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GrayOwl -> E-mails (6/17/2011 10:55:56 AM)

Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !

My mouther GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice ! My mouther was a small women,but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you,and even thow she was olny 5'4" and a skinny tiny little women she got her point across to me,I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head ,and it still hurt too !

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl



DarkSteven -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 11:06:05 AM)

Sorry, fella, but the world is the way it is. Your journal post from two months back shows that you're new to computers and the Internet - it's a different world here, where women can get dozens of letters a day.

That said, you're a married man looking for a submissive half your age or less, to fill the needs your wife won't. Expect to develop patience.



lizi -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 12:15:50 PM)

No reply is a reply. The slaves you are writing to are unfortunately not interested. You may have better luck if you are willing to accept older women and if you use the spellcheck program on your computer. Good luck in your search.



peppermint -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 12:20:46 PM)

No reply is an answer.  It means, "I am not interested". 

Your complaint has been heard here dozens of times.  Basically, it is not discourteous to not reply to unsolicited email from a stranger online.  Often times when a submissive does reply with a "no thanks" she then gets a nasty note calling her names or she gets a demand to know why. 

Whining about it does not make you appear Domly.  I suggest you grow thicker skin if you are seeking someone to have an affair with you online. 

However, it does happen and there are also women who seek what you offer.  Keep trying, but keep the whining down.  Good luck. 



windchymes -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 12:21:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !


Gray Owl


And then you'd write back with a lecture about how your mouther smacked you upside the head for being rude.

Please, let your mouther rest in peace and keep her out of the adult sites, ok?

Other than that, welcome.



LadyPact -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 12:29:48 PM)

How many times are you going to start this same thread?  Didn't you see that the Mods moved it in the first place because it's not an Introduction.  It's a complaint.



windchymes -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 12:31:23 PM)

yeah, I was wondering why my chair suddenly flipped backwards and I went flying ass over tincups, as my mouther used to say [:D]



peppermint -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 12:48:56 PM)

I'm curious, what would your dear mother, God rest her soul, think about you going to a BDSM web site to find a slave to have anal and oral sex with you?  Would she think the submissives you are writing to are rude or would she think those submissives are right to avoid a married man who is looking to cheat on his wife?  What did you mother think about marriage vows?  Do you think she might even hit you upside your head if she knew what you are doing right now? 

However, you never know.  You might get lucky and find someone here.  Miracles do happen on occasion. 



angelikaJ -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 1:35:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !

My mouther GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice ! My mouther was a small women,but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you,and even thow she was olny 5'4" and a skinny tiny little women she got her point across to me,I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head ,and it still hurt too !

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl


You have been here for less than 3 months.
You have made 2 posts, one of which has been pulled.

This post is so badly spelled it is very difficult to read. That is not an attempt to insult you, one of my best friends has dyslexia and does not use a spell checker. I do not think any less of her. It might matter to some people, however, if your emails are composed that way.

What you do not understand is that the women you are writing to, may be getting 20, 50 or even 100 emails a day.
They would not have time to send an email to everyone who wrote to them. Many of them are in college and/or have jobs.
So, as frustrating as it is, no response is an answer. 

What you do not understand is that many 18-25 yr old women are not interested in men who are theoretically old enough to be their fathers. They also may not want to be involved with someone who already has an "other" and s/he might not be interested in someone who is bi-sexual.

As for your post itself:
quote:


I've been on this site for a short time and even thoough I know it takes time to get though all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curtesy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR ! (note all caps indicates 'shouting' and shouting is considered to be rude behavior)

My mother (a mouth is what you speak and eat with) GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice! My mother was a small woman, (women is plural, meaning more than one) but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you, and even thow she was only 5'4" and a skinny tiny little woman she got her point across to me, I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head, and it still hurt too!

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl
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needlesandpins -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 1:44:50 PM)

you know ya just can't win on this site. i had a complaint for my profile being too blunt and trying to appear tough just because i say i'm only here for the forums and nothing else so don't waste your time.

my profile has been like that since i joined here. now granted i've had alot of compliments about my pics for which i say thank you very much, but as for the rest asking personal questions, wanting to cam for me, making suggestive remarks, cut and pastes, people who very obviously haven't read my profile and so on and so on............why would i reply?

if you are looking for a sub/slave i don't see why you expect them to be any different to anyone else. there is no law that says you must reply and if you don't then you are a bad person. i'm bored stiff by alot of what turns up in my inbox and as i said i'm not looking. i dread to think what it is like for those who are looking.

needles



risktaker9 -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 2:44:59 PM)

Could be that you're being rude and suggestive to the women you are writing and they don't like it and are ignoring you. You could be so far away from what they're looking for that they don't feel like letting you know that you're not even in the ball park.
You could be sending a one word or one sentence email and no one wants to respond to Hi, or How are you?



flcouple2009 -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 4:17:55 PM)

Have same respect and quit boring us with this shit.



LadyConstanze -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 4:27:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: GrayOwl

Iv'e been on this site for a shrot time and even thow I know it takes time to get throw all of those E-mails it would be nice if the slaves that I write to would have the curdisy to return me a word or 2. Even if it's just to say NO! YOU ARE NOT WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR !

My mouther GOD rest her soul told you should always return a word or 2 just to be nice ! My mouther was a small women,but to this day I can still feel her when she would slap me upside my head for not even giving her even so much as a fuck you,and even thow she was olny 5'4" and a skinny tiny little women she got her point across to me,I can still feel her as her hand hit me in my head ,and it still hurt too !

So have some respect and at least say NO WAY and call it good .


Gray Owl


Have you actually BOTHERED checking with them first (politely) if they might be interested in a married man trying to screw around and them just being your piece of fluff on the side? How nice and polite would that be?

Using the spell check would also be quite nice.

And as others have said before, I doubt your mom would find adultery very amusing, for example what would she do if she was still alive and by chance on a kink site like this and a guy like you would ask her to be his plaything while he's got a wife at home...

Maybe you should be quite glad that they don't bother to answer, some of the answers might be nothing you'd like to read...



kalikshama -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 4:38:18 PM)

Please post a sample first email and I will be happy to give you some constructive criticism.



poise -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 5:08:47 PM)

It's unfortunate that you have chosen an internet site that relies on
typing/spelling as a means to communicate to potential slaves.
After reading some of your journals, it is apparent that you are struggling
with spelling, and most women may find that to be laziness on your part,
whether it's fair or not. Instead of worrying about how fast you can type,
stick to the hunt and peck that you make mention of, and yet go even slower.
A clear and understandable message, while still no guarantee to get the
response you want, definitely will increase the chances.
Best of luck.


Also, I didn't see any claim in his profile that he was married.
He states he has a girlfriend that has no issue with him seeking another.



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 6:17:51 PM)

I'm really feeling left out here, I almost never get the chance to ignore emails. Somebody write me so I can cruelly snub you.



DesFIP -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 8:56:16 PM)

You want someone the age of your daughter to cheat on your wife with you. How many women in a bar would politely continue talking to you if you came up and asked them to do what you're asking women here to do? They would walk away from you and tell each other to beware the creep over on the other side of the room.

How would your mother have felt if her husband cheated on her and claimed it was her fault? I bet she would be very disappointed in you for doing this.



juliaoceania -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 9:52:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

I'm curious, what would your dear mother, God rest her soul, think about you going to a BDSM web site to find a slave to have anal and oral sex with you?  Would she think the submissives you are writing to are rude or would she think those submissives are right to avoid a married man who is looking to cheat on his wife?  What did you mother think about marriage vows?  Do you think she might even hit you upside your head if she knew what you are doing right now? 

However, you never know.  You might get lucky and find someone here.  Miracles do happen on occasion. 


This mouther wouldn't want to know her dear son was doing any of those things... please[:'(]



juliaoceania -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 9:56:09 PM)

quote:

And as others have said before, I doubt your mom would find adultery very amusing, for example what would she do if she was still alive and by chance on a kink site like this and a guy like you would ask her to be his plaything while he's got a wife at home...


He never said his wife didn't know, he inferred she did when he said she wasn't interested in playing with a slave... I maybe mistaken about that.



MistressDarkArt -> RE: E-mails (6/17/2011 10:29:31 PM)

Here's a way to realistically solve your problem: ask your wife for your allowance, then hire a professional to get your oral and anal needs met. Since you don't have to worry about your mother watching, you can even keep the lights on.



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