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Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 7:55:23 AM   
Hotch


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Status: offline 		What do you all think of this idea... Take a woman shopping with the precondition that the more she buys, the harsher her treatment will be to settle her bill. Some scale of punishment would have to be devised before hand so the poor little shopaholic knows how deep of a hole she's digging herself. Maybe a guide she could reference as she's standing in front of the Bob Mackie hand bags. Watching her agonize over those strappy, sexy pumps would oh so entertaining.

Sorry, I'm not seeing this work so well with male subs, but I'm sure you evil types that deal with them can tweek this idea to fit your needs.

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 8:02:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ha!  It actually would work for Me.  From what I've seen on other threads, you're actually close enough in geographic location for the opportunity to arise for you to meet My boy, clip.  We could have a good chat on his affinity for shopping.

I still think the idea could work.  Rather than handbags, shoes, or some other such thing, why not expand the idea to toys and implements related to BDSM?  Talk about bang for your buck!


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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 8:08:18 AM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmm... Maybe a field trip to Mr. S & Fetters? Hell, you could settle the debt right there at the counter. Then off to Stormy Leather or Dark Garden for the missus... Which would be extra fun, because she's not real keen on submitting, but the enticement might be more then she could bare!

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 8:10:02 AM   
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Status: offline 		Shopping is a hard limit for me.
But I love the concept here.
.....I think.

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 8:18:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		You get out there and shop goddammit!!!! Or there will be repercussions!!!!!


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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 8:47:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		*chuckles* I know this isn't where you were going with this, but I just had to laugh as I imagined this playing out with Carol.

Me: Mine, I'm taking you shopping, but I'm gonna paddle your ass commensurately with how much you spend.
Her: So...... does that mean you don't want me to spend any money?
Me: No no, I want you to buy stuff.
Her: Then why are you going to spank me if I do. Do you just want to spank me and save all the trouble of going to the mall?

*laughs* Yeah, I'm not seeing this work out well.

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 8:54:01 AM   
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Status: offline 		Too funny, Jeff.  Sounds to Me like the situation is full of win no matter which way it plays out.

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 9:05:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

You get out there and shop goddammit!!!! Or there will be repercussions!!!!!


  LOOK Happy, i'M WATCHING THE SHIT OUTTA YOU!!!!! 


But....but   but..........RED!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 9:10:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: leadership527

*chuckles* I know this isn't where you were going with this, but I just had to laugh as I imagined this playing out with Carol.

Me: Mine, I'm taking you shopping, but I'm gonna paddle your ass commensurately with how much you spend.
Her: So...... does that mean you don't want me to spend any money?
Me: No no, I want you to buy stuff.
Her: Then why are you going to spank me if I do. Do you just want to spank me and save all the trouble of going to the mall?

*laughs* Yeah, I'm not seeing this work out well.


Almost word for word!.

But of course, as I dislike shopping, it'd be easy. He could, however, manage that with something that actually matters to me, and has.

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 9:15:17 AM   
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Status: offline 		And if they are a masochist? My ex would have bought the mall, all the jewelry, all the shoes and ordered a new car hoping for the worst punishment and praying it would be given in public.

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 10:05:15 AM   
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Status: offline 		LOL! Ok, so it wasn't thought out completely through.

If it played out the way Jeff see's it, I'd explain the purpose of the excercise is to explore the balance beteen material gratification and self preservation. The smart ass comment "well just spank me and save yourself the trouble" would get the obligatory "What an excellent idea!"

Obviously the punishment needs to be taylored for each player. To harsh and it's a no starter and to soft and it's financial ruin. It sounds like R.S. can't have a severe enough scale to save him from bankrupcy!

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 10:24:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		So if she's going to be punished for shopping, what incentive does she have to do so? She could just go with a girlfriend and use her own money to pay for her own belongings.

And if you don't tell her about it beforehand that's pretty low of you.


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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 10:32:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Hotch

LOL! Ok, so it wasn't thought out completely through.

If it played out the way Jeff see's it, I'd explain the purpose of the excercise is to explore the balance beteen material gratification and self preservation. The smart ass comment "well just spank me and save yourself the trouble" would get the obligatory "What an excellent idea!"

Obviously the punishment needs to be taylored for each player. To harsh and it's a no starter and to soft and it's financial ruin. It sounds like R.S. can't have a severe enough scale to save him from bankrupcy!


It's been used with me on a number of occasions....* How badly do you want it?* Sometimes not badly enough and other times it was well worth it. It's just a bit of lighthearted master-trickery.....lol

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 10:49:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

So if she's going to be punished for shopping, what incentive does she have to do so? She could just go with a girlfriend and use her own money to pay for her own belongings.

And if you don't tell her about it beforehand that's pretty low of you.



You're missing the point. It's a friggin GAME. Obviously not your bag of tea. And yes, not telling her beforehand would both, defeat the purpose and be a dick move.

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 10:56:40 AM   
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You're missing the point.

Habitually.


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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 10:58:28 AM   
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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 11:02:23 AM   
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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 11:14:23 AM   
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Status: offline 		we've done this with other things but not shopping. I'm extremely picky when I go shopping that I can go an entire day at the mall and come home with absolutely nothing because I couldn't find anything that I wanted, fit well, wasn't what I was looking for, etc....


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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 11:30:39 AM   
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. . . Obviously the punishment needs to be taylored for each player. To harsh and it's a no starter and to soft and it's financial ruin. It sounds like R.S. can't have a severe enough scale to save him from bankrupcy!

She was a masochistic, exhibitionistic, decadent shopaholic. She would have loved your game . . . just don’t know if anyone would play it with her in the current state of the economy.

. . . hello?
*Master Card customer services department, can I help you?
Yes, we are playing this game and it seems my Master's charge card limit is too low.
*We will be glad to raise the limit. What did you have in mind?
Well, I need another $485,000.00 to buy the entire De Beers collection in this jewelry store.
*. . . <gulp>

<2 hours later>
. . . Hello?
*Yes, hello. This is Resident Sadist speaking.
Sir . . . I am the chief of mall security and I have the managers from Reeds, Kay's, Zales and Tiffany & Co.
*What do they want?
They want to know if you have a truck and security gaurds or should they call Wells Fargo to make the delivery?
*. . . <gulp>

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RE: Speaking of giving salves money... - 11/11/2010 11:33:01 AM   
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Oh yeah, but don't you let them.
You just call out my name and you know wherever I am
I'll come running to see you again.


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