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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 6:30:07 PM   
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She green lighted pushing limits and says pain & oral are limits.  The answer is plain as day:

I'd fuck'em in the face till it hurt like hell. 

I'm am a sadist ya' know.


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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 10:37:21 PM   
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So, how did it go? Inquiring insomniacs want to know.......

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 11:14:53 PM   
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I imagine about as well as could be expected...

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 11:57:07 PM   
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I would say, send her to my bridge and I will turn on the cam for you. You can watch as I violate the fuck out of her limits and you wont have a shred of guilt over it. By the time I am done she will let you do anything as long as it does not involve sending her to my bridge.



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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 11:59:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

She green lighted pushing limits and says pain & oral are limits.  The answer is plain as day:

I'd fuck'em in the face till it hurt like hell. 

I'm am a sadist ya' know.



She didn't say hard limits, so I'm with RS on this one.


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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 3:27:13 AM   
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Okay. Sounds like she's brand new and has no clue, and that you have little experience either.

Try having her assume positions. Bowing, kneeling, etc.

Inspect her. Have her strip naked. Touch her body, while commenting on what you'd like go be doing with that particular part of her body.

Have her serve you. Get you a glass of water or a drink. Do housework.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 7:02:46 AM   
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Hey, I need some quick help!

I have a sub coming over in 5 hours who gave me the green light to push their limits/do whatever I want.

And although I wouldn't normally need help in this area...they have hinted that they extremely want to stay away from oral and sex and have a low pain tolerance.

So how do I make their first time good for me and them? Mostly me. lol

Suggestions/list of things to do would work great, thanx!




Ok, poise's comment aside (which was phenominally amusing and should get *quote of the day* status)

...Ahem, no sex, no oral and little pain, you've been told....so what did YOU want to do with a sub about to arrive on your doorstep, supposedly giving you the go-ahead to push her limits/do what you want?

You obviously aren't going to be able to *do what you want* OR push her limits............unless doing what you want to do is doing what she wants?

Playing with words and with the erotic idea of giving up control is fine but you know you're not and she's not, dontcha? ;)

I advise ignoring the Troll-thing unless you have a fetish for *goodbyes*...:)

Be fun to know how it went.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 8:42:38 AM   
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I'm not going to blame her for refusing to exchange body fluids with someone who hasn't gotten a std scan in anticipation of the event. That's being smart in my book.

But in order to know what to do with her, you need to know what she's done. And in order for us to offer helpful suggestions, we would need to know about both your levels of experience.


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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 8:50:01 AM   
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I'm not going to blame her for refusing to exchange body fluids with someone who hasn't gotten a std scan in anticipation of the event. That's being smart in my book.

But in order to know what to do with her, you need to know what she's done. And in order for us to offer helpful suggestions, we would need to know about both your levels of experience.



Quoted and all that other shit cuz it is absolutely SPOT FUKIN ON!


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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 9:05:14 AM   
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I'm not going to blame her for refusing to exchange body fluids with someone who hasn't gotten a std scan in anticipation of the event. That's being smart in my book.

No, but I will "blame" both of them for talking in BDSM double speak and thereby failing to communicate.

Am I the only one who struggles with:

  • who gave me the green light to push their limits/do whatever I want
  • they have hinted that they extremely want to stay away from

Somehow these two statements seem WILDLY in conflict with each other.



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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 10:21:57 AM   
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Would love to know how this came out.. and I'd have to say.. I've got no suggestions for you but you should have been thinking about this 29 hours before your date... or perhaps you two should have just gone for some ice cream to talk about it, then you might have a clue.

you sound inexperienced.. have you told this person that?



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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 10:34:19 AM   
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I was confused by these two statements last page!! I am still confused now.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 11:02:12 AM   
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quote:

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I'm not going to blame her for refusing to exchange body fluids with someone who hasn't gotten a std scan in anticipation of the event. That's being smart in my book.

No, but I will "blame" both of them for talking in BDSM double speak and thereby failing to communicate.

Am I the only one who struggles with:
  • who gave me the green light to push their limits/do whatever I want
  • they have hinted that they extremely want to stay away from

Somehow these two statements seem WILDLY in conflict with each other.




Not here. In fact, quite the opposite.

But M can't be everything......lol

Neither of us has ever had an STD scan..like EVER. And that convo never needed to arise. It's far more a US *thang*.

If you have the gips about STD's then you aren't in the place where you can have *hot, wet, slippy, slidey, un-condomed bald, wild sex.*

Other than that I couldn't take any of it remotely seriously.

agirl



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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 11:03:55 AM   
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I just don't get who he can have the green light to do anything he wants except for the laundry list of stuff that they "extremely want to stay away from". Somehow, in there, there's a communication gap.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 12:40:52 PM   
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Is she a quivering mass of tender ass raped flesh trembling while chained to your radiator after you pushed her limits with an intense waterboarding session or what?   We want a follow up story . . . and/or pics!

Some advice:  As seems a trend in the news, it may be wise to keep one’s newbee slaves & subs away from a telephone for a while.  It seems they call their friends or family and when explaining their newfound joy in the “freedom of submission”, the family calls the cops, the Doms get slammed for kidnapping and rape.  You see, oral sex and anal sex are still illegal in the good ol’ USA. I think they frown on waterboarding too.    

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 1:47:17 PM   
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Is she a quivering mass of tender ass raped flesh trembling while chained to your radiator
Now that sounds like a good 1st date!

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 1:58:40 PM   
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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 2:16:43 PM   
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All right, I will give you the honest stab it this time.

Echoing another poster here... you two really should just talk.


actually I start to wonder if they are just two... as he says:

==> push their limits/do whatever I want.

==> they have hinted that

==> they extremely want to stay away from oral and sex and have a low pain tolerance.

==> their first time good for me and them?

Now...I know that I am one of the last people on this board who is able to get fussy about grammar, with my own grammar issues, but "they" is plural...or not?

sounds to me more like a group shag


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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 2:21:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

All right, I will give you the honest stab it this time.

Echoing another poster here... you two really should just talk.


actually I start to wonder if they are just two... as he says:

==> push their limits/do whatever I want.

==> they have hinted that

==> they extremely want to stay away from oral and sex and have a low pain tolerance.

==> their first time good for me and them?

Now...I know that I am one of the last people on this board who is able to get fussy about grammar, with my own grammar issues, but "they" is plural...or not?

sounds to me more like a group shag



Very perceptive grasshopper... I missed that.

So now... curiosity is killing me... who's ass received the flogger, exactly?

PICS ER IT NAYER HAPPENED


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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/6/2011 2:29:22 PM   
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When all else fails, I always resort to tying her up and forcing her to eat Casu Marzu.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Casu_marzu


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