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secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/20/2010 1:40:54 PM)

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kiwisub12



Thank you  for your  insight,  and of course I am sure you have heard  of   DISCRETION?  ty and tc



poise -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/20/2010 1:43:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

Im curious as to why you are avoiding Desi's question to you.

Psssssssst.....she is saving the best for last....[;)]



kiwisub12 -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/20/2010 1:55:35 PM)

I think she is studiously avoiding reading that question.

I hope when the new relationship glow wears off, that the lying (covert or overt), cheating and sneaking around is worth it.



Nslavu -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/20/2010 2:11:23 PM)


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ORIGINAL: windchymes

With my fingers.


I don't care who ya are, that's funny! AND a suitable response.

[sm=ubanana.gif]



tazzygirl -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/20/2010 4:56:01 PM)


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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

I think she is studiously avoiding reading that question.

I hope when the new relationship glow wears off, that the lying (covert or overt), cheating and sneaking around is worth it.



It will be "interesting" ( read that as amusing when the time comes) to see her post after her little indiscretion has been discovered.



OsideGirl -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/20/2010 7:14:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: secretlilslave

lol  for the  (snort)  osidegirl

according  to your  response  post,  you  like to  roar  in like  the lion and go out like the lamb.  hmmm?

It's famous quote, and I rarely go out like a lamb. The Dominant - Dominate thing is a pet peeve of mine. So, I get to snort in amusement if I like.

So, I'm with everyone else...why ignore Des' question?



secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 10:15:12 AM)

Thank you  for your response
Caring  and Real  I like what you  say about  the book part.   When I  think of  how I  feel about  my Master.  I  not  not know when  to shut up!!



secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 10:20:46 AM)

Let  me say.  I am  considering  my  answer  for Des. I  have  not  cut her question  off   completely.  I  do  think she is  being a bit too  nosy. Yet  I  will  answer when I am ready.  Strange  though  to  bounce  it around in my post  so much. Thank you  to the  other  slaves, subs, and switches  for your posts  and for sticking  to the topic.  Yes  anticipation is nice and fun.  I  will make  her wait a bit more.  [:D]



secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 10:30:29 AM)

Thank you  for  your reply agirl



MistressRosalyn -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 10:31:22 AM)

Interesting, she (the OP) changed it from, "yes, he knows" to "Discretion"

OP, sorry, but folks here take a very dim view of anyone who is cheating on a spouse. Personally, it has to do with trust...if someone would lie to the most important person in their lie, they might lie to me. Just explainin' is all.

Interesting post. I'd like to see where it goes after this detour.



secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 10:38:06 AM)

Yes  I did.  I  need  to not  let  little  things like post make me loose  my temper. That  is childish  and dumb.  The smarter  thing  is  make her wait and bit and talk  it over with  my  Master. 



secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 11:01:30 AM)

Thank you  for  your  insight Melia.  I  will  give strong  conderation  to your  words.



poise -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 1:08:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: secretlilslave

Yes  I did.  I  need  to not  let  little  things like post make me loose  my temper. That  is childish  and dumb.  The smarter  thing  is  make her wait and bit and talk  it over with  my  Master. 


What you might have considered before even making this post is what you are presenting yourself as to a
bunch of strangers. Sure, it's great and wonderful to be so happy in the life you are living. It's apparent in your
post you are overjoyed. Great!

But when you break it down what you are really saying is...instead of being smart and mature and putting in
an effort to making your marriage work...of finding ways to feel that same joy with the man you committed
your life to, you took a detour and now feel as though you found paradise. Not only does it show what little
integrity you have but I would also question the motives of your Master for assuming he had any rights to
your submission at all.

Sure, infidelity has been around for centuries...if this is the only way you can find your joy then have at it.
But to expect this room full of strangers to pat you on your back and say Way to go kiddo is ridiculous.

And trust me DesFip has much better things to do with her happy life than to sit around watching your train wreck.
Best of luck to you, your husband, your master, and to any children who may also be unwittingly involved in it.



Nslavu -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 3:29:28 PM)


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ORIGINAL: secretlilslave

Yes  I did.  I  need  to not  let  little  things like post make me loose  my temper. That  is childish  and dumb.  The smarter  thing  is  make her wait and bit


smart? [:D] I doubt she gives a tinkers damn about your posturing, except to try and help you wake up ..sadly ignored, but I think she can handle it....- The only one who is really 'waiting' to confront the truth is you. Not smart.


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and talk  it over with  my  Master. 


More of your brand of smart? Talk it over with the integrity lacking boob with no balls who is contributing to ruining at least two lives, maybe three. What is it you're not getting here? You're doing everything but smart.

I wish you luck in your denial; but I gotta tell ya, it more often than not takes more than a lot of luck in crawling out of the massive emotional debris created by avoiding the truth you are presently 'waiting' out. Seriously.



femasoslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 4:45:38 PM)

I love being with my Master (duh!), he does me feel complete, I feel very lucky that he is mine and I am his, We are getting married this year.

The feelings that you feel remind me of my earlier days with my Master when it was a constant high, to be wanted, loved and adored for who and what I am, to know that I am pleasing him, to know that loves how I push myself for him....etc etc.

To get to another point where there are others who dont like what you are doing, that, in their opinion what you are doing is wrong and immoral (basically youre in a vanilla relationship, cheating)......That is YOUR business, no-one here knows your story and frankly, why the hell should you have to explain and defend yourself?!
You came on here, to the forums, asking a question and wanting to let others know how wonderful your BDSM journey with your Master is going,  I feel exactly the same way, I feel like climbing to the highest rooftop and screaming out loud how wonderful I feel, how lucky I am to have found a wonderful man who thinks the same about me as I do him.
I wish you the best secretslilslave......what is going on in the vanilla side is none of my business and no matter what I am sure that you arnt happy about it. I will not judge you, I dont know you. Good luck to you.



secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 7:02:30 PM)

Thank you  for your  response.  MsMs Candy



secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 7:03:40 PM)

Thank you  daddysprop  for  your  reply.  [;)]



YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/22/2010 7:46:07 PM)

Quite frankly, fantastic. He is the most wonderful and amazing man that i've ever met. We hardly ever have a conversation that doesn't turn insanely silly, he's a total goofball and i feed off of that. Right now He's telling me that i deserve better than Him and then i have to keep reminding Him that there is no one better than Him, i've looked. He's kind, sweet, charming, handsome, loving and great in the sack. [:D]

He and i met right before my Grandpa passed away and He really helped me get through it. Then, my mom got diagnosed with breast cancer and she's been having a rough time with that, He's helped me with that too. Oh and then my dog, that i've had since i was 15 died (of cancer). He helped me through all of that. Every other man i've been with before would have run as fast and as far from me as they could.

He is the one who keeps encouraging me and keeps me going every day when i have to drag my ass out of bed at 4am to get to work on time, He forces me to study to get good grades so that i can get the BSN that i've wanted for years...He's, well, He's my everything.

He's the first man that i truly feel that i can be myself around, no other man (vanilla or D/s) has ever made me feel that way. In other words, He's fucking awesome and i love Him to pieces. Unfortunately, now we are taking a break so that He and i can both get things taken care of in our lives that require a great deal of our attention so we don't get to see each other but, when we talk i still make a point to tell Him all of this and how amazing He is, eventually it will sink in, i hope.



Nslavu -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/23/2010 2:49:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: femasoslave

To get to another point where there are others who dont like what you are doing, that, in their opinion what you are doing is wrong and immoral (basically youre in a vanilla relationship, cheating)......That is YOUR business, no-one here knows your story and frankly, why the hell should you have to explain and defend yourself?!


She mentioned it in her OP. Notice that? Even if unintended, it becomes as much part of the thread as any of the rest. Your attempts to set it aside as "no one's business" is what we call "enabling"
Secondly, for someone who thinks it's no one's business you sure have a lot to say about people here, who are trying not to enable her fucking up the lives of others. You're getting in their business by attempting to negate and demean their opinions as unworthy or pushy.

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I wish you the best secretslilslave......what is going on in the vanilla side is none of my business and no matter what I am sure that you arnt happy about it. I will not judge you, I dont know you. Good luck to you.


The thing about judging is that some people don't realize that compliments, kissing ass and kind words are also judgement, (they are just good judgment) they are also 'getting in someone's business' as you say, so you have made judgments, have been outspoken about them and produced an enabling opinion that favors people (like yourself from all indications) fucking other people over and not caring about those that get hurt. Perhaps you're trying to fairy paint your own guilt in a similar situation?









secretlilslave -> RE: How do you feel around your Master? (10/24/2010 5:59:06 PM)

thank you  for your comments windchymes



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