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Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:16:26 PM

OnyxDelphi

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Hey, I need some quick help!

I have a sub coming over in 5 hours who gave me the green light to push their limits/do whatever I want.

And although I wouldn't normally need help in this area...they have hinted that they extremely want to stay away from oral and sex and have a low pain tolerance.

So how do I make their first time good for me and them? Mostly me. lol

Suggestions/list of things to do would work great, thanx!

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:20:07 PM

Aileen1968

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

Hey, I need some quick help!

I have a sub coming over in 5 hours who gave me the green light to push their limits/do whatever I want.

And although I wouldn't normally need help in this area...they have hinted that they extremely want to stay away from oral and sex and have a low pain tolerance.

So how do I make their first time good for me and them? Mostly me. lol

Suggestions/list of things to do would work great, thanx!

So much for pushing their limits and doing whatever you want.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:22:37 PM

SylvereApLeanan

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Wow, that's not much information to go on. If the person isn't into pain, how about some sensation play with ice, hot wax, etc.? It would help to know what the person likes and what his/her soft limits are. Push the soft limits but not the hard ones.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:24:36 PM

dreamerdreaming

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What Aileen1968 said.

I was gonna say humiliation, but hers is clearly the better reply.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:24:38 PM

FukinTroll

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

Hey, I need some quick help!

I have a sub coming over in 5 hours who gave me the green light to push their limits/do whatever I want.

And although I wouldn't normally need help in this area...they have hinted that they extremely want to stay away from oral and sex and have a low pain tolerance.

So how do I make their first time good for me and them? Mostly me. lol

Suggestions/list of things to do would work great, thanx!

I would say, send her to my bridge and I will turn on the cam for you. You can watch as I violate the fuck out of her limits and you wont have a shred of guilt over it. By the time I am done she will let you do anything as long as it does not involve sending her to my bridge.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:24:54 PM

littlewonder

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sounds like you two need a lot a lot a lot of communication first since you don't seem to have any kind of clue at all.

Even casual play needs to be talked about so you both understand what can and can't be done.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:27:18 PM

Buzzzz

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use your brain.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:31:15 PM

Buzzzz

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quote:

I'm a Master looking for someone into complete TPE. I believe things are best when it's my way and my way only, and anyone under me will be trained from the ground up to fulfill my expectations for them.

It is about a lot more than just a certain BDSM style between two people and although I am open to a relationship with anyone honestly, my slave will live up to that title. Ergo, I am not looking for someone who is only a sub. And I am not looking for someone who wants an easy Master.

taken from your profile....
Now, this just doesn't make sense now, does it?

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:33:48 PM

FukinTroll

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Buzzzz
taken from your profile....
Now, this just doesn't make sense now, does it?

Hmmmm.... the plot thickens.

HEY 21! Buzzzz needs the lil handle under the name to read "CM's Buzzzz Kill"

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:41:09 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

I would say, send her to my bridge and I will turn on the cam for you. You can watch as I violate the fuck out of her limits and you wont have a shred of guilt over it. By the time I am done she will let you do anything as long as it does not involve sending her to my bridge.

Not the bridge!

*reduces your uber Domliness points for that one* :)

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:44:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

So how do I make their first time good for me and them? Mostly me. lol

Don't answer the door!

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:49:07 PM

FukinTroll

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quote:

ORIGINAL: porcelaine

quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

I would say, send her to my bridge and I will turn on the cam for you. You can watch as I violate the fuck out of her limits and you wont have a shred of guilt over it. By the time I am done she will let you do anything as long as it does not involve sending her to my bridge.

Not the bridge!

*reduces your uber Domliness points for that one* :)

Namaste,

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YMMV
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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:50:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

So how do I make their first time good for me and them? Mostly me. lol

Don't answer the door!

ROFL!!

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:50:17 PM

FukinTroll

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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: OnyxDelphi

So how do I make their first time good for me and them? Mostly me. lol

Don't answer the door!

*points at her sig line*
Can I call them or what?
SLURP~

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:52:16 PM

LadyPact

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If you didn't know what you wanted to do with her, why did you ask her to come over in the first place?

Hopefully, she'll have the brains to realize that you don't know and will turn straight around back out the door before any harm is done.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 4:55:34 PM

FukinTroll

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All right, I will give you the honest stab it this time.

Echoing another poster here... you two really should just talk. Learn how well, if at all, she responds to your D energy. If she is receptive to your D and you her /s then just indulge a little power play. Grab her hair, take control, pin her to a wall. See how she responds to your power and control. Do some primal play... if the hair pulling, wall pinning and other hands on stuff goes well, do some power struggle games.

If sex is off the table, and it seems so, if you can control yourself, give her some old clothes, get in the floor and wrestle for control. Rip her clothes off and see how she responds... but only if you can maintain.

YMMV

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 5:58:35 PM

poise

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It's been 4 hours since you posted this query, and yet you are still here lurking?

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 6:25:30 PM

LadyPact

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Pssssttt. That can be just from not logging out.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 6:27:16 PM

NocturnalStalker

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Tie her down and then have your way with her. She's just playing hard to get.

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RE: Quick Ideas Please - 3/5/2011 6:29:54 PM

rick1283

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Be sure to beat her over the head a few times, make sure she knows who's boss.

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