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sexyred1 -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/11/2011 10:29:04 AM)

See? I bet there was a ban on electronic devices there. [;)]




peachgirl -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/11/2011 11:28:11 AM)

How about you try making some actual friends first? It might be a better place to start.




kalikshama -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/11/2011 11:31:07 AM)

Yes, cell phones and lap tops were discouraged.

Except for the staff, nobody knew each other, so made more of an effort to be friendly, and sometimes one thing lead to another ;)

When I was in the military in Okinawa, our community was more tight nit than when I served in upstate New York, I believe also because everyone was away from friends and family.

So OP - go to places where no one knows each other and conversations are not prevented by loud music. Spanish class is a great idea. So is yoga - the F:M ratio will be vastly in your favor as long as you avoid the more macho styles like Bikram, Ashtanga, and power yoga. And do try the munches.




NocturnalStalker -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/11/2011 2:40:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: peachgirl

How about you try making some actual friends first? It might be a better place to start.


Friends are just relationships without sex. 

So they're useless.




Arpig -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/11/2011 3:55:21 PM)

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Go to a grungy rock bar and find yourself a nice rock chick, far more likely to be fun!
This




IronBear -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/11/2011 4:16:19 PM)

You work out the sort of person you want to meet and where they hang out then that is where you go.. No brainer really.. Going to places which you don't like (for me the grunge bars are something I'd need to be dead before I'd be seen there). This has worked for me over the last few decades 100%




IronBear -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/11/2011 4:20:19 PM)

RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online?

Crikey YES, I've had more problems with real life hookiups as my two previous matrtrieges can attest. the first one cost me a business, over US$2,000,000 in homes and cars and other personal assets. The last one cost me my son.....

Yet the best thing which ever happened to me was a real life hook up with my Neets....




peachgirl -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 8:49:21 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

How about you try making some actual friends first? It might be a better place to start.


Friends are just relationships without sex. 

So they're useless.



you must not have many friends. be quiet and go brush your hair.




FukinTroll -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 8:51:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: NocturnalStalker

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

How about you try making some actual friends first? It might be a better place to start.


Friends are just relationships without sex. 

So they're useless.



you must not have many friends. be quiet and go brush your hair.



Found yer theme song fo sho!
Where there's a whip, there's a way.
Where there's a whip, there's a way.
We don't wanna go to war today,
But the lord of the lash says nay, nay, nay!
We're gonna march all day, all day, all day,
Cause where there's a whip, there's a way. Where there's a whip, there's a way.
Where there's a whip, there's a way.
Where there's a whip, there's a way.
Left, right, left, right, left
Where there's a whip, there's a way.
Left, right A crack on the back says we're gonna fight.
We're gonna march all day and night
And more, for we are the slaves of the Dark Lord's war.
Left, right, left, right, left, Where there's a whip, there's a way.
Where there's a whip, there's a way.
We don't wanna go to war today,
But the lord of the lash says nay, nay, nay!
We're gonna march all day, all day, all day,
Cause where there's a whip, there's a way.
Left, right, left, right, left, right
Left, right, left, right, left, right
Left, right, left, right, left, right
Left, right, left, right, left, right
Left, right, left, right, left, right




peachgirl -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 9:03:39 AM)

my theme song? lol...I have a theme song? I'd prefer something with less marching and more...loafing.




FukinTroll -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 9:08:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

my theme song? lol...I have a theme song? I'd prefer something with less marching and more...loafing.



You miss the point lil miss... they march, you loaf.
SLURP~




peachgirl -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 9:11:16 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

my theme song? lol...I have a theme song? I'd prefer something with less marching and more...loafing.



You miss the point lil miss... they march, you loaf.
SLURP~



well in that case, I like it [:D]




porcelaine -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 9:26:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

you must not have many friends. be quiet and go brush your hair.


I'd volunteer to do it. But I'll nominate someone else instead. *goes searching for poise*

Namaste,

~porcelaine






peachgirl -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 9:32:02 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

you must not have many friends. be quiet and go brush your hair.


I'd volunteer to do it. But I'll nominate someone else instead. *goes searching for poise*

Namaste,

~porcelaine





you could hold a raffle, even.[:D]




Prinsexx -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 4:58:08 PM)

Real life hook-ups worse than online?
Sure: say you'll relocate and then acrually turn up in the UK.
Or did I miss the rest of the thread????




IronBear -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 5:04:03 PM)

Or they actually log into CM and read their furking c-mails sent a couple of months ago.. 




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 6:54:30 PM)

I'm just going to shake my head and leave it at that.  How can you ask if real life hookups are worse than online when you give us no information where you've found this to be true in your own life?  Now that'd be something we could sink our teeth in.  So to speak.  [;)]




porcelaine -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 7:14:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peachgirl

you could hold a raffle, even.[:D]


*perks*

Auction him or the opportunity? *lips twitching*

Namaste,

~porcelaine




ResidentSadist -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 8:48:42 PM)

Nope. real life hook ups aren't worse than online.  I think the odds run about the same for either, provided you handle both the same. 

You and some others may have a skewed view because they take more time to interview online before "hooking up".  In real life,  if you jump the nearest available 'fresh meat' at the local bars or dungeons, you'll get "taking all comers" results.  Your real life hook ups might not fair the same odds as online where you are more picky or spent more time interviewing.   




MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Real life 'hookups' WORSE than online? (3/12/2011 9:24:54 PM)

Let's see: fifteen years ago is 1996.

I was in Chi-town in 1996.  Shortly before  Halloween.  Good times.  I stumbled onto a place called 'Hang-Ups.'  The Illinois College of Optometry senior class was having their Halloween party there.  Now that was a party.

The ladies were all dressed as sexy cats.  Sexy nurses.  Sexy vampires.  Sexy.....you get the idea.

I don't know what your question was, but thanks for the trip down memory lane!  If you have trouble meeting women in a large city like that you need to think about changing your approach.

As for online vs. meatspace: you have the opportunity to get to know someone via text much easier than you do in a crowded bar with the music so loud you can't hear.




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