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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/18/2011 5:09:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci

That's surely your perogative. I agreed with Focus in all his points. I usually do.

I was not arguing (and could not be) with your ability to agree with him.

Irish's reaction was a tad dismissive and hasty, true. Yet Focus' strawman interpretation of Irish's views is flawed.

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ORIGINAL: slaveluci
As far as her having a "more dedicated, obedience/servitude view," I won't touch that kind of statement with a ten foot pole. Who is more dedicated or obedient is a pissing contest I have no desire to participate in.

They are only called "pissing contests" because of people's apathy to do the analytical legwork necessary to actually be able to differentiate degree of styles from degrees of "quality".

Magnús Ver Magnússon is a stronger man than I.
Does that mean I run around crying in existential circles that he's a better person than me? Do I rally against 'strength-comparison' discussions because it will demean my persona to fail in comparison to him?

Now, while "dedication" is certainly a subjective issue, how "obedient" a person is (or, more importantly, wants to be) is verifiable. Some are more obedient than others. This is as self evident as having different fingerprints. If someone isn't as obedient as they'd like to be, they can change it or just be happy with who they are and find someone who matches them. Simple. To the core point, though, is that some people actually seek obedience-based dynamics, and some seek conflict/correction dynamics. Guess which of those two will have greater overall percentages of obedience?.

Does that mean obedience based dynamics are better than c/c dynamics? Obviously not. And only someone confused about what they are or who they are would take umbrage at someone else for having greater skill at something else because they think only universal metaphysical equality can give them a pure sense of self.

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/18/2011 5:52:34 AM

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wow, you guys sure do get flapjawed over little disagreements, simmer down kiddies.....

to the OP, or anyone that cares about my opinion, I agree with Prinsexx, its the old 7 year itch, time to change things up, why not buy him a new paddle or flogger as a gift? Usually works for me.

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/18/2011 6:50:58 AM

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ORIGINAL: Focus50

Whoa, you got all this from the OP...?

I find this an interesting critique considering that you deciphering:

"OP, you'll get this a lot around here.

That apparently domination is defined as kicking back and passively enjoying the fruits of the other's submission....

From IrishMist's original post is the same kind of exercise as seeing the OP's concern with getting a spanking.

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And you've come up with a literal interpretation of what was meant.

No. I've come up with an interpretation. "Literal interpretation" is an oxymoron.

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This "what does a girl have to do to get a spanking these days?" couldn't have been merely a breezy, light-hearted way for a newbie poster to feel her way amongst probable strangers?

That's possible as well.

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You're so sure that this is what she should be damned upon.

I've said nothing of the sort.

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Because your entire response otherwise looks rather cliquey - and hardly the kind of "support" I've ever felt IrishMist was in need of.

Which might close the case if my sole intent here was to pander to emotional support of posters, rather than the logical constructs of people's words.

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/18/2011 6:54:31 AM

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Consideration my ass! (hrmph)
Im probably not even your type, but that didnt stop me from getting excited over seeing you post.
Your reputation, whether famous or infamous, precedes you, and I have enjoyed reading you.

GOD I hope it is infamy!

Infamy indeed.

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/18/2011 6:55:41 AM

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hello everyone. i'm new to this site. looking for advice. have been collared for 7 years & not feeling like Master is keeping up his end of the bargain recently. i'm a very good girl, but it's been tough to not feel neglected. i mean, what does a girl have to do to get a spanking these days?

Maybe your ass got too big for him to spank. Does he have small hands? Perhaps he is having performance anxiety.

You stole my line...

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/18/2011 7:06:39 AM

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wow, you guys sure do get flapjawed over little disagreements, simmer down kiddies.....

to the OP, or anyone that cares about my opinion, I agree with Prinsexx, its the old 7 year itch, time to change things up, why not buy him a new paddle or flogger as a gift? Usually works for me.

Yeah, you do get that alot around here, from certain posters who adore the sounds of their own ong winded posts.

As for the 7 year itch, the only thing that means to me is the old movie with Marilyn Monroe. There is no such thing and just another thing people say to justify problems in a relationship.

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/19/2011 3:43:43 AM

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Which might close the case if my sole intent here was to pander to emotional support of posters, rather than the logical constructs of people's words.

My apologies.

Turns out you're only here for the word-surgery of it all.

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/20/2011 9:00:37 PM

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hello everyone. i'm new to this site. looking for advice. have been collared for 7 years & not feeling like Master is keeping up his end of the bargain recently. i'm a very good girl, but it's been tough to not feel neglected. i mean, what does a girl have to do to get a spanking these days?

Easy enough... here's what you do:

1) Take all his beer and poor it down the drain.
2) Go buy new curtains, and charge it to his credit card.
3) Record six hours of Lifetime for Women over one of his favorite video tapes.
4) Kneel on the floor in front of him with a crop in your mouth and hand him a note detailing what you did in Items #1, #2, and #3 above.

PROBLEM SOLVED!!!

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/21/2011 4:59:25 AM

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Which might close the case if my sole intent here was to pander to emotional support of posters, rather than the logical constructs of people's words.

Isn't that odd? Because it always appears that your sole intent on CMe is to pander to your own ego.

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RE: Having "Master Issues" - 1/22/2011 5:35:24 AM

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Tell him your feelings and desires. Be polite and humble. If he cares for you like a master should he will make time to turn your blues to a nice hew of red. Good luck

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