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new to this site and not new to the life - 11/7/2010 5:08:55 PM

goodtimesarenow

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Young 50's male, lots of experience, master seeking a female slave (not a switch) age 30-50 with age appropriate fitness. I think that the thing to be born in mind is trust. Trust in all ways. Mutual respect and a deep honor, one that allows the slave to willing bequeath gifts that are hard to bequeath. This is in distinction to the pure pain slut, which is not to say that the 2 are mutually exclusive. They are not. But trust is the key. Out it grows a bond which can not be shaken and a peasure that transcends all. Deep slave bliss and relief from worry. Pain that goes instantly to deep pleasure. Lots is done with hypnosis and some are naturals for it. It can be used to heal troubled pasts etc. No one can be made to do things they would otherwise not do. But it does relieve agony, tranform it to pleasure and then to slave growth and transcendence.

There must be a professional/occupational respect of slave for master. Vanilla sexual attraction too. Eary keys to to a bond available no other way. Gifts to te savored in the giving and in the receiving.

I am a bit troubled when ads go right to the actual deeds required of the slave. Of course hard things are necessary. I know that. But what is lost is the trust coming from the communication beforehand. Takes a long time to bring a slave to this point. And then the slave would put O to shame. (And O was bi and a switch in the end, not my cup of tea anyhow.) Can I live this. Yes. So can you.

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RE: new to this site and not new to the life - 11/7/2010 5:48:11 PM

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Ummm welcome?

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RE: new to this site and not new to the life - 11/7/2010 7:12:34 PM

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who is O, is that your current submissive?

Your opening post was a bit hard to understand however I wish you all the best in finding what you seek

Join in and post on the message boards as this is a good way to make yourself known to others

edited to fix typo

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RE: new to this site and not new to the life - 11/7/2010 7:43:41 PM

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This mid 50s male, bequeathed with the ability of verbosity, bids you a loquacious welcome.

Psssst.... wanders, he's referring to the fictionalized slave heroine in The Story of O.

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RE: new to this site and not new to the life - 11/7/2010 7:50:52 PM

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Welcome to the Forums. Good luck and may the bequeathing be plentiful!

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RE: new to this site and not new to the life - 11/7/2010 8:17:29 PM

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Glad to see that someone other than me read "Story of O" It was a fantasy writen by a woman in an unrequited BDSM love affair separated by the English Channel and a wife on a dare (real part). Fiction book was immediated inducted into what amounts to the hall of fame of French Literature. It was published anonymously and unanamously inducted for greatness . I think it came with 3 endings, none of them very loving or satisfying as I recall (haven't read it in 30 years). Still O was a swich and crossed her legs when she wanted to be naughty. Movie wasn't bad but the book was better. Still all fantasy. That is why I prefer vanilla magnitism, lots of time to get to know each other and then developing trust leading to much greater things. Hope this makes some sense to someone.

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RE: new to this site and not new to the life - 11/8/2010 12:30:43 AM

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I trust you will enjoy the forums! Have fun and good luck in your search.

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RE: new to this site and not new to the life - 11/8/2010 9:09:23 AM

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