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E-mails - 6/17/2011 10:55:56 AM   
GrayOwl


Posts: 10
Joined: 3/28/2011
Status: offline 		Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !

My mouther GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice ! My mouther was a small women,but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you,and even thow she was olny 5'4" and a skinny tiny little women she got her point across to me,I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head ,and it still hurt too !

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl

< Message edited by GrayOwl -- 6/17/2011 10:58:11 AM >
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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 11:06:05 AM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		Sorry, fella, but the world is the way it is. Your journal post from two months back shows that you're new to computers and the Internet - it's a different world here, where women can get dozens of letters a day.

That said, you're a married man looking for a submissive half your age or less, to fill the needs your wife won't. Expect to develop patience.

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The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 12:15:50 PM   
lizi


Posts: 4673
Joined: 2/1/2009
Status: offline 		No reply is a reply. The slaves you are writing to are unfortunately not interested. You may have better luck if you are willing to accept older women and if you use the spellcheck program on your computer. Good luck in your search.

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 12:20:46 PM   
peppermint


Posts: 5175
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		No reply is an answer.  It means, "I am not interested". 

Your complaint has been heard here dozens of times.  Basically, it is not discourteous to not reply to unsolicited email from a stranger online.  Often times when a submissive does reply with a "no thanks" she then gets a nasty note calling her names or she gets a demand to know why. 

Whining about it does not make you appear Domly.  I suggest you grow thicker skin if you are seeking someone to have an affair with you online. 

However, it does happen and there are also women who seek what you offer.  Keep trying, but keep the whining down.  Good luck. 

(in reply to GrayOwl)
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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 12:21:25 PM   
windchymes


Posts: 9410
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !


Gray Owl


And then you'd write back with a lecture about how your mouther smacked you upside the head for being rude.

Please, let your mouther rest in peace and keep her out of the adult sites, ok?

Other than that, welcome.


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You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.

Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 12:29:48 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		How many times are you going to start this same thread?  Didn't you see that the Mods moved it in the first place because it's not an Introduction.  It's a complaint.

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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 12:31:23 PM   
windchymes


Posts: 9410
Joined: 4/18/2005
Status: offline 		yeah, I was wondering why my chair suddenly flipped backwards and I went flying ass over tincups, as my mouther used to say

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You know it's going to be a GOOD blow job when she puts a Breathe Right strip on first.

Pick-up artists and garbage men should trade names.

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 12:48:56 PM   
peppermint


Posts: 5175
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		I'm curious, what would your dear mother, God rest her soul, think about you going to a BDSM web site to find a slave to have anal and oral sex with you?  Would she think the submissives you are writing to are rude or would she think those submissives are right to avoid a married man who is looking to cheat on his wife?  What did you mother think about marriage vows?  Do you think she might even hit you upside your head if she knew what you are doing right now? 

However, you never know.  You might get lucky and find someone here.  Miracles do happen on occasion. 

< Message edited by peppermint -- 6/17/2011 12:50:11 PM >

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 1:35:36 PM   
angelikaJ


Posts: 8641
Joined: 6/22/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !

My mouther GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice ! My mouther was a small women,but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you,and even thow she was olny 5'4" and a skinny tiny little women she got her point across to me,I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head ,and it still hurt too !

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl


You have been here for less than 3 months.
You have made 2 posts, one of which has been pulled.

This post is so badly spelled it is very difficult to read. That is not an attempt to insult you, one of my best friends has dyslexia and does not use a spell checker. I do not think any less of her. It might matter to some people, however, if your emails are composed that way.

What you do not understand is that the women you are writing to, may be getting 20, 50 or even 100 emails a day.
They would not have time to send an email to everyone who wrote to them. Many of them are in college and/or have jobs.
So, as frustrating as it is, no response is an answer. 

What you do not understand is that many 18-25 yr old women are not interested in men who are theoretically old enough to be their fathers. They also may not want to be involved with someone who already has an "other" and s/he might not be interested in someone who is bi-sexual.

As for your post itself:
quote:


I've been on this site for a short time and even thoough I know it takes time to get though all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curtesy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR ! (note all caps indicates 'shouting' and shouting is considered to be rude behavior)

My mother (a mouth is what you speak and eat with) GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice! My mother was a small woman, (women is plural, meaning more than one) but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you, and even thow she was only 5'4" and a skinny tiny little woman she got her point across to me, I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head, and it still hurt too!

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl
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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 1:44:50 PM   
needlesandpins


Posts: 3901
Status: offline 		you know ya just can't win on this site. i had a complaint for my profile being too blunt and trying to appear tough just because i say i'm only here for the forums and nothing else so don't waste your time.

my profile has been like that since i joined here. now granted i've had alot of compliments about my pics for which i say thank you very much, but as for the rest asking personal questions, wanting to cam for me, making suggestive remarks, cut and pastes, people who very obviously haven't read my profile and so on and so on............why would i reply?

if you are looking for a sub/slave i don't see why you expect them to be any different to anyone else. there is no law that says you must reply and if you don't then you are a bad person. i'm bored stiff by alot of what turns up in my inbox and as i said i'm not looking. i dread to think what it is like for those who are looking.

needles

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 2:44:59 PM   
risktaker9


Posts: 197
Joined: 3/10/2010
Status: offline 		Could be that you're being rude and suggestive to the women you are writing and they don't like it and are ignoring you. You could be so far away from what they're looking for that they don't feel like letting you know that you're not even in the ball park.
You could be sending a one word or one sentence email and no one wants to respond to Hi, or How are you?

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 4:17:55 PM   
flcouple2009


Posts: 2784
Joined: 1/8/2009
Status: offline 		Have same respect and quit boring us with this shit.

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 4:27:34 PM   
LadyConstanze


Posts: 9722
Joined: 2/18/2005
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !

My mouther GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice ! My mouther was a small women,but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you,and even thow she was olny 5'4" and a skinny tiny little women she got her point across to me,I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head ,and it still hurt too !

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl


Have you actually BOTHERED checking with them first (politely) if they might be interested in a married man trying to screw around and them just being your piece of fluff on the side? How nice and polite would that be?

Using the spell check would also be quite nice.

And as others have said before, I doubt your mom would find adultery very amusing, for example what would she do if she was still alive and by chance on a kink site like this and a guy like you would ask her to be his plaything while he's got a wife at home...

Maybe you should be quite glad that they don't bother to answer, some of the answers might be nothing you'd like to read...

_____________________________

There are 10 kinds of people who understand binary
Those who do and those who don't!

http://exdomme.blogspot.com/2012/07/public-service-announcement.html

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 4:38:18 PM   
kalikshama


Posts: 14805
Joined: 8/8/2010
Status: offline 		Please post a sample first email and I will be happy to give you some constructive criticism.

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 5:08:47 PM   
poise


Posts: 9509
Joined: 7/3/2010
Status: offline 		It's unfortunate that you have chosen an internet site that relies on
typing/spelling as a means to communicate to potential slaves.
After reading some of your journals, it is apparent that you are struggling
with spelling, and most women may find that to be laziness on your part,
whether it's fair or not. Instead of worrying about how fast you can type,
stick to the hunt and peck that you make mention of, and yet go even slower.
A clear and understandable message, while still no guarantee to get the
response you want, definitely will increase the chances.
Best of luck.


Also, I didn't see any claim in his profile that he was married.
He states he has a girlfriend that has no issue with him seeking another.

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When the path ignites a soul, there’s no remaining in place.

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 6:17:51 PM   
HeatherMcLeather


Posts: 2559
Joined: 5/21/2011
From: The dog house
Status: offline 		I'm really feeling left out here, I almost never get the chance to ignore emails. Somebody write me so I can cruelly snub you.

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 8:56:16 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline 		You want someone the age of your daughter to cheat on your wife with you. How many women in a bar would politely continue talking to you if you came up and asked them to do what you're asking women here to do? They would walk away from you and tell each other to beware the creep over on the other side of the room.

How would your mother have felt if her husband cheated on her and claimed it was her fault? I bet she would be very disappointed in you for doing this.


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Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 9:52:34 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

I'm curious, what would your dear mother, God rest her soul, think about you going to a BDSM web site to find a slave to have anal and oral sex with you?  Would she think the submissives you are writing to are rude or would she think those submissives are right to avoid a married man who is looking to cheat on his wife?  What did you mother think about marriage vows?  Do you think she might even hit you upside your head if she knew what you are doing right now? 

However, you never know.  You might get lucky and find someone here.  Miracles do happen on occasion. 


This mouther wouldn't want to know her dear son was doing any of those things... please

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Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 9:56:09 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline
quote:

And as others have said before, I doubt your mom would find adultery very amusing, for example what would she do if she was still alive and by chance on a kink site like this and a guy like you would ask her to be his plaything while he's got a wife at home...


He never said his wife didn't know, he inferred she did when he said she wasn't interested in playing with a slave... I maybe mistaken about that.

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

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RE: E-mails - 6/17/2011 10:29:31 PM   
MistressDarkArt


Posts: 5178
Status: offline 		Here's a way to realistically solve your problem: ask your wife for your allowance, then hire a professional to get your oral and anal needs met. Since you don't have to worry about your mother watching, you can even keep the lights on.

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