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goodtimesarenow -> new to this site and not new to the life (11/7/2010 5:08:55 PM)
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Young 50's male, lots of experience, master seeking a female slave (not a switch) age 30-50 with age appropriate fitness. I think that the thing to be born in mind is trust. Trust in all ways. Mutual respect and a deep honor, one that allows the slave to willing bequeath gifts that are hard to bequeath. This is in distinction to the pure pain slut, which is not to say that the 2 are mutually exclusive. They are not. But trust is the key. Out it grows a bond which can not be shaken and a peasure that transcends all. Deep slave bliss and relief from worry. Pain that goes instantly to deep pleasure. Lots is done with hypnosis and some are naturals for it. It can be used to heal troubled pasts etc. No one can be made to do things they would otherwise not do. But it does relieve agony, tranform it to pleasure and then to slave growth and transcendence.
There must be a professional/occupational respect of slave for master. Vanilla sexual attraction too. Eary keys to to a bond available no other way. Gifts to te savored in the giving and in the receiving.
I am a bit troubled when ads go right to the actual deeds required of the slave. Of course hard things are necessary. I know that. But what is lost is the trust coming from the communication beforehand. Takes a long time to bring a slave to this point. And then the slave would put O to shame. (And O was bi and a switch in the end, not my cup of tea anyhow.) Can I live this. Yes. So can you.
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