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RE: slave training - 1/21/2011 9:08:08 AM

leadership527

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Is it just my imagination or is there a constant flow of men wishing to be dominant on this board asking "How to"?

Actually, in my time on the boards, I'd say that it's more like "A constant stream of alleged dominants ready to tell other alleged dominants how un-dominant they are."

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RE: slave training - 1/21/2011 12:21:32 PM

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OP i would say that when you do find her communicate well and ask the same of her. From there it really should not be more difficult than any other relationship

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RE: slave training - 1/21/2011 3:00:39 PM

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asking "how" doesn't really diminish someone's quality of "Dominance." some men are so afraid of asking for information that they make a bajillion mistakes. it's arguable that a person who CAN ask for advice is a stronger person than someone who sits and thinks "i'm so awesome i shouldn't have to ask."

like others have said, you build the relationship and the rules of interaction through the process of getting to know each other. if you dream up a lot of protocol without a relationship to apply it to, you might wind up with someone with limitations that can't fulfill them. or you may simply find that LIFE itself doesn't allow for the rules you dream up.
you "train" your slave to your needs through day to day interaction. it really isn't any different from regular relationships -- vanilla girlfriends learn that their boyfriends want two sugars in their coffee, so they make coffee that way. slaves do the same thing.

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RE: slave training - 1/21/2011 3:11:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: salemartist

Is it just my imagination or is there a constant flow of men wishing to be dominant on this board asking "How to"?

.....like counting sheep

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