they desire and enjoy and how they think about it.

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RE: Trading Places - 6/27/2011 8:07:27 PM   
FelineFae


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We'd be going to the theater one town over that only shows indie movies. And I'd get to pick restaurants without considering his taste!

And most of all, he would not only rub my feet nightly but also have to crawl around picking up all of his dirty socks.



fae-kitty is amused. Does your's build a fort around the sofa too?

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RE: Trading Places - 6/28/2011 5:43:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FelineFae


quote:

ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Fae,
Nothing but love, but I gotta say it...
I'd add a subject to my sentences...



quote:

Disclaimer : ( this is me NOT hijacking ) ( Yes, a similar question was asked years back, but that post is way over the 6 month necro-age. )

Okay Dohkay, just for fun, for all us non-switches.

Dom/mes, what would do if you were a bottom ?
S-types, what would do if you were a top ?
What aspects of your counterpart would you find easiest to relate to ?




my answer is still the same, i'd make a rule about daily full-body massages and weekly brownies.


Disclaimer : I am attempting to not hijack another's thread. There is an existing thread of a similar topic, it is several years old. :

The following questions are simply for fun, for those of us that have fixed roles in our relationships.


Sorry, sunshinemiss, at times I fail to see when I have failed to type all the words that I intended to type in some of my posts.




Lawd knows I do the same dang sometimes.



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RE: Trading Places - 6/28/2011 6:29:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FelineFae


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

We'd be going to the theater one town over that only shows indie movies. And I'd get to pick restaurants without considering his taste!

And most of all, he would not only rub my feet nightly but also have to crawl around picking up all of his dirty socks.



fae-kitty is amused. Does your's build a fort around the sofa too?


Worse, I find them behind the sofa. I've never spotted him tossing them up in the air, but he must have. They don't just wind up there through osmosis.


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RE: Trading Places - 6/29/2011 4:55:16 AM   
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Status: offline 		i showed him this and he just laughed. i could not top to save my life, if he ordered me to (which he wouldnt) he would have to tell me what to do. and he just said the only person he may be able to bottom to is someone he trusts completely and can out dom him they would have to get him to submit to it and i have seen others try and fail so so badly and they have just ended up on their knees infront of him. also he woudnt take any pain he is amazed at times what i can take.

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RE: Trading Places - 6/29/2011 6:08:42 AM   
LillyBoPeep


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Status: offline 		VC's "middling" term is about as close as i could get to topping.

though i guess, maybe i could make a rule to use spell checker on any written communication. =p i dunno.

i could mandate gardening hours?


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RE: Trading Places - 6/29/2011 6:21:26 AM   
Kana


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If I were a sub (Yeah like that'd ever happen) I'd top from the bottom!
Show her who's boss. :-)


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