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SternSkipper -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/4/2011 2:06:22 PM)

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So been trying to get "fertilized" ,so to speak, for a while. I don't ovulate regularly so Assuming I will ovulate eventually I figure sex at least once a day will do the trick.But Hubby isn't quite as into sex as I am.
So in my sleep (and Sex) deprived, delirious musings I came up with the Idea of a surrogate penis lol Someone to be sure that I get a daily dose of that Miracle serum. Wonder if Hubby would be up for that Idea? Is that even legal? any Volunteers?


You know it's somewhat risky to use sperm that isn't managed in terms of it's enviroment (ie - temperature / fluid gases, etc) which is why it's frozen while stored.
Just curious how you plan to manage all that. I mean, you send room temperature priority mail, you could end up with serious consequences in terms of what this union produces. I believe this was the exact method that AZBM was conceived.



LafayetteLady -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/4/2011 3:19:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Mellissande

So been trying to get "fertilized" ,so to speak, for a while. I don't ovulate regularly so Assuming I will ovulate eventually I figure sex at least once a day will do the trick.But Hubby isn't quite as into sex as I am.




So you have PCOS and a military husband stressed about a promotion and still too immature to go jerk off in a cup to get his sperm check? Sorry to be blunt, but those are three major hurdles to overcome.

Have you tried researching on the internet what the odds of you getting pregnant are? Have you spoken to your doctor? Do you for some reason believe that a bunch of unseen, unknown kinky folk are going to know more than your doctor? Again, I don't mean to be so blunt, but for someone who says she desperately wants to get pregnant, you don't seem to have done much but have unprotected sex trying to get knocked up.

From what you have told us, you haven't even spoken to your doctor about your desire to get pregnant. While your insurance may not pay for fertility treatments, there are many things a qualified OB/GYN or endocrinoligist can do to determine whether you can get pregnant along with non-fertility treatment advice that could up your chances.

In just a quick search on the net, I found that many women with your condition are also overweight and with weightloss their chances of pregnancy increased dramitically. Many are also insulin resistant or have thyroid issues.

If you really want to get pregnant as much as you say, start doing your homework and talking to your doctors to find out what you are dealing with as far as your chances go. Then sit down with your husband and have a very open, honest discussion about whether or not he wants a child as badly as you do. I have never had to deal with a military partner, but I'm guessing a tour in Iraq or wherever could make a man less than anxious to conceive with worries he may not be around to see his child grow up.

YOU are not the only one that needs to be considered here.



pahunkboy -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/4/2011 6:59:36 PM)

FR:

in the mean time you should get a cat.  They are great to have as a member of the household.   Why not get on today?



angelikaJ -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/4/2011 7:09:52 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Mellissande

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

Wouldn't it be easier just to take your temperature daily and buy one of those ovulation kits?  Your temperature will rise slightly when you ovulate and then you can use the test kit to confirm that you're ovulating.  If that fails, you should speak with your doctor about putting you on a hormone to make you ovulate.  In the meantime, you can eat vegetables that contain high levels of plant estrogen, such as yams, to see if that helps.


ok, Yams Got it. Ovulation kits don't work with severe PCOS I wish they did, I only menstruate about once every 6-7months... so I have no way to predict my ovulation dates... Trying to go to Fertility doc, But hubby has to have a semenalysis first and he's too embarrassed to ask his sargents for a day off to go to that Particular appointment [:(]



http://www.advancedfertility.com/metformin-pcos-pregnancy.htm 



VideoAdminTheta -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/5/2011 10:22:23 AM)

Over half the thread has been removed because it was off topic or responding or quoting a post that was removed. Please stick to the topic.

Thank you



Termyn8or -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/5/2011 10:41:05 AM)

"Stand on your head after sex.  That is what my SIL did. 

_____________________________

--> jump up and down! "



Hunky, DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT jump up and down while standing on your head. If you already have, please disregard this notice.


T^T



windchymes -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/5/2011 10:48:53 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LafayetteLady


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ORIGINAL: Mellissande

So been trying to get "fertilized" ,so to speak, for a while. I don't ovulate regularly so Assuming I will ovulate eventually I figure sex at least once a day will do the trick.But Hubby isn't quite as into sex as I am.




Then sit down with your husband and have a very open, honest discussion about whether or not he wants a child as badly as you do. I have never had to deal with a military partner, but I'm guessing a tour in Iraq or wherever could make a man less than anxious to conceive with worries he may not be around to see his child grow up.

YOU are not the only one that needs to be considered here.


This is also my concern. I see a whole thread of "I want a child" and "she should do this", but I don't see anything pointing to HIM wanting a child, whether it's at all or just with her. In fact, if HE was wanting a child, I'd think he'd be at least trying to man up and do what he needs to do. But he's not. That speaks volumes to me.

And frankly, any thoughts, call them musing if it makes it sound nicer, about wanting to be impregnated so much that she'll just do it anyway and with anyone that she can to get that way is just disturbing to me.

I think he's got a lot more on his mind to deal with than just returning from a tour of duty.



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/5/2011 11:03:08 AM)

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he's up for a promotion right now which makes him reluctant to ask for a day off to get his spunk tested
I'm confused by this. Why would he have to tell them why he needs some time off. Wouldn't just saying he has a medical appointment be enough? And it shouldn't take a day, I would think an hour or two would be enough to get to the clinic and give a sample.

I'm also suspicious of his lack of desire in sex. I may be missing something, but it sounds to me like he is making excuses. I think something else is going on. If I were you I would have a long talk about it with him.



Kalista07 -> RE: Frustrated... Idea? (6/5/2011 1:17:26 PM)

@Mellissande

Depending on what specific branch of the military your husband is in he may not specifically need to tell them what he's taking the day off for.. One thing you all are not focusing on is that they will no doubt be going to a Military doctor. I would encourage him to go to his general practitioner and have him tested for all of levels of testosterone. One way to sell this to him is it will not only increase his sex drive, but also increase his muscle mass hence making him a faster and stronger soldier, and will reduce his risks of later medical complications.
If you two really want a baby there are ways to get you pregnant that are non medicinal.
Hypnosis is a recognized for of both conception and delivery.
Kali



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