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RE: Required reading for noobs (and us old farts too) - 5/1/2011 5:26:45 PM

salemartist

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Thanks for pointing out that im a psycopath, now what?

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RE: Required reading for noobs (and us old farts too) - 5/1/2011 5:56:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

The problem with these sorts of lists is those who most need to read them won't and if they do, they won't learn and those who least need the help don't need to read them.

A list just like this sure helped me in coming to terms with my ex husband. A list like this, along with a website for abused women who blame themselves, along with some pretty intense therapy, allowed me to start moving forward.

Threads like this are difficult for me because so much light is made of some of the very serious issues presented in such lists. I realize it's my own issue, but I'd say anyone who has not been intimately involved with an actual sociopath should count their blessings.

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RE: Required reading for noobs (and us old farts too) - 5/1/2011 6:43:43 PM

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The most dangerous kinky types I've run into called themselves 's' types, not 'D' types. Not sure why Dom/mes are always seen as predators and sub/slaves as victims.

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RE: Required reading for noobs (and us old farts too) - 5/2/2011 12:36:18 AM

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I found this site to be very informative for new Doms and subs alike. http://www.seekers.org.uk/index.htm Enjoy.

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